raayah:
Nice write-up OP!

How about us that have had sex before Marriage? What do we do?? Is there any hope??

libertyfather:


O.Y.O

raayah:




Does this mean that nobody will marry me ?

libertyfather:


U dey mind the op?...ur chances dey high especially if you are really good on bed

raayah:




Does this mean that nobody will marry me ?

raayah:
Nice write-up OP!

How about us that have had sex before Marriage? What do we do?? Is there any hope??

oluwashady:

Lol funny u
raayah... The ball is in your court

raayah:


Does this mean that nobody will marry me ?

raayah:
Nice write-up OP!

How about us that have had sex before Marriage? What do we do?? Is there any hope??

INTROVERT:
Thumbs up op.

As for the first to comment ask question.... It all a matter of turning a new leave and keeping the door locked until you're married.


Don't mind the lies all these silly boys say to get into your pants.

libertyfather:


U dey mind the op?...ur chances dey high especially if you are really good on bed

jashar:
@ OP. All 'em haters will hate, irrespective of religion.

It's more of a morality thing. For crying out loud, how many people will you sleep with already?

Cutehector:
tru chastity lies in the mind...

jashar:


And manifested in your actions.

Mcbussy:


No mind d op....nah so dem go dey form marriage b4 sex until dem start to dey roll for ground for shiloh at d age of 38 , while the girls they classify as hoes would get married to really cool and even wealthy guys at d right time. Nobody is saying a lady should sleep around, but if u find a guy that's worthy and u are serious with him, u just have to give it all to make things work.

As for me and d guys I know o... I won't buy black market. I must sample what I'm paying for. I hate boring sex, and worst of all, I hate stinking punany.

Let's say by chance I meet and marry d op, I agree to her no sex b4 marriage epistle... On d wedding night, if I perceive one foul odour, divorce straight away....hehehehe

Marriage is too serious to be kept in d dark... U have to know every bit, the inside and outside of the person u intend to spend d rest of ur life with.

Cutehector:
Another confession from a heartbroken individual... They turn up to be the best rship advisers... What an irony..

oluwashady:

Hey.. am not a relationship adviser, mind u am not heartbroken.
itz just a piece of word a colleauge share wid me dat i decided to post

damseyl:
sex before marriage is fornication

oluwashady:
I know many of you probably don’t want to
hear about what you shouldn’t do early on in
your relationship and I know i will get a lot of
nasty mails because of this post.
If you want to have a blissful relationship, don’t
ruin the chances by introducing sex into your
relationship until you are ready for it.
I’m constantly baffled when people can’t figure
out why they keep having failed relationships when they mess them up with physical intimacy. It’s common for couples to kiss on their first date, begin romancing soon afterwards and start a sexual relationship within a few weeks or months
of knowing each other.
I’m not going to tell you how long you should
wait to begin kissing, hugging and making non-
sexual contact, but I’m going to boldly state
that our bodies and minds are not designed for
sexual relationships until marriage.
The average Nigerian has at least 4 sexual
partners before they are married. They either
think each partner is “the one” or they think sex
is so wonderful they don’t want to miss out on
the opportunity.
Sex is indeed wonderful and very special and
saving it for the wedding night is treating it as
something special..!! Sharing it with practically
everyone you date makes it rather ordinary.
Here are just a few of the emotional problems
premarital sex can cause:
When you sleep with someone you aren’t
married to, they begin to get concerned with
how many other people you have slept with.
If you are willing to have sex with someone you
aren’t married to, you will feel the same after
you are married,which is cheating on your
wife.. Rates of affairs are dramatically higher
with those who engage in lots of premarital sex
compared to those who were virgins when
married.
Since sexual relationships were designed for
married couples, your mind naturally begins
pushing the relationship further along than
where you might be.
You might not even know the person you are
sleeping with but you start forming an
emotional attachment to them. Many couples
who really shouldn’t be together are married
because a premarital sexual relationship
“bonded” them together when they wouldn’t
have bonded without being physically intimate.
I’ve talked with quite a few people who waited
to begin a sexual relationship only when they
were married and none of them have regretted
it. I’ve chatted with numerous people who
began a sexual relationship before the wedding
and practically all of them had regrets.
Always remember this: waiting to have sex until
you are married won’t guarantee a blissful
relationship, but it will certainly cause your
mate to honor and respect you much more.