kinglekan:


Nope that's not totally true. Some ladies go as far as stalking the guy and trying to make life miserable for him.

Handling break ups depends on the maturity of the individual. I am not denying the fact that some guys do wicked things, but to make that as your basis for saying that ladies handle break ups better than guys doesn't hold a glass of water.

Deejavuu:


Who says a woman is more emotionally attached? You never jam

It goes both ways. Some guys sulk for months on end after a breakup, while some girls dust it off and move on like nothing happened.

The way you choose to handle relationship issues is up to you and not based on a gender.

Lala247:


Im telling guys .. Cant cope .. They think they are coping but the hurt is real
Got ex wey still dey cry 6 years now still moaning .

jamillion:
May be u should dig deeper on this topic, I dnt believe a man like me will ponder on a broken rlshp....goodness lord! Y wld I do that, tell that to d love peddlers

pretty050:
I think is the guys, from experience it depends on how much effort you put into it. And women being more emotional make it more difficult to let go. Love died long ago

wiloy2k8:


babe if u go bk . u don suffer , na crocodile tears be dat ...
i do dat well . if you breakup with me . i just find a way into ur heart . make u happy and scatter it for u cos i know i got no feeling for u from the day u broke up with me ... then i tell my friends u dont know to play u . Bleep u and break ur fucking heart ... then u see me giving that wicked smile . hehehehehe . .

well i got no feelings any more . i breakup quickly ...

aflyingbird:
not really gender-specific but I would say women girls are more emotional, will cry, get sad , then move on. men find another girl asap to cover their pain rather than deal with it

Lala247:
Saw this and made me think

Do women handle breakups easier than guys ..

It seem s guys are more hurt and find it hard to get over it .. They turn spitful n bitter .
Women we cry n move on .

Pic below how true is it?

jamillion:
May be u should dig deeper on this topic, I dnt believe a man like me will ponder on a broken rlshp....goodness lord! Y wld I do that, tell that to d love peddlers

Lala247:


Im telling guys .. Cant cope .. They think they are coping but the hurt is real
Got ex wey still dey cry 6 years now still moaning .

Aitee1:


Borrussia Dortmond


Ok I'm Barcelona

ronald4lif:


Most women are usually more emotionally attached than men. Although some guys are emotional too but more women are. They are just good at not displaying it.

That men display more emotions in a relationship doesn't mean we are so deep into it. We just do it because it has been programmed by default that men are to show more affection in a relationship.

ronald4lif:


Most women are usually more emotionally attached than men. Although some guys are emotional too but more women are. They are just good at not displaying it.

That men display more emotions in a relationship doesn't mean we are so deep into it. We just do it because it has been programmed by default that men are to show more affection in a relationship.

U2ice:


Dts wt ur ex wnts u 2 believe...

Cos he knws if he doesn't mk u fink he's stil moaning, u fit go swear give em

Lala247:


Well its ur opinion its like saying man handle pain but we all know u wont last 1 sec in child birth soo thats how it is

Because wimen show emotion more it comes across thst way. But men cover theurs wuth thinks like "i dont care" etc the fact they say that means they do ...

Well you answered your question already. @emboldened

In other words if a lady breaks up with her bf, its easy to know something is wrong. It shows in her mood swings, being snarky, depression, anorexia, insomnia, etc.

Her emotions give her up almost immediately. The very fact that you agree that guys don't tend to display emotions during break ups is proof that they find it easier not to display emotions and thus have a better control over it.

In summary, break ups have a stronger psychological effect on ladies than guys because they are more "emotional".

aflyingbird:
ooh , good point. just 'cus a man shows more emotions in a relationship doesn't mean they're deep into it. this is very true . I know I said men find another women asap to cover the pain of the breakup but it could be they weren't deep into it anyway

anwo247:
There Is No Debate Here: men get over this rubbish very easy. Just one jottle of wine with friends is good enough to get him going.

But they tend to do many horrible things like taking to too many girls, switching to any beach available. ... men are somewhat consoled with sex they can get anywhere even if there is no love attached. It keeps them going till they find love.

But ladies will have to cry, and again culturally wait till a man comes their way. But at the eve of breakup, a guy cld toast 10 girls that same day.

kinglekan:



Well you answered your question already. @emboldened

In other words if a lady breaks up with her bf, its easy to know something is wrong. It shows in her mood swings, being snarky, depression, anorexia, insomnia, etc.

Her emotions give her up almost immediately. The very fact that you agree that guys don't tend to display emotions during break ups is proof that they find it easier not to display emotions and thus have a better control over it.

In summary, break ups have a stronger psychological effect on ladies than guys because they are more "emotional".

MzNelly:
We get over the damn thing faster mahn

Lala247:


What wts app ... U guys are mean men .. Wait till u see her again .. Water go dey fall from ur eye