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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Oklander: 11:25pm On Apr 01, 2015
Interesting!
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by freshness2020: 11:26pm On Apr 01, 2015
Ma follow with sty£
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Gracyel(f): 11:26pm On Apr 01, 2015
2oddMASTER:
just make money simple d girls wud follow

I beg to differ...Not all of them!

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by pius4luv(m): 11:28pm On Apr 01, 2015
nice write up Op
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by yahx(m): 11:28pm On Apr 01, 2015
30 comments 70 quotes 80 shares 2reports!!

Oya op post rest kiss
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:29pm On Apr 01, 2015
pauldehero:
bros abeg were are u.. I dey with my pen and book, i am learning alot... I done suffer for woman matter
Cos you be mumu that's why you dey suffer from woman matter.



. The major problem be say you dey see them like gold.


This time, try to dey see them like shitee. As if them be nothing.

If them tell you rubbish,tell them back.



No dey laugh with them to much.





Only apply to nigeria girls ohh.

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Hawlahscho(m): 11:29pm On Apr 01, 2015
Fairgodwin:
hmm... interesting
I get the point: if you like a girl, walk up to her straight and make your intentions known. Others I can deal with.


Even if you don't really know her

I oppose it.
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by nsidear: 11:29pm On Apr 01, 2015
As a guy I understand the feeling. But Approach matters in everything you do. In a girl's mind, once you approach, she thinks u want to get between her legs. Its now left for you to prove her wrong. How do u approach a girl? Respect is reciprocal, if you approach a girl respectfully, she will grant you audience. But dont forget that some girls lack manners. All in all, just be a gentleman and approach a girl respectfully. Time will still tell.
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by CORNELPY(m): 11:30pm On Apr 01, 2015
as fa. as I admired any lady such lady will toast me by herself by God grace no b juju milk atall
LOVE Z LIFE

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Gracyel(f): 11:30pm On Apr 01, 2015
realGURU:
GEJ TILL 2019

Hehehehehehe...You still dey dreamland?...Oya lemme come and pick you up. Wait for me at the junction ok?. lwkmd!

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Hawlahscho(m): 11:31pm On Apr 01, 2015
jmoore:
This op went to school and read womanology.


shocked read or studied shocked

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Boland(m): 11:31pm On Apr 01, 2015
Gracyel:
Totally on point. Anticipating the continuation!
Hello young lady, I think I know you, can't remember where exactly.. Check my profile...
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2015
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2015
Fairgodwin:
hmm... interesting
I get the point: if you like a girl, walk up to her straight and make your intentions known. Others I can deal with.
I heard a typical Nigerian girl will embarrass you for walking up to her with courage. Who likes to be disgraced in the public in a third world country? Hahaha...

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Hawlahscho(m): 11:32pm On Apr 01, 2015
judey1992:
i accept the fact that it is always rare for girls to date you if you have been classified as friend. OP you are so onpoint

That's if she does not av interest in you, if she does, That's d simplest thing ever.

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by brize(m): 11:33pm On Apr 01, 2015
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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by AsanwaKC(f): 11:33pm On Apr 01, 2015
okk
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by acidicTea(m): 11:33pm On Apr 01, 2015
Op.. Do the needful biko cool.. My data is burning wink
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Gracyel(f): 11:33pm On Apr 01, 2015
Boland:
Hello young lady, I think I know you, can't remember where exactly.. Check my profile...
You think so?..Cos I just did. Your face doesnt look familiar.
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Fairgodwin(m): 11:35pm On Apr 01, 2015
all4naija:
I heard a typical Nigerian girl will embarrass you for walking up to her with courage. Who likes to be disgraced in the public in a third world country? Hahaha...

Well, don't do it in public.
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by gingger(m): 11:35pm On Apr 01, 2015
Make u continue na op angry
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:36pm On Apr 01, 2015
nsidear:
As a guy I understand the feeling. But Approach matters in everything you do. In a girl's mind, once you approach, she thinks u want to get between her legs. Its now left for you to prove her wrong. How do u approach a girl? Respect is reciprocal, if you approach a girl respectfully, she will grant you audience. But dont forget that some girls lack manners. All in all, just be a gentleman and approach a girl respectfully. Time will still tell.
For this jet age.

This theory na for our fore fore fathers na.

He no dey work again.

My brother!!!

Go make money first.











Come reply me. By then you for don understand

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Boland(m): 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2015
Gracyel:

You think so?..Cos I just did. Your face doesnt look familiar.
Ooh! okay... Where are you based?
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Gracyel(f): 11:39pm On Apr 01, 2015
Boland:
Ooh! okay... Where are you based?
Ibadan
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Gracyel(f): 11:40pm On Apr 01, 2015
Fairgodwin:

Well, don't do it in public.

I wonder o
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 01, 2015
Nigeria no go change. After change don come.
See how many people were dey view this topic.


Na so una like women reach?
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Nobody: 11:42pm On Apr 01, 2015
Booked
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by KingTom(m): 11:42pm On Apr 01, 2015
CharlesNneji1:
*WARNING* Lazy readers...please, keep off, this article might be too long for you. Infact, this might end up being a long long thread*

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Lol.

Hair salons are very dangerous. As in, female hair salons. they are one of the most dangerous places a guy can ever enter.

Why?

Because what girls say in hair saloons can kill a guy's confidence gan.

How?

In hair salons, after hearing single girls analyse guys who are asking them out, you will come out covering your face on behalf of most single men
out there.

First, the conversation will start with a general discussion about guys...

...then they will narrow it down to the horribly annoying things guys do, gradually they will tear guys up and spit out how foolish and desperate for love some guys are. As she talks about the "mumu-ness" of the guy who is asking [size=40pt]him[/size]out, all her friends will throw back their heads and laugh.

It is an ugly experience if you watch girls talk about a guy in this way, some babes get bad mouth die abeg...and my mission is to make sure no babe ever takes a guy i come in contact with for granted.

Here is the hard truth.

IT IS POSSIBLE THAT A GIRL YOU ARE ASKING OUT, NOW OR IN THE PAST, HAVE LAUGHED AT YOU WITH HER FRIENDS.

But chill, what i am about to show you right now will make sure that a girl never laughs at you behind your back when you show interest in her.

My hope is that after learning this, you will use it and change how you interact with girls.

Now, let's begin...

1. FOR GIRLS, FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

Most dudes don't get this.

Baba, because she is opening teeth for you and throwing you 360 degrees hugs every time does not mean she is attracted to you in a romantic way.

For girls a friend is different from a boyfriend. and when a girl starts seeing you as a friend IT WILL BE RARE for her to see you as a boyfriend - ever again (Go and ask any girl).

Some days back i read an article where some dude was advising guys that the best way to make a girl like you is to go to her and become her friend and with time she will start liking you...

I read the article and laughed, as in, threw back my head and laughed.

In might work in hollywood but try it in real life and you MIGHT end up in friend zone quarters till you grow white bear-bear. You need to do something else - something else that always works all the time.

You see, girls classify guys into two when they meet them; it is either they place you as someone they can date or they place you as someone they can never date.

If she places you as someone she can not date, when you ask out let me show you what will happen...

- First she will be shocked that you've even asked asked out in the first place (You that she saw as a "brother"wink
- Then she will beg you that you two should just remain friends
- Then she will start ignoring you.

In that order.

Now, you might be asking yourself the following questions...

One; How or why does a girl decide to date one guy and decides not to date another guy?
Two; why is it difficult for girls to date a guy they have been just friends with for a long time
Three; How do i make sure that a girl sees me as someone she wants to date.

To know the answer to these above 3 questions, you have understand how a girl knows that she would like to date a guy.

and that is what i will show in the continuation of this thread....

I will continue the thread immediately i get 30 comments under this post.




For daring to call me a lazy reader! GBAGAUN!!!!!!! grin grin grin

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Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Edwardhead(m): 11:45pm On Apr 01, 2015
I no go talk until you finish ur write up...
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by nephemmy(m): 11:46pm On Apr 01, 2015
Don't want any idea on how I get a girl to date me...all I want is $$$$$$$,then bitches...$$$$$ over bitches man..that's it
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by MrDoGood(m): 11:46pm On Apr 01, 2015
Gracyel:


I beg to differ...Not all of them!

See you!
Send me your account details let me send you 40k for breakfast
Re: Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out by Boland(m): 11:47pm On Apr 01, 2015
Gracyel:

Ibadan

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