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Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:04pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
coogar: Opponent as in the opposing debator. Ok let's not drag it out. When you start again, I will remind you. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:05pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: LOL!! Does anyone still remember what the thread is about? BTW, you can't debunk a statistic by saying, "I don't know anyone it happened to. Therefore, it is not true". That is like saying, "it's cold in Denver, therefore, global warming is a lie". (This is pertaining to your earlier post before the agberos took over) 2 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: Maybe he had no responses from his 419 letters and taking his aggression out on nairaland.if it keeps him from hitting a woman good Whenever I write of abuse it reminds him of himself I won't stop 1 Like |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 9:06pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
babyosisi:Liar what everyone asks is how a woman who claims she is the WONDER woman in her home is 24/7 on naira land. When does Mrs do good have time for the cursed hubby? Quit lunacy, your curse is already a serious source of concern for your ancestors from their graves. You simply have absolutely no credibility except the credibility of mama nkechi on top oga driver! 3 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy: No, you dont... I am not freshdude... |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:07pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Ewuro4:You be character o. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
dinachi: And somehow your opinion matters a. Tsk tsk tsk A over exaggerating air of importance I am currently at a boring CE class if you care to know And an olodo like you wouldn't realize people live on diff time zones.I am always here and you see it because you are always here too No be so? How did u find the thread? Ewu 1 Like |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
babyosisi: LMAO! I thank you for the service you're rendering. Without you, only Sango knows how many women he would have poured out his frustrations on. You are our Jesus, we appreciate the sacrifice 1 Like |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:11pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
coogar: So that makes it ok? I have history too with some posters. If I come on a thread where I don't agree with them, is it ok for me to leave the topic under discussion and start throwing insults at them? Meanwhile dinachi doesn't even need history with anyone to insult them The thing flows from within him without provocation or even relevance to the issue at hand. All you need to do is disagree with him and his next post addressing you will begin with "rotten pucci, maggot infested hole between your legs" (I'm still curious about what his fixation with that part is). Even if he doesn't know you from before. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 9:11pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy: you will never catch me attacking anyone opposing or supporting. what you don't realise is a lot of posters here lack what oyibos call the netiquette. they don't know when to draw the line between making a general statement & doing the personal attack. for instance, poster A says nigerian women are very violent. poster B will quote him & say poster A's female family members must be violent. do you get the drift now? cococandy: if that's the rules they have - why not? babyosisi also does the carryover thing. she brings up old beefs into new threads - she loves the vendetta ish. besides, she's a veteran so she can take the pinch.
i simply don't believe this..... dinachi is an easy going poster. he makes his points & no matter how ridiculous it may seem, it's his personal opinion. if anyone has a problem with his opinion, they should face the message & not the messenger. in most cases here, the messenger gets attacked. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:12pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: The private emails I get from women in hellish unions tell me I am doing something worthwhile Abusers like that eediot are pained by it The one that hurts him most is now on page 77 and he can't stop it That is his biggest frustration and he had to come in there to register his pain There are women who read me and run away from men like him. His private pain is now public. Like I care? 1 Like |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:13pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:I wasn't saying that such doesn't actually exist, the figure is where the problem lies, it is just too bogus, na aliens these things dey happen to? Haba! Sheck am na. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 9:14pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy:Hey take it easy. Everyone knows I am a gentleman on this forum. I bless those who abuse me. I do not lift a finger...except in self defence for public good. 3 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: You are yet to provide actual substantial argument to prove the statistic wrong, that's what I'm saying. BTW, the thread is now garbage, so I understand if you've lost interest. I was hoping we can get it back to the main focus. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:17pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Seriously though dinachi, why you like to attack Babyosisi everytime?are you in love with her? |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:19pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Ok I get the drift. Do you agree that guys here do it more? Before one topic has reached 20 comments, someone is insulting someone's father. Or how they lack male figures in their lives. I've caught you in the act before. I hardly see ladies talking about the males posters wives or insulting them. But a particular set of males on this forum won't let a sentence about Nigerian males pass without making direct jabs at a contributors husband. Sometimes they even do it when you are not in any way generalizing and worse still when it even has no bearing on tha matter at hand. Anyway since you see that, then we are on the same page. verbal abuse is not the sole preserve of females as has been proven by nairaland. A community of random folks from different walks of Nigeria. No better random sampling than this. coogar: |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by bukatyne(f): 9:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
coogar: Then We must be on different forums |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
dinachi: This is what is called advanced sarcasm .... Tallesty 2015 |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy: Dat emoticon does not change the fact that you lied through your teeth when you said you don't look for trouble... Problem with you, is that you cannot take the heat... GOODLUCK 4 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 9:20pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:Blasphemy from a maga following sheepishly like flies(shollypopzz) follow a rotten corpse(babyosisi) to the grave. Need I say more they both would be buried together in a mountain of idiocy. 6 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:21pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:You know why I don't bother myself trying too hard to prove anything on here? It is usually not worth it, tomorrow a thread like this will still come up and the circle continues, why waste so much energy on it? I no get that kind power abeg, na time I kuku dey pass here jare. 2 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by cococandy(f): 9:22pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
njokusboy: Wrong. I said I learned to look for trouble on this forum. And hey pls if you don't know the origin of something, stay out of it. You get? You only notice the ones I reply You don't notice the ones I ignore. Bye |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by bukatyne(f): 9:23pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
coogar: If a husband locks her husband's shirt, then she has gone physical. Till then, the guy should stick to guy his mouth Though I agree that Some women really know how to provoke with their mouths... however, they are in the minority. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 9:27pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy: the women are the chief culprits.... the men are just trying to catch up to level things up.
that is usually in self defence.
provide the evidence.....
they do..... women can't stop talking or stop bringing people's personal lives on to the threads just to score a cheap brownie point. the case of mutter is still fresh in our memories.
i trust the men on here not to stoop so low into such rubbish. who went to an old post to dig up mutter's personal experience? male or female? and i remember her saying the kind of abuses she's received from the women on this forum is horrible - and she's received none from the men.
you are getting the message wrong.... women were justifying verbal abuse on this thread. they said verbal abuse shouldn't give the man the cojones to put his hands on a woman - provocation or not. that was what brought the argument. 8 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by dinachi(m): 9:27pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
freecocoa:I hate to attack anyone except for public good as in the case of the scamming discredited lying OP. Imagine someone prancing around throwing lies left,right and centre trying to decieve people here. Peddling her fake life as an evil chemist will peddle an expired drug. In such cases, I have no choice than to speak out and stop the evil trend. 7 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:28pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
cococandy: I thought you didn't know me before And hey, I know the origin of your feud with freshdude... I hoped/prayed he was gonna stop when he pummeled your a'r's'e and had you running around like a pullet... Goodbye again 2 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by coogar: 9:31pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
bukatyne: or you need glasses. bukatyne: no, she hasn't! she's just preventing him from leaving the scene. she hasn't attacked him or cause him any pain or injury.
if she runs her mouth after being told to stop several times then she deserves to be slapped. verbal abuse & physical assault are all children under domestic abuse. one is not less hurtful than the other. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:34pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
dinachi:-_- 3 Likes |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by freecocoa(f): 9:41pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
dinachi:You know anyone can actually have an opinion here na, it's their prerogative, it's really not nice reading all these hurtful words. Okwa nwanne gi nwanyi o, Unu rapu zie ife obuna na ese, biko. |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: Hahahahahahaha Everything I write about an abuser reminds him of his life More like an obsession of his 1 Like |
Re: Alarming Number Of Nigerian Women Think Spousal Abuse by husband is justifiable by Nobody: 9:44pm On Mar 20, 2015 |
bukatyne: You mean women like dinachi and coogar okwa ya 1 Like |
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