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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by intergral(m): 11:14am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Let her be |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:14am On Jun 29, 2015 |
RUN 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Rilwayne001: 11:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Alhamdulilah for her life. As for you, go find a Deeper life sister. my 2 kobo. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Bonapart(m): 11:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
tdayof:i disagree 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by nerodenero: 11:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
I am looking at your children if you marry her. Which religion would they practice? Just saying |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by AltarBoy1: 11:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
MuhdG:Good advice. I wish our brothers from the north will have such tolerance. Cos na after her first convert dem go dey call for her head. 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:15am On Jun 29, 2015 |
MuhdG: ISLAM NEVER PERMITS A MUSLIM LADY TO MARRY CHRISTAIN. ITS ONLY A MUSLIM GUY THAT IS PERMITTED TO MARRY A CHRISTAIN. SO WHICH LIGHT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT HERE? 4 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by damiloladuke: 11:19am On Jun 29, 2015 |
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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by sandrannna(f): 11:19am On Jun 29, 2015 |
The adverse effect will nt really tell when u newly get married bt when u start bearing children dats when u will know dat u and ur wife need to be practicing the same religion. On friday, ur child will go to mosque, on sunday, he/she will go to church. Is dat d kind of life u want for ur children? U r the husband, make ur worry known to her,.if she refuses, dissolve d relationship. Is she d only girl in the world? Sheee no fine girls for d church wey u dey attend? Abegi. Religious differences is not good in marriage, it can lead to divorce. I'm sure u don't want to be jumping from one woman to another. It is better to dissolve courtship dan to dissolve marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by freecocoa(f): 11:19am On Jun 29, 2015 |
People are allowed to change their minds so I don't understand how someone can think her decision is selfish(especially in this case). Religion is a personal thing even as deluded as it is. OP you should tell how how it makes you feel, if it's something you both can't reach a compromise on, then you amicably part ways. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by tdayof(m): 11:20am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Bonapart:reasons? |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by YSA06(m): 11:20am On Jun 29, 2015 |
If u truly love her, then sit her down and ask her to tell u her reason, from there she'll be able to show u some lights in islam. Meanwhile from there too, u will be able to see the evil deeds her uncle did by make her and her bro to be going to church when he knew they were both born as muslims in the name of helping their helpless mum. Smiliar case is lying close beside me here. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by ramalot(m): 11:21am On Jun 29, 2015 |
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Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Chubhie: 11:21am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Islam is a beauty. You either join her and explore the beauties islam has to offer or you walk the plank. 5 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by bukatyne(f): 11:21am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Yomieluv: She is just wants to practice her religion openly Yomieluv:. Salvation is personal so there is no collective religion; She was just going to Church because her benefactor was a Christian. She was always a Muslim at heart Yomieluv: Such issues are never to be taken lightly; you are lucky she is open about it. Yomieluv: The wedding have to wait till you take a decision Yomieluv: The Bible enjoins us not to marry 'unbelivers' Yomieluv: No you are not, infact it shows you have a vision of how you want your home to look like. Yomieluv: A lot and some have managed to pull it off successfully (outside; do not know the inner workings of their home) Yomieluv: Bros, except you are the Holy Spirit, I do not know how you want to 'insist' she practices Christianity. You are husband and not her 'god'. If her uncle feeding her couldn't insist she practices Christianity, how much more you? She might do yes and revert years after the marriage. What will you do then? Insists she prays? Insists she reads her Bible? Divorce? Yomieluv: First you have to decide, do you want to marry a Muslim? because that lady is a Muslim and no amount of insistence can change that If you want to marry her, you either: 1. Decide if you are married to a Muslim and pray for her salvation (as only the Holy Spirit can convict) 2. Cancel the wedding 3. Postpone the wedding till she converts genuinely. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:22am On Jun 29, 2015 |
If she becoms a muslim its not permissible for her to marry a non muslim. So talk to her and save ursef. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by tdayof(m): 11:24am On Jun 29, 2015 |
sandrannna:must the children go to church and Mosque? They can easily follow their Dad |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by nerodenero: 11:24am On Jun 29, 2015 |
YSA06:So if he marries her and he becomes a Muslim, it's no evil when she also knows he was born a Christian. Please advise accordingly without being biased. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by insecticide: 11:24am On Jun 29, 2015 |
the relationship has just ended cuz a Muslim lady can't marry a non Muslim guy... unless ur girl is a confused fellow. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Force her to practise Christianity or don't marry her.. let her rot 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by sandrannna(f): 11:27am On Jun 29, 2015 |
tdayof: I advised the op, not u. give ur own advice. He will choose the one that he thinks it is suitable and will be beneficial for him in marriage. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 29, 2015 |
AltarBoy1: We in the North have dat tolerance. D beb am datin is a xtian, and I'm nt gonnaforce her. To convert, if she wishes fine. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by efilefun(m): 11:28am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Yomieluv:Fashola is a Muslim and his wife is a devoted Christian and they lived happily so I doubt that's a reason to end the relationship or force your religion on her 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 29, 2015 |
[quote author=Yomieluv post=35276809] IF YOU WANT PEACE IN YOUR HOME, LET THERE BE UNIFORMITY IN RELIGION. ISLAM NEVER PERMITS MUSLIM LADIES TO MARRY A CHRISTAIN, IF SUCH SHOULD HAPPEN BE READY TO PAY DEARLY FOR IT. AS A MAN THAT YOU ARE AM PRETTY SURE YOU WON'T WANT TO CONVERT TO ISLAM. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:29am On Jun 29, 2015 |
You have your answer @bellong Hv said it all.if you have discussed with her and you ain't comfortable,let it go.Love ain't enough. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by PassingShot(m): 11:29am On Jun 29, 2015 |
misssclassy:@ the emboldened, when has one's decision to practice his/her religion of choice become a silly thing? We're talking of an unmarried lady here and you're bringing your emotions into it. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by seedorfg(m): 11:31am On Jun 29, 2015 |
alhamdulilahi for your fiance, he as known right part, may allah forgive her sins 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Gurgle(f): 11:34am On Jun 29, 2015 |
misssclassy: I agree with most of what you said but I think calling her silly is too harsh. its not insensitive to make a decision that will affect you in this life and beyond. on the day of judgment when God asks her why she chose her religion, will OP be standing next to her? from her side I think its good she made a decision independent of what OP thinks. but that doesn't mean OP should subject himself and future children to the consequences of her own spiritual journey 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:34am On Jun 29, 2015 |
PassingShot: I said making such decision at that crucial point in her life was what was insensitive. The timing is what's silly. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by emsheddy(m): 11:34am On Jun 29, 2015 |
wisefizz:Na God go bless u for me bro. We should have more intelligent folks like you here. I had to control myself not to react harshly to his comment. I greet u brother! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by POPVT: 11:35am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Ori b-u-r-u-k-u of the highest order. I bet you, she'll leave you when your baby would be about 3-Month old for ISIS or Better still train your children to become Jihadist. Young man run for your dear life. |
Re: She Wants To Turn To A Moslem. by Nobody: 11:36am On Jun 29, 2015 |
oplbycar:Did you miss the place I said "she should show it to him"?? If she succeeds and He accepts islam. Then thats a Win |
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