Shollypopzz:

-_-

babyosisi:



Maybe he had no responses from his 419 letters and taking his aggression out on nairaland.if it keeps him from hitting a woman good

babyosisi:

You mean women like dinachi and coogar okwa ya

njokusboy:


I thought you didn't know me before
And hey, I know the origin of your feud with freshdude... I hoped/prayed he was gonna stop when he pummeled your a'r's'e and had you running around like a pullet...

Goodbye again

freecocoa:
You know anyone can actually have an opinion here na, it's their prerogative, it's really not nice reading all these hurtful words.

Okwa nwanne gi nwanyi o, Unu rapu zie ife obuna na ese, biko.

babyosisi:

Hahahahahahaha
Everything I write about an abuser reminds him of his life
More like an obsession of his

cococandy:


Nwoke m pls stop mentioning me in dead issues.
Ignoring rants equals running
Replying back equals being verbally abusive.

You gotta choose what means what to you.

dinachi:

When they mention fraudster and scammer you start panting like mama nkechi on top oga driver. . Carry the rotten graveyard between your legs away from here. You are no longer relevant except to magas like shollypoppzz and a few other zombie asswipes in nairaland.

coogar:

whatever you say doesn't remove the fact that you are a:-
•hypocrite
•tribalist
•sadist
don't get antsy because i am man enough to call out your bullshyte. are you going to rebut the facts presented concerning women being the biggest culprits of non-reciprocal violence or you are going to display your agbero mentality tonight?

coogar:


the women are the chief culprits....
the men are just trying to catch up to level things up.
that is usually in self defence.

provide the evidence.....
they do.....
women can't stop talking or stop bringing people's personal lives on to the threads just to score a cheap brownie point. the case of mutter is still fresh in our memories.



i trust the men on here not to stoop so low into such rubbish. who went to an old post to dig up mutter's personal experience?

male or female?
and i remember her saying the kind of abuses she's received from the women on this forum is horrible - and she's received none from the men.



you are getting the message wrong....

women were justifying verbal abuse on this thread. they said verbal abuse shouldn't give the man the cojones to put his hands on a woman - provocation or not. that was what brought the argument.

bukatyne:
@ usual, thread gone to the dogs

Only God knows the survey that was conducted to prove women are more verbally abusive. NL alone disapproves that.

I am willing to see it please

A physically abusive person doesn't need a verbal abuser to trigger the beating and most physical abusers are also verbal and emotional abusers. I don't think someone beating their spouse would be saying I love you.

And the partners of most physical abusers are not verbally abusive.

There is also a difference between a couple that fight than a marriage where a person especially, a woman is abused.

An abused woman after a while would not even be able to talk.

And please verbal abuse is not disagreeing with your spouse.

njokusboy:


Mtschew

coogar:


or you need glasses.



no, she hasn't!
she's just preventing him from leaving the scene. she hasn't attacked him or cause him any pain or injury.



if she runs her mouth after being told to stop several times then she deserves to be slapped. verbal abuse & physical assault are all children under domestic abuse. one is not less hurtful than the other.

babyosisi:

That your description of the thing between ya mamas legs don old
Try another one
Coogar has better lines

babyosisi:


Ask the eediot if I knew who he was until mcdokwe's thread
The mcdokwe he was hailing and high fiving is on record saying that looking back he should have never hit the woman and that there were alternative ways he would have resolved the issue without resorting to violence,
I quoted him on that
He also says he should have never used the phrase " she deserved it on his thread"
I also quoted him.
He still wants the woman back as a matter of fact
But this character carried the whole case on his head and fought with about 12 females on that one thread who dared speak
Maybe he is waiting for a day that I will advise a woman in an abusive relationship to stay and pray or buy red panties to soothe him
I will never say that
Physical abuse is what small men do and it pains him that the true nature of abusers is being exposed ,women are no longer taking it and he has no more hiding place.
What he would have preferred is that mcdokwe 's woman stayed
She didn't and that goes against everything an abuser expects

In 2003, 44% of women justified abuse in Nigeria
That figure is now 22%
It is going down fast
Men like him can't handle that because they will be running out of victims

dinachi:

Are you a shema1e?

babyosisi:


The only two men that argue about abuse here,one is a confirmed abuser and the other has the tendencies by all accounts.
Go figure

Shollypopzz:

bukatyne:


I think a lot of them hold that same belief (on NL )

My own is that What is verbal abuse?

freecocoa:
Lol, he loves you but just doesn't know how to express it.

O ga ka nma ma igbachi nkiti ma okwube all those plenty things, the matter di zi ka ife umuaka, Nne biko.

Shollypopzz:

Talon05:
Today, I learnt, brothers and sisters, it's okay for a woman to verbally abuse her man but wrong for that man to physically abuse the woman in retaliation. Lot of jokers on here.

Quick question; what should be done when a woman verbally abuse her man, damages his phone and locks his shirt preventing him from "walking out like a perfect gentleman" just like some of you advised?

cococandy:

I really don't like going Over old issues except I can't avoid it.
Coogar you want me to go and dig that your post?
Anyway I won't . But it is true.

Was mutter's post made to insult her?
Whatever sha.

You're biased. At least me I admit everyone is guilty of verbal abuse but you keep ignoring the part the males play in the whole 'word wars'

I reiterate that verbal abuse doesn't justify physical. How about the guys who have sharp tongues, do their wives beat them up?

The earlier we separate the two, the easier it will be to tackle each one for its own peculiarities.

If we keep bringing up the issue of verbal abuse everytime physical abuse is mentioned? What about the cases of those who hit their wives or husband without being verbally provoked to it?

How will their cases be discussed since there is no verbal abuse to tie the physical abuse to? Sweep it under the carpet because we can't find something to justify the violence with?

cococandy:
m
Of course.

Nothing to say?
I talk, I'm insulting.
I don't, I'm running.

You don't even know what you stand for.

Ewuro4:


Honestly dear, besides walking away I don't know another method of de-escalating an aggressive situation like what you just described up there.

Reterliation in anger considering the fact that men are stronger ; may lead to worse physical damage or even death. you don't want that do you?

cococandy:


Family section is mild. Go to politics and see men running mouth like typewriters.

If only one of them will be honest and straight forward enough to admit that men are verbally abusive too.