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Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by joe4christ(m): 4:16pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Kingsasian: My G, ya head dey there, your mum should be proud of you. Walahi 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
finditng: finditng is so on point for this comment, broke girls becomes loyal when you got cash and a bit of swag, close to 80% of our girls are kinda hungry, don't get me wrong hungry in the sense that they demand what their father can't give, i know girls from, yaba tech, unilag, iniben, abj, osu, ui and the likes who seriously never sound ambitious all they do is ask for cash and all stuffs, all wanna use the best phones and best hair ( not bad tho, if you can at least hustle with a job for half d pay) i know girls on Lagos island using bb passport and s6 and still living in their mothers one bed room apartment with 1 or 2 babies, i am not entirely criticizing our girls, a lot of them just want to have fun but are still responsible and considerate but a whole lot of others are just waiting to used all in the name of material things, i remember a chic i saw last month after about 3 years of loosing contact, she was all looking fine and sexy and when the convo got closer and fun things came on board, she ended with hope you know if i come and see you, i can't be expecting anything less than 5k oo, i got the message fast, she meant straffing things is certain, i wasn't bothered but to me i thought no difference from ashis in hotels and this girls in unis, same thing and u see them using the newest expensive phones and all and they would still call you to plead for recharge cards and subscription things, my 2 cents tho 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Nobody: 4:24pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Atlantian: I once had a lady that disturbed me with 45missed calls. same lady was ready to steal her mum's money just to buy things for me....was a medical student then from a broke family and she saw d way I struggle and help my mum in d shop. wat attracted her to me was d fact that I no send her. even though I was broke...I wasn't emotionally attached to her so she was d one doing all d chasing. now don't get me wrong, , she's cute and I've seen her embarrass another well dressed good looking guy just for my sake in my presence. I was dead broke den and funny tin is it's even more difficult for me to get her to date me again now that I'm okay financially. when it comes to EROS money is not the answer...your game is wat matters. a broke guy who is too needy and weak will eventually become boring and lose her woman...a broke guy who's busy chasing d paper will be attractive. same goes for the rich guy. 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by anigbajumo(m): 4:27pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: E b like say u dy make sense,yet to confirm thou |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Nobody: 4:28pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
But seriously rapmoney, how can you say a guy shouldn't go into a relationship simply because he's still hustling? The truth is girls are unpredictable,some girls are totally different from what you're saying there,you can hustle money buh yet, can't find that true love,I think guys should always be theirselves and not waste a dime trying to impress them girls, Having money before going into a relationship, how then do you know the girl loves you? Guyss are talking bouh independent ladies, who said they don't also ask for money? I don't agree with all your points, if you're thinking of having money before going into a relationship then you're in for a long thing, Money can't buy unfaltering love but can buy something tantamount to love,which is just sex, and lil fun....cause if you used money to win her heart,if @any point you go broke she's leaving you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by wolfrine(m): 4:31pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
I do need advice please, will u under any circumstance allow tolerate a relationship if your gf's ex buys her a phone? Even though she keeps assuring u dat nothing is going on between the two of dem. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:32pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Atlantian:This nigqa is on point... |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Tosinville(m): 4:35pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
otunsman:if every guyz be plain like you 9ja girls go suffer o! 4 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Nobody: 4:35pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Atlantian: chief life is not supposed to be this difficult. I can assure you that if you do all this things only...you WILL still lose that woman...infact she'll tell you you're too perfect for her dat she doesn't deserve you...lol...you no sabi women sha... Women are emotionally dependent. strive to make dem feel good by being a great guy not just a good guy. women are that simple. 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by ronald4lif(m): 4:36pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Grundig: Oops. Sorry I quoted the wrong comment. I'd to go through and realized I made an error on the comment I'd wanted to quote. Must have been an oversight. Cheers. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Tosinville(m): 4:45pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
GodsFavourite1:Really? Girl, I like you cos your way of reasoning is different and I'm not the kind of brother that impress girls with money........ If you don't love me while I'm still struggling pls bounce, that's my motto. We all know money is important in every relationship/marriage and to make your woman happy you also need that as well but its crazy when you discover a woman is only after your money |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by basilo101: 4:52pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Hustle, get moni, spend moni, get laid, dump her lazy ass, move to d nxt on d lineup. Simple 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Pdizzle(m): 5:01pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
The truth is a relationship can survive without money but its difficult. It all depends on the level control which most guys don't understand. Women on the other hand are very unpredictable, trusting them can bring so much misery and pain. So why not go for the easy way, hustle hard, make money and enjoy what you want in life. Don't justify your broke status cos of the few women out there. Most rich guys also got no game, they'll flaunt their money at whatever they want, they might get it but it won't last. So why not up your game and make some money too, the combo is deadly. 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by chubbyzeeee: 5:02pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
finditng:true man. thumbs up |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Etta64(m): 5:11pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
This is your personal conviction. As right as i think you maybe you are still missing an important factor which is live and love are two different things. Ladies are materialistic but there are degrees to it |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by anigbajumo(m): 5:14pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
All what I can say is that "All Ladies ar nt d same" Ther ar some ladies out ther dat they ar nt after yer money buh true Love... M'dating a lady getting close to a year nw,i swear she hav never ask common 1k bt she can jealous die nd dat doesn't stop me frm giving her money... Am a strugglin guy coz am nt yet to rich like my father bt damn far far frm broke coz ah dey work 4my money despite am a student... 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by efficiencie(m): 5:16pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Atlantian: Abeegiii... A lady waiting to dump ha nids on a man in marriage is not worthy of a madman let alone a poor man. Proverbs 31:10-31 talks of the kind of woman worthy of a million dollar bride price and many man wouldng mind going bankrupt just to gey ha because she is not just a bed mate, she's an investment, an inventor, a sage, a mother, a coordinator, a woman of strength and an epitome of royalty... So bros, struggling bros, the wife keeps the home but a girlfriend rents the bed in the hotel room...if a lady is contesting for your pocket, kick the scumbag out before you are ruined and you head for village in a pair of boxer shorts with a mat...Work, wait, watch, wise up till you find the Proverbs 31:10-31 wife that you'll be more than willing to spend your all on...and not a secondhand LovePeddler whose sensual, sexual and spiritual values have been thoroughly eroded by everyone including: touts, robbers, ritualists, under-15s, grandpas, spare part sellers and internet sex addicts but you! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Barrysleek(m): 5:46pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
[quote author=markmira post=37141542]U can only find true love while u re broke,and for the text and calling stuff a lot of girls love it.make's dem see they man as a very confident and social active guy if u dnt call or txt frequently they tag u boring then move on to anoda guy who aint boring lyk u. Funny how u guys tink u can play God truth is u dont know women at all even wit ur cash if a woman dont luv u..men u a waste cuz she will jst drain ur 40,000 mah bat3 then move on to someone dat will make her happy. Keep tinking u know all why others are pulling stunts wit the little they know..as cute nd successfull as drake wit lota award nd international recognition nicki minaj still see's a beta man in meek mill who acts lyk a child on twitter dissing drake 4 no reason, wise up u cnt predict women else u will commit suicide someday. [/Don't bring Meek into this Nicki is not a lesbain to date a female rapper. meek is a full blooded man not that emotional crab called drake] |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:50pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
This thread is on point. now where all those nairaland girls wey i dey jam for every front page topic, make dem come comment now o! i won read una views and opinions |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by davinhobadoo25(m): 5:53pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Nice one bro...wandering how most of girls will be feeling now after reading this. |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Barrysleek post=37161031][/quote]
nd wat make's drake an emotional crab?? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by ucheoluwa(m): 6:12pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
The virtuous Ladies are God's gifts arranged and packaged for d sons of God... Only sons of the Father can receive the gifts of their Father. Proverbs 19:14 >>> House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord. (AMP) Sons of the kingdom know daughters of the kingdom when they meet them... |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by bilo1(m): 6:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Rapmoney:u can never be more truthful than this 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by aknessy(m): 6:30pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Nice post bruhv! In retrospect, if i get the dough and I bring a Range Rover to the table what is her own contribution? LOVE, LOYALTY AND what.., that ASSs? fuucck that!! My mumma is hungry in the villa jor!!!!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by silverr(f): 6:33pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Atlantian: You need love in your life. After all the angels worship you, with love you know is fake, all the G-Wagons, pools etc, what do you do about the emptiness deep within. Who can you truly share happiness and grow old with? How do you feel around a couple in love? It's not too late. At the end, it's all vanity. #IveBeenThere 2 Likes |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by dopeJemi: 6:40pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
finditng: As in, you took every word right out of my mouth, I was about saying the same thing, then I decided to take my time to read your post, I was amazed that two people who don't know each other could have the same mind I would duff my hat for you right now if I were in front of you... well done 1 Like |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Lol.....same here....abeg free Naija babes ooo...e don do |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by berbz(m): 6:58pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
In fact, am so disappointed in dis post and the guy who posted this. Is this advise for a guy struggling? I think what u are supposed to say is to give advise how a struggling guy can work hard to get his money in his pocket and those that left him during hard times, should always find their way back... for instance, look at Olamide wife, they av been dating since wen Olamide doesn't av any dime. Look at them now. He is married to the lady. I think if a guy who is struggling is in a relationship whr material things is the priority. He should leave the lady and find a way to be successful... don't u knw that's why some guys get involved in rituals, stealing, all for the sake of this material thing. PLS BE sensible guy |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by wristbangle: 7:00pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
boboLIL: wetin u expect? Before nko? |
Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by Princepioneer(m): 7:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
markmira:this OP havent seen whr ladies collects from the rich guy and gives to the struggling guy who she is truly in luv with...... Luv is not all about money 1 Like |
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