Gurgle:


yeah its testosterone.

women have some as well, but not as much as men

it can turn us into animals

tuk2ato:
Am sure few Nigeria women have, unlike their female counterparts else where

Gurgle:


as much testosterone as men?

you don't really expect you to join in Naija women bashing, do you? seeing as I am one

tuk2ato:
I meant as much raging hormones as their female counterparts the world over, am not bashing Naija women, they just like proving difficult even when they want it. And you have to spend a fortune on some of them before you get them laid. I wish I was in another clime where their ladies are much more reasonable.

INTROVERT:
Hell no, even if he lives @ aso rock

so you would never come to my house

INTROVERT:



Aso gini. When my father has promised me mansions up above.

Gurgle:


we do but we have control ourselves as the society is so judgmental and biased against women

reasonable=easy? or what

cant believe what im reading.

whats stopping you from going to another clime smh

tuk2ato:
I meant reasonable, how do you explain when a lady you are supposed to have a date with bringing 3 of her friends along? How do you explain a lady you haven't seen in person saying you should pay for her data bundle? How do you explain a lady that keeps taking and taking and not giving? How do you explain a lady thinking it is always the guy that should check on her? In some climes, when you go out on a date you split the bill or at least the lady offers to split the bill with you. Most ladies in naija are gold-digging, unreasonable women. Nigeria is hard enough, naija ladies shouldn't make it harder . And why can't they be easy as well? What's wrong with that .

tuk2ato:
I meant reasonable, how do you explain when a lady you are supposed to have a date with bringing 3 of her friends along? How do you explain a lady you haven't seen in person saying you should pay for her data bundle? How do you explain a lady that keeps taking and taking and not giving? How do you explain a lady thinking it is always the guy that should check on her? In some climes, when you go out on a date you split the bill or at least the lady offers to split the bill with you. Most ladies in naija are gold-digging, unreasonable women. Nigeria is hard enough, naija ladies shouldn't make it harder . And why can't they be easy as well? What's wrong with that .

ireneony:
seriously, I don't visit a guy's house on first date

Jollyjoy:
So to the ladies,wat is the first tin dat comes to ur mind wen a guy invited u to his house on a first date? Asin are there stil dates like dat? Honest response. Cc lalasticala,farano..

Gurgle:


ok I sympathized with you until the last sentence, still smh, I guess you cant help yourself...

I agree all those things are wrong but what I have come to understand about Nigeria is that the level of economic stability between males and females is very unequal, especially at a younger age.

I guess that is due to a lot of reasons but I think that has contributed to the parasitic attitudes of a lot of women. then they start to think guys are just meal tickets until they can find a bigger one. equally some men start to think they can buy women (which they can in a lot of cases)

Personally I wouldn't do those things you have mentioned but its easy for me to say that because I didn't grow up in that environment. maybe if I did I would be as money grabbing as the rest

the date with 3 friends isn't acceptable unless you have agreed to it or they are paying their way

data bundle is unacceptable

they do offer to split the bill but if I was with a guy I would expect him to pay since he invited me. if he tried to make me split the bill I don't think I would see him again

guy checking is bad but I think you can just asked to be checked on and see what she says. in that case its not about money its just about the roles youre playing in that relationship. I have been in friendships that are just as one-sided. some people just dont care, money or not

tpiander:


Bro, learn to say no.

tuk2ato:
I am not asking for your sympathy. And I didn't say guys force ladies to split the bill, I said ladies there OFFER to split the bill, not under compulsion to. And a date could be as simple as taking Starbucks or juice but for naija ladies it must be a banquet!

tuk2ato:
I am not asking for your sympathy. And I didn't say guys force ladies to split the bill, I said ladies there OFFER to split the bill, not under compulsion to. And a date could be as simple as taking Starbucks or juice but for naija ladies it must be a banquet!

Gurgle:


I mean I understood where you were coming from.

yeah I do that as well. I offer. but it makes it awkward, I don't really like doing it. he should pay mehn

yeah I would only go to a coffee shop. if we really need to eat a lot I would rather do that inside a house.

INTROVERT:
Hell no, even if he lives @ aso rock

tuk2ato:
Just drawing contrast. And there's nothing awkward about it, it just shows that you are reasonable.

Gurgle:


you with that "reasonable" again.

each to their own

Gurgle:


really?

I never thought of it like that...

just thought it was for...you know...

IamLEGEND1:


never rule out that possibility too.

i guess diz is one of those situations where no amount of advice can help you. You just go with what your gut tells you @ dat moment.

CHEERS GURL.

STAY AWESOME.

Gurgle:


aboki are you awake (and I use that term genuinely)

yeah its true. that's what ive been doing

im listening to a song called

sarakuna by naziru somebody

hottest111:

Shut up jare ..una go talk one thing,, then do the opposite

KingTom:
Wow, you're so beautiful

IamLEGEND1:


badt man is awake and alert!!!!!!!

would u believe me if i told u i dont listen to hausa songs? (save a few i listen to every now and then)


what are u doing up by this time?

IamLEGEND1:


badt man is awake and alert!!!!!!!

would u believe me if i told u i dont listen to hausa songs? (save a few i listen to every now and then)


what are u doing up by this time?

Gurgle:


OH MY GOODNESS

I said "4boki" and they changed it to "northerner"

wasn't even insulting you tho..........

IamLEGEND1:

LOLZZ!!!!
DONT WORI, I KNOW.

when i quoted ur post, it reverted back to àboki and when i posted it, it changed back to northerner again

Gurgle:

really, how come
nothing just continuing my day..into the next day..lol

IamLEGEND1:


i have no idea why

maybe due to where i grew up

#ICantReallyTell


happy sunday.

Gurgle:

wow
which way Nigeria...

Gurgle:


ok. happy sunday

will you attend church today? if so which one

are you really tall? and dark with nice teeth and beards, like ice prince