Mandu94:


This question tells me a lot about your nature. Xx

Gracyel:

Lol...wetin do ur tongue??

MrsChima:


Most gays do.

Mandu94:


Lets not be discriminatory based on sexuality either. I also didn't like that you used the word 'nigger'. Lets not fall a victim of what we preach.

all4naija:
You jerk! Haven't you read I've got a Latina chic?

MrsChima:


Latino male? Interesting.

all4naija:
Bwahaha...But, I am straight. I think Mandu94 would agree with me. She is a feminist by heart though.

Mandu94:


? No idea what you are trying to say here.

What I am saying is that you know that I like women and support you in your feminist-by-heart views.

I still think you really need to do researches on feminism because you have a very limited understanding of what it is all about.

Thank you.

all4naija:
Bwahaha...But, I am straight. I think Mandu94 would agree with me. She is a feminist by heart though.

MrsChima:


Oh she has seen you with a Latino male? Not my business!

all4naija:
You keep forcing it on me. What's with your feminist agenda on this? Trying to spite at me for some reasons, I guess.

Why would I want to have Mandu94 at the front seat of my super car, if I am gay?

MrsChima:


Because you are on the downlow.

all4naija:
Ask her if I look like one from my expression? I have no problem with gays at all because they have rights just like women or feminists by heart. I have Latina super model already, if not, I would have asked Mandu94 to visit me for some good talks.

Mandu94:


All4naja please don't involve me. You very well know I will never take up the offer regardless.

all4naija:
Ask her if I look like one from my expression? I have no problem with gays at all because they have rights just like women or feminists by heart. I have Latina super model already, if not, I would have asked Mandu94 to visit me for some good talks.

MrsChima:


LMAO. Nigerian boys and their lies.

I don't tell lies! I am not a Nigerian but half Nigerian. Nairaland is my way of connecting with my father's people and that is the reason you see me hanging up here very much.

all4naija:
I don't tell lies! I am not a Nigerian but half Nigerian. Nairaland is my way of connecting with my father's people and that is the reason you see me hanging up here very much.

MrsChima:


Oh ok the non-Nigerian side don't tell lies huh?

This jackass!

MrsChima:


Oh ok the non-Nigerian side don't tell lies huh?

This jackass!

MrsChima:


LMAO. Nigerian boys and their lies.

all4naija:
What do you want from me, i d i o t?! Go get n a k e d, come to Nairaland and say, 'wow! I am n a k e d right now'. Gross!

micktoxin:

This is the post I meant to quote, but it is whatever still. You don't need to prove yourself but there is a thin line between feminist and closet misandrist these days.

micktoxin:
Perhaps MrsChima, you might need to clarify where you stand, because most females are very quick to distance themselves from the latest feminist agendas. One of which was a recent blockage of equal parenting bills to allow fathers equal custody rights in USA.
In my opinion, the new generations of feminists are sexist. They have a horrible, and very well deserved, reputation as being close-minded, manhating sheep, indoctrinated by their women’s studies class to see “oppression” everywhere. They like to claim they are “equality” fighters, advocating for both men and women.
Make no mistake, women in Africa are suffering and should be given equal rights and more protection by the government. But you seem to share some of the western feminist views one of which is a generalisation of what all Nigerian men are.

micktoxin:
Perhaps MrsChima, you might need to clarify where you stand, because most females are very quick to distance themselves from the latest feminist agendas. One of which was a recent blockage of equal parenting bills to allow fathers equal custody rights in USA.
In my opinion, the new generations of feminists are sexist. They have a horrible, and very well deserved, reputation as being close-minded, manhating sheep, indoctrinated by their women’s studies class to see “oppression” everywhere. They like to claim they are “equality” fighters, advocating for both men and women.
Make no mistake, women in Africa are suffering and should be given equal rights and more protection by the government. But you seem to share some of the western feminist views one of which is a generalisation of what all Nigerian men are.

MrsChima:


Is this a Nigerian forum? If so, why would I be speaking about non-Nigerian men to Nigerians

I didn't know there were geographic feminism. Please share what "western" feminism differ from "eastern" feminism?

My stance is simple and euphoric....I believe that men and women should work together and respect each other's values. If you don't agree...not my issue.

micktoxin:

Dont want to be rude, but it seems there is a lack of comprehension on your part.. hey, you can continue with your pretentious cringe worthy posts.
And I have to say your other post was a poor attempt at a ridicule if that was ever the intention.

Mandu94:


You make some valid points, however not all feminists share the exact opinions because you cannot homogenise a diverse range of people based on their common fight for gender equality and women rights.
Similarly, gender equality is not as simple as it sounds. I believe men should have greater custody rights for their children however many factors should be taken into consideration such as who is more suitable to be the primary carer this could be either the male of female. Stereotypically women are perceived as better carers especially for younger children due to biological, physiological, psychological, sociological factors. This issue is complex but feminists are not sexist. Furthermore if you have come across the term 'positive discrimation' that needs to be implemented in some aspects of society to achieve equality. For example in the UK the amount of women CEO's and executives especially in the FTSE 100 is appalling therefore policies to encourage more women to enter higher rankings in business is a form of gender equality. In essence 'Positive discrimination' can be implemented to help achieve gender equality. The controversy about who has primary custody over children is complex because one could argue that its not based on gender but who is deemed more fit for the role. On the other hand one could say they are equally the parents.
I say women carried the child for 9 months, goes through the pain of childbirth and breastfeeds them, the physiological and emotional bond is ever so great. You bonded with your mother first. This means majority of women have that instinctual love and care (men do too ofcourse), but its that teeny weeny bit more. However not to say YES men should have greater freedoms regarding this but it shouldn't be exactly equal until the child gets older and decides or its negotiated between the mother and father.

Mandu94:


You make some valid points, however not all feminists share the exact opinions because you cannot homogenise a diverse range of people based on their common fight for gender equality and women rights.
Similarly, gender equality is not as simple as it sounds. I believe men should have greater custody rights for their children however many factors should be taken into consideration such as who is more suitable to be the primary carer this could be either the male of female. Stereotypically women are perceived as better carers especially for younger children due to biological, physiological, psychological, sociological factors. This issue is complex but feminists are not sexist. Furthermore if you have come across the term 'positive discrimation' that needs to be implemented in some aspects of society to achieve equality. For example in the UK the amount of women CEO's and executives especially in the FTSE 100 is appalling therefore policies to encourage more women to enter higher rankings in business is a form of gender equality. In essence 'Positive discrimination' can be implemented to help achieve gender equality. The controversy about who has primary custody over children is complex because one could argue that its not based on gender but who is deemed more fit for the role. On the other hand one could say they are equally the parents.
I say women carried the child for 9 months, goes through the pain of childbirth and breastfeeds them, the physiological and emotional bond is ever so great. You bonded with your mother first. This means majority of women have that instinctual love and care (men do too ofcourse), but its that teeny weeny bit more. However not to say YES men should have greater freedoms regarding this but it shouldn't be exactly equal until the child gets older and decides or its negotiated between the mother and father.

micktoxin:

Dont want to be rude, but it seems there is a lack of comprehension on your part.. hey, you can continue with your pretentious cringe worthy posts.
And I have to say your other post was a poor attempt at a ridicule if that was ever the intention.