lacicrips:

Any woman who gets pregnant to hook me should be prepared to be a single mum. It has to be a mutual consent first or you're own your own.

The problem is the pregnancies were non existent. During the relationship, I was using the withdrawal method and they were hoping I'd cum in them after their silly lie so they could actually get pregnant. Just plain silly

mechanics:
ok o, to me d guy shud save b4 rushing, afta all, friends, relatives wil also assist him.

What if he is financially better placed than relatives ?

no matter what @OP or ur friend, don't do contrary to what u know is right. let ur yes be yes & no be no. marriage is nt a do or die affair. i have seen a 60years+ barren woman given birth & a woman doctor cut off her womb cos of cancer given birth so hope is nt lost for u. dat man after tasting ur Kitten cat & u are nt pregnant go still dump u trust me. if he insist u get pregnant before marriage, then let him go. God go bring someone better

Misogynist2014:
The man's decision is final. If she does not accept, let her àss wait for another man, hopefully she'll get one at 45.

If you had a daughter would you advise her the same.

Too broke for wedding but not for kids. Smart thinking

Naughtysite:


What if he is financially better placed than relatives ?

guy u dont get me, relatives n family members wil play a role. Any way d lady wil decide

Poor comprehension, 9ja education system has really gone to the dogs.

ItsAnderson:

A close female friend of mine confided in me that [color=#000099][size=18pt][b]her fiance wants to pay for her bride price and do other traditional rights.[/b[/size]] But he wants her to first have babies now because of her age. [size=18pt][b]She is in her late 30s [/b[/size]] but she says she does not want to have her babes out of wedlock, Dat none of her sisters did dat and its against her doctrine but [size=18pt][b] the man insists he doesn't have money for wedding [/b[/size]] now so they should first start making kids before marriage so it doesn't get difficult when she gets older.

She is confused as to what to do?
Please any suggestions?

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TrishaP:
Sounds like an ultimatum to me.

Kids before bride price?...hmm... I can't say much but they really should ponder on that decision.

Mistakes are easily made at this stage.

MzCorleone:
What's this new trend of getting pregnant before marriage?



Guys sha,always coming up with different ways to job girls.

Angelina996:
That condition is totally out of it joor!
Why will the man say he doesn't have bride price?!
BRIDE PRICE! Does anyone knw the meaning of that?
Like it has been said earlier by some ppu, let them "join" their purse and do a small wedding with their parent's blessing, that's enuff and [size=15pt]better than sayin he doesn't have money for bride price...[/size]afterwards they can do the kind of wedding they so mch want.
...But bride price FIRST...(It doesn't have to be much/grand!)

KingTom:

Complications start from 29 in some women my dear

Thank you sir,you are well enlightened.

MzCorleone:
Thank you sir,you are well enlightened.

You're welcome madam, just doing my job.

Tell her do solve this equation.

Late thirties female + broke guy = ?

Answer: Disappointment.


She should get ready to take care of those kids by herself wether she eventually marries or doesn't. Hope she is ready for that responsibility.

hahn:


The problem is the pregnancies were non existent. During the relationship, I was using the withdrawal method and they were hoping I'd cum in them after their silly lie so they could actually get pregnant. Just plain silly

Yes I understand bro. Have you noticed that every time you start reaching out for a condom, their faces usually change? Some would even go to the extent of protesting.

lacicrips:

Yes I understand bro. Have you noticed that every time you start reaching out for a condom, their faces usually change? Some would even go to the extent of protesting.

Tell me about it. Im glad im married now. THIS punny is enough for a lifetime

Acidosis:

Kandi Kandi

hey

kandiikane:

hey

How have u been sweets?

Acidosis:

How have u been sweets?

been oK. Got a lot going on atm. How about yourself?

kandiikane:

been oK. Got a lot going on atm. How about yourself?

Yea it's been a while I'm good sha

ItsAnderson:

A close female friend of mine confided in me that her fiance wants to pay for her bride price and do other traditional rights. But he wants her to first have babies now because of her age. She is in her late 30s but she says she does not want to have her babes out of wedlock, Dat none of her sisters did dat and its against her doctrine but the man insists he doesn't have money for wedding now so they should first start making kids before marriage so it doesn't get difficult when she gets older.

She is confused as to what to do?
Please any suggestions?

are u telling the truth

wow........nice condition

INDUSTRIALFAN:
She was doing bend down select with serious people

LOLZ

MzCorleone:
What's this new trend of getting pregnant before marriage?



Guys sha,always coming up with different ways to job girls.

Stop saying it like people just started d trend of pregnancy b4 marriage. it has always been happening babe

babyosisi:


After having kids,of what use is the ceremony?

Talking to Tuface? I know marriage is better than its ceremony.

Godisnear:

Hi, I couldn't help but notice your sense of humour, not bad for a lady

Life is fleeting, country no de try...
What's the use of compounding it with frowns?

Good afternoon. Hope you voted?

Acidosis:

How have u been sweets?

tchidi:


Life is fleeting, country no de try...
What's the use of compounding it with frowns?

Good afternoon. Hope you voted?

Well said, Nevertheless life must go on. Regarding the voting ish, I didn't cos Inec disenfranchised me. Don't have my PVC

tchidi:

haba

rokiatu:
She should be desperate for marriage because marriage is the pathway to happiness right? SMFH at this lame azz mentality. No wonder we have many African women unhappy and miserable in their marital home. They rather remain there and suffer just so they can all be in the numbers.

Marriage na by force?

na by force o. cos we have more single and unhappy women