MzCorleone:

It still doesn't change the fact that he asked her to have a child first before marriage,he was well aware of the fact that she's advanced before asking for her hand in marriage.

Not disputing that , only pointing out that she is above 35 and the said complications may arise . She has a choice to either accept or refuse his wish , if you ask me he has valid reasons for wanting children now that the complications may not be that much

MzCorleone:
That's the problem,he knows she's desperate and he's playing on her emotion.

yeah that's my point...honestly if am in that guy's shoes I would do the same...

EmmySparky:
yeah that's my point...honestly if am in that guy's shoes I would do the same...

Why then border with an older lady?? U can get a younger one who's still fertile and with lesser complications.

neoapocalypse:


Not disputing that , only pointing out that she is above 35 and the said complications may arise . She has a choice to either accept or refuse his wish , if you ask me he has valid reasons for wanting children now that the complications may not be that much

He can go look for someone else then

MzCorleone:
Why then border with an older lady?? U can get a younger one who's still fertile and with lesser complications.

hmmm true...am not the guy in the situation...but some guys love older women naturally...cougar lovers are common...I couldn't help but notice ur beauty....ur pretty

EmmySparky:
hmmm true...am not the guy in the situation...but some guys love older women naturally...cougar lovers are common...I couldn't help but notice ur beauty....ur pretty

I asked that question cos you said if u were in the guy's shoes u ll do the same.




So u love older women??





Thanks

That guy is high, he is broke abi? Are kids cheap? He is not ready to be a family man.

How can you be too broke to have a wedding but not too broke to raise children?

Dumb question.

[size=18pt]POOR PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE ALLOWED TO BREED KIDS THEY CANNOT FEED.
IT IS EVIL AND WITCHCRAFT TO BRING INNOCENT CHILDREN INTO THIS WORLD TO SUFFER THEM IN ABJECT POVERTY.[/size]

tchidi:
Every nairalander has a friend that wants to ask a question..... this una 'friends' no de open account and ask by themselves ni?

Lmao.

That has always been my watchword: carry belle before marriage. No time visiting pastors and seeing visions of village witch people

ItsAnderson:

A close female friend of mine confided in me that her fiance wants to pay for her bride price and do other traditional rights. But he wants her to first have babies now because of her age. She is in her late 30s but she says she does not want to have her babes out of wedlock, Dat none of her sisters did dat and its against her doctrine but the man insists he doesn't have money for wedding now so they should first start making kids before marriage so it doesn't get difficult when she gets older.

She is confused as to what to do?
Please any suggestions?

does she still need an advice


I guess not
:
-://-:/:-

hahn:


There's a higher rate of womenm who lie to men that they are pregnant just to hook the guy. It has happened to me twice and I have friends who have gone through the same thing

* coughs*

Wat happened to the pregnancis?

why are ladies in late 30's and 40's always attract broke guys? na wao. pls op if ur liver carry u do it abeg.

If she is sure of what the guy feels for her and she is sure he is going to marry her,then she should get pregnant asap.

The man's decision is final. If she does not accept, let her àss wait for another man, hopefully she'll get one at 45.

From what i read he will pay her BRIDEPRICE N OTHER TRADITIONAL STUFFS......I dont get it? Aint that being married already?

ItsAnderson:

A close female friend of mine confided in me that her fiance wants to pay for her bride price and do other traditional rights. But he wants her to first have babies now because of her age. She is in her late 30s but she says she does not want to have her babes out of wedlock, Dat none of her sisters did dat and its against her doctrine but the man insists he doesn't have money for wedding now so they should first start making kids before marriage so it doesn't get difficult when she gets older.

She is confused as to what to do?
Please any suggestions?

Well tell your friend that the world is tailor made for her doctrine. She can wait for another 35 years until the wedding.

MzCorleone:
I asked that question cos you said if u were in the guy's shoes u ll do the same.




So u love older women??





Thanks

yup I am a cougar lover...but I won't marry an older woman...but when It comes to dating I enjoy em...I would love to connect with ya ...

let them do d court wedding/ registry thing first and later plan for "others". a little family introduction shld also be considered.

MzCorleone:
What's this new trend of getting pregnant before marriage?



Guys sha,always coming up with different ways to job girls.

aunty that is an insurance policy, girls of nowadays were go døn port since dem be 16yrs, before dem go knack 30, wetin go remain for pesin were go marry dem?

Late 30s and still forming, Traditional marriage is marriage, after they can do. Church blessing! She no srz oooo!

Orijin106 report here now

bebe2:


* coughs*

Wat happened to the pregnancis?

*cums*

Apparently, they were non existent.

She shld beta accept b4 its too late for her

Dis is debt, no u must marry her b4 u knack her apako,

creepsyme:
why are ladies in late 30's and 40's always attract broke guys? na wao. pls op if ur liver carry u do it abeg.

why okrika dey always attract poor people?

I don't support pregnancy out of wedlock. Aside from the fact that it is irreligious, the woman wunt be respected for offering herself to the man cheap.

He is not serious.
How will he take care of child and gf
My advice she should forget him and
search expentantly.