i'm with u on the freedom issue

Now I am a woman without a reasonable doubt and I truly understand the womans liberation from being in an oppressive male dominant society throughout the world where women are raised and forced to live our lives according to their standards of a woman and more. ( I also know this to be more of the Caucasian womans struggle, more than the African woman)

For me it's different though, I was not subjected to male dominance in my household or community, instead I was taught greatness mostly by men. Of course male dominance is different for African American women due to the conditions of our men and where we live. I seen it but i was not subjected to it. We almost crave a man to be forceful in some ways but not restricting. Our men say that we are too forceful and that we act like men. (Very true in most regards)

Some of my friends who were born in Africa tell me about how lot's of men in Africa are possessive and controlling. Is this the freedom that you are speaking of? 
I'm trying to understand because other wise it sounds like the influence of the European or Caucasian woman, which we know that her image has influence us so much that we have blue eyes and blond hair.

Help me understand?
Wisdom please

freedom to do what exactly?

prettyH:

i beg to disagree to an extent.I don't always have a boyfriend but i get lonely because you're nt able to call up someone and tell them how your day went. Or even your ups and downs. Some1 who'll understand and nt judge u. Gosh, honestly at times being single makes u lonely especially if all your friends r nt. But men d freedom u av is immeasurable.

ocho:

i'm with u on the freedom issue

@ Kenya..

The psyche of the African Man is quite complex.. I'm not even sure if I'm qualified to comment on it.. But I may be able to shed some light on some of his attributes.. Allow me some time to gather my thots on this matter..

For all the African Men out there, I need some help please..

we are now driving the bus here.... please stick with the topic.

I think it's still on the topic,
It's about the freedom some people expressed that they enjoyed in being single which caused them to not be lonely.
I think a deeper level of it has been brought up,

but okay you win this one I'll let it go and stick to the basics.

The thing about me is that most times I want to go deeper for some reason.

thanks, thats good reasoning.. I may not have anything to say here per say cos I never ever get lonely but I am amused by some of the posts in here ... ... lets have it then..

amuseeeeeeeee

@codec I'm still single and it's still the best thing.

icingbaby:

@codec I'm still single and it's still the best thing.

@icingbaby are u sure u are not lonely or rather S S S

There ain't nothing "best" about being single. It could be good and convenient but it sure aint the best men.

Yes is never the best.

Whiteshark you are a very lonely man please dont i know it you know it and we can help you everyone lets with whiteshark it would make him feel better, comeone whiteshark im your friend you know( )

legry:

Whiteshark you are a very lonely man please don't i know it you know it and we can help you everyone lets with whiteshark it would make him feel better, comeone whiteshark im your friend you know( )

Definitely

ahhhh  .... LEGRYYYYY.   U r welcome from prison... wen did u get out ehn?? we have missed u sha, well well indeed. I hope u have stop pieffring chickens and stuff oh.. U know how difficult it was for us to secure ur bail... no yawa sha, tis all good.

@ queenzy.......... .......U wan come test mi? ... Nor 4low legs oh...nah bad news him be..

whiteshark:

@ queenzy.......... .U wan come test mi? ... Nor 4low legs oh...nah bad news him be..

U no serious at all

well, nah u know... A word dem say is enuff 4 d wise

QUEENZY:

@icingbaby are u sure u are not lonely or rather S S S

I'm sure that I'm not lonely or rather S S S, I'm haven the best time of my life, why would I be lonely when I have homegirls, homeboys and family around me all the time to keep me happy.

icingbaby:

I'm sure that I'm not lonely or rather S S S, I'm haven the best time of my life, why would I be lonely when I have homegirls, homeboys and family around me all the time to keep me happy.

Hi,how are u doin?

I'm doing fine

whiteshark:

ahhhh .... LEGRYYYYY. U r welcome from prison... when did u get out ehn?? we have missed u sha, well well indeed. I hope u have stop pieffring chickens and stuff oh.. U know how difficult it was for us to secure your bail... no yawa sha, tis all good.

Whiteshark nice one now you are going to get it from me boy o boy you are in trouble

Loneliness is all in the head. One needs to be in a right state of mind to overcome the trying situations in life, whether u have a partner or not.
I think that you can feel lonely even when you've got a partner because you may be facing a situation or sorrow others don't understand or that you find you can't properly share. It's not all about having someone by u, it's much deeper than that. So single or not, loneliness can affect everybody.

@Alexia
There are symptoms of truth in this post of yours.

@ legs, bring it on mate....

@ alexia

u're right

I am prayin 4 all u single guy/gals though, something must happen soon in ......... name . Say Amen

boy! na now i know say u don craze

and I sincerlly believe thats why u sent me that love letter abi?? U like them mad I know but plase take anoda good look around... U nor see Seun or b4

watin? ok, once again u don misplase me, abeg do quick find me. watin do seun and ? who be ?

ocho:

boy! na now i know say u don craze

I am saying I know that u love me because u presume that I may be mad but I tell u that you have more crazy people in the land ( Seun and ) so if nah mad man u want, u know wer to look 4 dem now abi?..........This advice is free in total..