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Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 4:36pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: Nope, a hot woman is a hot woman irrespecitve of her skin colour... I know, white is generally perceived to be more attractive.. it's not about black women, most pple would go white phone, white doll, white shoes.. it's a general something... it's funny how the black man has managed to be exempted.. I'd go for any woman I find attractive, her skin colour won't be a factor.. It's the same way some women attack the males here nd u re definitely not innocent 1 Like |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 4:37pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire:In as much as it existed and still exists, it's a fast dying notion. Black men are high profile and lauded - even if I think it's the wrong fields - Sport and Entertainment. Even in the US white women are just as likely to go for the black jock/thug. Even if it's pandering to a stereotype. Having a white woman aint a thing anymore. The truth is many black men find white women more forgiving. Less demanding and more willing to cut them slack. It's not the celebs that you should even be worried about. I recounted last year how I went to a party and it was mostly blue collar black (Nigerian) men with white women. The demands of our sisters here are too much for them and they simply opt for the easy option. At this point in time it's not about superior, it's more about simpler. Sorry! TV |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by coogar: 4:41pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: there's an economic aspect attached to it. don't we(african men, women & children) always believe imported things are better? free d'banj, abeg cococandy: they are mgbeke cos of the suffer-head looks. you guys forget no pretty educated nigerian woman would do video honey. the ones who are readily available are mgbeke. the core beautiful girls in africa would never shake bare bütts for d'banj.....the posh nigerian woman is highly arrogant for such nonsense.
that's the point - they look posh without being educated and they are willing to become a video honey. the posh nigerian women are mostly educated & rich. she would not do such a job for any amount of d'banj's money. i am not saying there are no beautiful posh women in nigeria, i am saying the beautiful posh women in nigeria would never agree to appear in d'banj's video and shake their arsës. so what choice does d'banj have?
there's nothing to accept. it goes deeper than colour. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Shollypopzz: I never thought you were fighting with me.. I didn't even try to create that impression.. I agree there is white privilege generally... who denies that... as for the light skin, I'd prefer to call it a preference and not a privilege cos black men still marry black women... it's not general.. I live in Nigeria |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by coogar: 4:45pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: bloody hell, is that bütt real? but you have to understand no one beats the black woman in twerking. it's a natural ability.
this evidence is spine-chilling |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
damiso:...my girl is dong fine thanks for asking. She's grown on me so much - she's now my official side-chick ! I may have to post pix at some point. Anyone with a grounded character - even with a colour/tone preference will not make it a deal breaker when push comes to shove. This is about hiding behind ideology and activism to validate your angst. Vicariously copping feelings and them getting all enraged when the object does not conform to your desires. I posted the link where I recounted how I was royally dissed for not being tall enough - make I dey form "Heightavist" as a result ni ! Short is as short does ! TV |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 4:46pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: Not a general preference.. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Stillfire: 5:01pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
TV01: I'm sorry there is a pattern and tendency to leave black women with black bastards. The black man is hypersexual. If this is what it takes to not bring a bastard into the world, I will forever frown my face . A black man would want to sleep with you and not take responsibility for the consequences. If you are light though and you have slutty ways he will make excuses for you. Ask Kim kardashian. Can a black woman have a sex video out there and marry a top black star? Hahaha. Black men demand a saintly semblance from the black woman but will excuse it in lighter females. 4 Likes |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Stillfire: 5:02pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
coogar: Hahaha Coogar is slowly getting the drift. You all need to stop deceiving black women and admit color is an issue. 2 Likes |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
njokusboy: No wonder! Light skin Blacks and dark skin Blacks experiences with racism are quite different. There are structures within the Black community itself that have historically worked to benefit people of a lighter skin. Historically, Black sororities and fraternities had paper bag tests. Yes, THEY DID! If you were too dark skin, your application to join could have been denied simply because of your hue. The NAACP was a very colorist organization. The NAACP wanted only light skin receptionists. But please remember, the NAACP was not the only one. Study after study and article after article shows that light skin privilege is real: In a December 2006, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette article points to a University of Georgia study that found, “that a light-skinned black male can have only a bachelor’s degree and typical work experience and still be preferred over a dark-skinned black male with an MBA and past managerial positions,” says Matthew S. Harrison, a University of Georgia doctoral student in applied industrial organizational psychology, who presented his research in August to the Academy of Management in Atlanta.” For female applicants, “If the credentials were different, in the case of women, the more qualified or experienced darker-skinned woman got it, but if the qualifications were identical, the lighter-skinned woman was preferred,” Mr. Harrison said.”The article went on to point out that, “Dr. Frisby asked 79 female college students — 45 white women and 34 black women ages 18 to 28 — to evaluate the photographs, which they thought were for an upcoming ad campaign. And 78 of the 79 women chose the light brown skin tone as more attractive.” Assignment 2: Educate yourself on the existence of light skin privilege. http://www.post-gazette.com/lifestyle/2006/12/26/Documentary-studies-renew-debate-about-skin-color-s-impact/stories/200612260092 As I stated earlier, it all boils down to slavery. Shollypopzz: 2 Likes |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by coogar: 5:10pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: is ese walters not married? who married her? white man? how's her case different from kim k. she made a church confession that she was rammed by a pastor for 7 days consecutively. kim kardashian slept with her boyfriend. it's what everyone does behind closed doors. it's not like people didn't expect her to be sleeping with her boyf. Stillfire: there seems to be a trend but i don't agree it's colour. the fact is nigerian women that are posh consider the job of a video vixen as a dirty job. how many women that have posted here would shake their ikebe for lynx? |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 5:10pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
bukatyne:Exactly. Which is my problem with this woman. Maybe she just wants some drama in her life? |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by damiso(f): 5:13pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
bukatyne: Yeepa you are buying into the stereotype It's not always the case. I was a very very dark kid and I was cute if I do say so myself cute looking kids depend on how they are taken care of and groomed. There are so many cute dark skinned children. Lighter skinned kids look more attractive though. That's why I don't want those kain talks around my daughter so she does not start feeling something is wrong with being dark skinned. People need to be comfortable with their own skin and looks.There are millions of women who are more attractive,more beautiful, cuter etc than I am but What can I do than accept myself warts and all? 1 Like |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 5:15pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
TV01: The below describes you and my post: |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by innervoice(m): 5:25pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: There is a preference for blonds in the white community, do brunettes feel discriminated against? I don't think so. There will always be preferences and sometimes they change over time as fashion changes. That's the way it just is. I am married to a white lady even though I have always wanted to marry a woman from my tribe. It just happened that I fell in love with a European. It was not a question of preference. My preference was originally for black women, preferably from the same tribe because I thought that it would make my life easier. However, if you meet someone who you think is your soulmate, color is not an issue whether the person is black or white. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by damiso(f): 5:29pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
TV01: Don't worry she is already half way to wrapping you around her fingers Lol @ Heightavist. While I don't get the rant on who another person decides to be with, I kinda also think I really don't have the right to tell her not to rant as I have probably not had the experiences she has had. Race issues would always be viewed differently by Africans and AA's. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by bukatyne(f): 5:34pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou: I think the thread has moved far from the OP The woman was not angry that Kendrick engaged a light skinned woman; she was/is mad that Kendrick rode on his sympathy of dark skinned chics to fame while hiding his light skinned chic from them This one too shall pass I wish the bro goodluck in his marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by bukatyne(f): 5:43pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
damiso: @Bold: Gbam I say it as I see it and your son might by cuter because you are trying to do opposite of what others do and you deny the guy of his God-given beauty I agree that we should be comfortable in our skin and looks Most importantly, people should have something going for them in their lives; discover themselves... it helps a lot and prevents one from hating on what others have I have not seen a black skinned girl left out in Naija solely because of her colour |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by pickabeau1: 5:50pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
TV01: true at the bolded |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
bukatyne:She should go and sleep. Even if Kendrick met this woman last week, he should be under no pressure for choosing to marry her. There are a billion reasons, more important than complexion, that inform a couple to get married. If this Strober woman doesn't appreciate that, too bad for her. If Kendrick would have a dark-skinned woman but none has the balls-licking ability of his fiancee, the rest can go to lie on a railtrack for all he cares. Preference or lack of is not enough reason for people to choose to invest in a particular item. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by bukatyne(f): 6:09pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou: For us maybe. We would all have our preferences I love black phones, watches and cars however I would never buy a black doll. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Nobody: 6:11pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
bukatyne:The first black doll I saw looked weird and wrong. |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by bukatyne(f): 6:20pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Lols |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Stillfire: 6:28pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
innervoice: There are brunettes who bleach their hair to become blond. Also White men prefer skinny women, hence why anorexia is prevalent in the white community. Do you see a pattern? The weak of the society will fall prey to societies standards. Anyway skin color discrimination cannot be compared to petty issue as being a brunette. Nobody killed and rap.ed brunettes for being brunettes. Please my intention is not for genuine relationships not to exist. I encourage people to fall in love with whomever. I wasn't brought up to see ethnic group, race or what else is out there. I have never dated anyone from my ethnic group sef, but I do acknowledge the fact that we do have a skin color problem in the black community and black men should not pretend they are oblivious to this. 2 Likes |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Stillfire: 6:36pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
coogar: Ese Walters does not have her ass on video. She can be excused. Lol, no I will not shake my ikebe for lynnx. But my point is you cannot put a black woman to shake her ikebe in your song, but when it comes to love songs this same woman is not worthy of it. It is counterproductive to tell black women to be natural to themselves, but when it is time to show that you mean what you say, you do the opposite. 1 Like |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 6:42pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire:I thought all the black males were with white women Ergo, there must be at least an equal tendency to leave white women with mixed race bastards no? It would also be nice if women could take responsibitity for their sexual choices. You make it sound as if they drop items at black womens homes and simply fail to return to collect them. What happened to the "strong/empowered black woman"? Stillfire:And hypersexual = desirable to women of all shades Stillfire:I must say words fail me for Kanye - or any man that would wife a woman of that sort. Having said that Hollywood values are somewhat different. And one thing I've noted before, femininity and submissiveness; I understand KK has that in spades. Take a leaf women. But no mojo clips. TV |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by innervoice(m): 6:47pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: You are right. There are white women though who love their brown/black/red hair and there are white women who are not denying themselves the pleasure of food and love their bodies even though they do not measure up to the standards of the fashion world. It all boils down to a healthy self-esteem because there will always be preferences. Anyway skin color discrimination cannot be compared to petty issue as being a brunette. Nobody killed and rap.ed brunettes for being brunettes. It can be compared but I admit that race issues have more severe consequences and that black people in general are more affected by race issues than any other people on this planet. Hence it is shocking that black people discriminate against each other and also against white people. They should be allergic to racism, no matter which way it goes. White people have laws against racism. That does not mean that there are no racist white people but at least they have developed and outlawed racism in many of their countries. They didn't have to. Please my intention is not for genuine relationships not to exist. I encourage people to fall in love with whomever. I wasn't brought up to see ethnic group, race or what else is out there. I have never dated anyone from my ethnic group sef, but I do acknowledge the fact that we do have a skin color problem in the black community and black men should not pretend they are oblivious to this. I am with you on this. What could be the solution to the problem? |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 6:48pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:So the idiotic utterances of a handful of musically talented but mostly unenlightened rappers dictate black thought and consciousness? Nope, women feel entitled to certain men and want to ideologically dictate their mate choices to suit their own narratives. Trying to pin it all on slavery/white domination is a cop-out. Rashida should hold that plank ! All that race voodoo has little purchase these days. People get with whoever. Sisters need to overhaul their product ! TV Kevin Hart - short ass, Lil' Wayne - troglodyte, Neyo - gay, Kanye - beta; and these are the objects of black female desire and arbitors of their consciousness - it's all over for the black race! |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 6:52pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
damiso:She can rant now...but it will do as much good as asking for reparations due to slavery, and will always carry the the hint of whining, and the inability to self-actualise. Loserbird! TV |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by coogar: 6:59pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: perhaps the bulk of the black women available for such music videos are not feminine enough.
there are few one size fits all. some women are suited more for the romantic stuff in music videos while some are just perfect for the ikebe-shaking. the face of the babe with the big bütt on lynx video barely showed her face - the selling point is the big bütt! |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by TV01(m): 7:07pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
Stillfire:So when you do it it's informed, enlightened choice... Stillfire:...but if others do, it's a problem My very first post onthis thread mentioned the fact that black men are never given the benefit of the doubt when it comes to their perceived non-pc/off message mate choices, but here you are? And given the fact that you claim that black men are "the black womans worst enemy", how would you answer a charge of your choice being due to "self-loathing"? Not that most black men would even notice? I subsequently said the only ones that feel the need to denigrate or justify are those that have the issues. And we still love y'all - regardless of your mate choices ! Shollypopz, please come and show us how slavery determined this one ! TV |
Re: Black Woman Discriminating Against Light Skinned Women by Stillfire: 7:16pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
TV01: Really TV? You want us to believe that this does not cut across class. Or the intellectual black man don't have this same preference? What do you say of these African Presidents? On which continent do you see a leader with a different race of women as his leading lady? Africa of course! Ivory Coast Gabon [img]https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR5-ayUXO3nRwq0OKjMkSgYDn9rDga7Xkqh522atRHtDQGQj2zv[/img] 2 Likes |
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