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Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by AdamBrody1(m): 6:23pm On Feb 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

More like she dumped your ass , when she found someone better.

Lol, coincidence no? More like a repetition of history.

Better get yourself together and stop acting like a beat-up bushmeat.

Yawn undecided

Tired story! I dont know weda it is you i dumped or your sister and why e de pain you.

Abeg transfer all your consolation to the guy who was dumped by his chick!

Me i don do my own waka jejely, Over to you! grin
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Nobody: 6:25pm On Feb 16, 2009
densel:

If she is truly yours, she will come back begging and when she does,
Dont pretend to be god or something.
Welcome her if you still love her
.
wink
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 16, 2009
Adam Brody:

Yawn undecided

Tired story! I dont know weda it is you i dumped or your sister and why e de pain you.

Abeg transfer all your consolation to the guy who was dumped by his chick!

Me i don do my own waka jejely, Over to you! grin
Actually, I applaud the way you can pretend. You should go into acting jare. cheesy cheesy

But at the same time, I'm saddened by the way you continued to play the role of the "Dumped like a used up toilet roll" actor.

You know, you should always cover your mouth when you yawn. Rude agbero boy sad sad embarassed
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by cvibe: 6:45pm On Feb 16, 2009
Kiss angel, all the suggestions you gave are cr*p.  

Trust is more important in a relationship and once trust is gone, there's nothing left.  

Poster, if she ever comes back to you, you'll always be looking over her shoulder, checking her phone and be suspicious of her moves.

Let her go mate cos that's a dishonest woman and you dont need any drama.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by dani1luv: 6:46pm On Feb 16, 2009
ibkaye:

wink



Talk nna??
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by AdamBrody1(m): 6:57pm On Feb 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

Actually, I applaud the way you can pretend. You should go into acting jare. cheesy cheesy

But at the same time, I'm saddened by the way you continued to play the role of the "Dumped like a used up toilet roll" actor.

You know, you should always cover your mouth when you yawn. Rude agbero boy sad sad embarassed




Na wah o! The way e de pain you de tire me o!

Have i dumped u before? Do you know me personally abi na ur friend i fashi?

This one that you are taking panadol untop another persons headache weak me o! undecided

Anyway sha!

There is this new chick that started work today in my office! Jeez men this girl is fyne like mad, arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Boy! cheesy

Over set worry this girl. I must die there o! Heat fusion wetin u think? Advise your padi now! grin grin grin grin grin

Yeye girl! na so so amebo work e go de do, de patrol romantic thread like yellow fever de pretend say e de work for office!

Ekwenzu! grin
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Gettolove(m): 7:00pm On Feb 16, 2009
I am not surprised reading your post, what stunned me was your calling her for explanations, after all you have seen with your almighty EYES.
way forward:
do not assume all girls are like your ex.
this assumption might close your eyes to a more caring and loving chik.
try and forget her as quickly as possible, pls note that you have lost nothing cos she was not ur grl initially.

Your EX
if she com back on her kness, pardon her but second chance? dont, if you can. coz it wld hapun again.
but its no big deal, she is not your enemy.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by georgee(m): 7:07pm On Feb 16, 2009
@poster,
Mine happened 2 me while i was serving 2005/2006, a girl i lovED so much jilted me. She came back begging, but the trusts had already been betrayed.
My body wanted but my mind/heart didnt want 2 av anythn 2 do with her again.
Trust is a vital factor in a relationship, once broken or twisted can NEVER be mended.
As 4 me sha, i was deeply hurt,shed tears also and i only continued d relationship with her BODY only. She noticed my bad behaviours 2wards her after so many months and she finally absconded(2006).
I stayed like dat from 2006-2008, during dat time i had d fun of my life with babes cos av lost trust in every ladies, until late last yr(2008)Am happily engaged now(wit small fear ooooo) wink
The girl still calls me and asks me to send some money 2 her now dat i work in a bank, but of course nothing goes 4 nothing,
Na so she turn her life!
Poster, dont expect any miracle 2 happen, she'll come back beggn but i doubt if u wuld be able 2 love her up2 20% cos of FEAR wink
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by kingzli(m): 7:10pm On Feb 16, 2009
thats life, she probably wasnt the one for you
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by CrazyMan(m): 7:20pm On Feb 16, 2009
My Dear, Move on with your life; am so sorry to hear your story. Most girls are worse than the devil himself; they care only about themselves, their feelings, their thoughts and their emotions. They aren't concerned if their actions would cause pain to the opposite sex.

Like I said eariler, I would advise you to move on I know it's hard for you, but believe me, with time your wouds would heal.

And finally, If she comes begging in the future, make sure you don't acept her back; a girl who jilted you in the past can jilt you in the future.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by saviola77(m): 7:25pm On Feb 16, 2009
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. isn't that what they say?.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 16, 2009
Adam Brody:

Na wah o! The way e de pain you de tire me o!

Have i dumped u before? Do you know me personally abi na ur friend i fashi?

This one that you are taking panadol untop another persons headache weak me o! undecided

Anyway sha!

There is this new chick that started work today in my office! Jeez men this girl is fyne like mad, arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Boy! cheesy

Over set worry this girl. I must die there o! Heat fusion wetin u think? Advise your padi now! grin grin grin grin grin

Yeye girl! na so so amebo work e go de do, de patrol romantic thread like yellow fever de pretend say e de work for office!

Ekwenzu! grin
Cheiiii!! Kai kai kai, na me this thing dey abuse so, e no go better for you sad sad

Advice you say, ok. A lil advice for you, why don't you get to puberty stage already. . . .stop sucking on mummy's breast.

ashewo oshi grin grin
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Nobody: 7:56pm On Feb 16, 2009
Dont be a sissy, move on.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by RuuDie(m): 8:34pm On Feb 16, 2009
Aaaaawww. . . . . How Romantic!
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by phraoh(m): 8:52pm On Feb 16, 2009
c guy i really feel u mahn
but dnt use her 2 judge oda gals O dats d greatest mistake u'll make
u'll jes remain single
jes av it in moind dat wat goes arnd will surely come arnd
God is watchin,
evry1 in ds world has a partner ehn, mayb she aint ur ryt patner
wat if u had alredi married her and find ds kinda tin wich will be more painful
do take heart ok
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by kizzymack(m): 9:29pm On Feb 16, 2009
Man, this is touching, really makes me want to turn a new leaf.

Sunnyjean, you should have just taken her advice and met her the next day. you know what they say about curiosity and the cat.

Theres nothing anybody in this forum is going to tell you that will make you move on from a girl you proposed to. Just be a man, keep ur emotions indoors and don't even waste your time asking her why.

Also, you can forgive her but don't take her back.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by MrCrackles(m): 9:31pm On Feb 16, 2009
POSTER

Sorry!
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by dmola(m): 9:41pm On Feb 16, 2009
hi kiss angel,
i sent you a mail kindly reply
thank you
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by chamotex(m): 9:51pm On Feb 16, 2009
I knew someone would definitely come up with a post like this just after Val
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by viperman: 11:18pm On Feb 16, 2009
chamotex:

I knew someone would definitely come up with a post like this just after Val

haha, you knowwww, my sentiments too.




anyway, poster, cry, get sad and get over it, it happens to even the best of women players, talk more a guy ready to settle down who is blinded with love. Women know when a man is in this mode, and once in this blind mode, it takes a real good woman not to hurt you knowing you're 'blind'.

SIMPLE: Move on and start flirting(no random sexing ooo!!, just flirt) with your otheer female friends; If you don't have female friends, start making new ones, you have facebook to help you with that grin
make new female frirends and try meeting them up and hanging out with them as often as possible. Also, hang more with ur dudes. These will help you heal within a short period, though all through this healing whilem, you'd be battling with your heart due to this heartbreak. Don't think you can't get over it, It's normal .

Now for the main part:
If she comes back begging, as a poster wrote: make her beg wellllll, prove she really wants to share in your life for real now, do shakara welllllll and don't be afraid of her giving up. Afterall, if she does it means she just wanted to use you to camp for the meantime again. So do shakara till you're satisfied and when you see she's practically crawling on the floor begging, you can accept her, but not with wide open arms so she doesn't feel too comfortable like b4.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Pelumiv(m): 11:46pm On Feb 16, 2009
No b new tin say a girl u love jilt u.Man no b smal tin happen 2 u.4 me i no trust any woman,all of them na same! same!!.just try get ova her.period.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by coderXO(m): 11:51pm On Feb 16, 2009
Baba mi pele.

Leave her, shes not worth it.


Be well.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by notime: 12:02am On Feb 17, 2009
the girl aint yours, u're lucky u havent married her yet, move on bro
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by tolaakins: 5:00am On Feb 17, 2009
sori dear, just move on with ur lyf. shes not worth ur tears.[color=#990000][/color]
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Hollysmile: 6:03am On Feb 17, 2009
Heys bro, don't even make de mistake of takin her back all in de name of love. Know why? If she really felt sorry 4de act, better! But for her claimin right shows she's only enjoyin ur money and don't need a "master" to serve (guess she's de over civilized type who mistake humility for fear or foolishness). Thank ur God she did it before marriage. What if she did it in marriage, u could've committee suicide, Right? Mind u, if a woman can do anything bad in an ordinary (tho serious) courtship, she'll do more and deadly ones in marriage (when she must've gained grounds, like havin a make child).
Try as much as u can 2 forget her; say, by gettin closer 2ur best friends, spend more time on things dat make u laugh, And don't think she's ur last resort, God's got a better plan 4u, focus more on Him now (God).
Take heart dear, and best of luck.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by Nobody: 6:17am On Feb 17, 2009
, omo u don make me fall in love,, na so dbanj sing am.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by KayCyrils(m): 6:42am On Feb 17, 2009
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Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by jamace(m): 6:45am On Feb 17, 2009
Thank God our man did not commit suicide. Devil you are a liar!
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by ticktick: 7:31am On Feb 17, 2009
@poster, she has drained you
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by chidichris(m): 8:13am On Feb 17, 2009
Oga Poster,
no body break ur heart rather u are out to break nairaland girls's heart. u have stylishly painted a picture of a heart broken gentleman that you are not.why
this is a new way of luring girls to urself.

if u are heartbroken like u said, u will not have time to write a lovely poem like u did and u will not have the opportunity to include ur email address so that girls will write u out of sympathy.

the time u wasted thinking out this new method of getting at the girls could have been used in thinking out better and positive things.

if i may ask u, why buying ring for a girl u do not know much about? a u a movie star? maybe the non existing girl saw u as one of those big mumus arround hence she went for real men.

the natural thing of life is that people go for the best.

oga, if u are a football player, will u give up the opportunity of playing with chelsea for sharks of port harcourt?
u are just like a local team and the girl went for her val so all u have to do is to continue from where u stopped after val.
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by rumpkisser(m): 8:27am On Feb 17, 2009
@Poster,

What d u mean by that? so what, brother? Many willing birds in the sky; just take a shot cool cool cool
Re: My Girl Jilted Me On Valentine's Day! by rumpkisser(m): 8:31am On Feb 17, 2009
@BlueDiva

For the first time we share a common factor -or is it denominator?

Dont be a sissy, move on.

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