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I sympathize with you.......I keep telling my gender spending on girls is a bad investment!

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falconey:
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Why?

Honestly dear, would advice you to breakup with her cuz I think she's nothing more than a gold digger.. If you continue with her she might weigh you down and you might loose sight of the one girl that might be yours

lemme read the post first, @op modified Bros e! Abeg, make sure you tattoo your name in that ass. Don't backoff now, you have come this far.

I relate your story to this!

SUGARBEE:
Honestly dear, would advice you to breakup with her cuz I think she's nothing more than a gold digger.. If you continue with her she might weigh you down and you might loose sight of the one girl that might be yours

Thats what i am thinking now. But what made u call her a gold digger. Just a girls point of view needed

175:
I relate your story to this!

Confused?? pls explain lol

Seandexter:


Thats what i am thinking now. But what made u call her a gold digger. Just a girls point of view needed

You figure it out yourself..

SUGARBEE:


You figure it out yourself..

I don't usually think straight when it comes to this chick, i am sure u can tell by the post. It will be good to put out a few pointers

HDee:
lemme read the post first, @op modified Bros e! Abeg, make sure you tattoo your name in that ass. Don't backoff now, you have come this far.

lol...u dey mock me

Seandexter:

Confused?? pls explain lol

. The lady is ripping you apart just as City did to Chelsea!

175:
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The lady is ripping you apart just as City did to Chelsea!

I am seeing that now....and it is very bad sef. cos its three times now in 18 months. still no sex and investments dan plenty. So u feel quitting is the best thing?? And why is she playing it this way? I was convinced she was down when she first came over last year but since then na game she dey play

Falconey was right

Seandexter:


I am seeing that now....and it is very bad sef. cos its three times now in 18 months. still no sex and investments dan plenty. So u feel quitting is the best thing?? And why is she playing it this way? I was convinced she was down when she first came over last year but since then na game she dey play

Don't quit yet!
Don't spend again!
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Instead, play her into having sex with you and rip her v-jay apart with your Ajaokuta Steel Rod.

Seandexter:


lol...u dey mock me

no.. Ain't mocking you boss, just an advice. You can't just spend your money for nothing.

175:


Don't quit yet!
Don't spend again!
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Instead, play her into having sex with you and rip her v-jay apart with your Ajaokuta Steel Rod.

yea.. He gets it.

175:


Don't quit yet!
Don't spend again!
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Instead, play her into having sex with you and rip her v-jay apart with your Ajaokuta Steel Rod.

Ok i have tried playing her but she seems a step ahead all the time. She dan study me die. I never intended on spending on her but she found a way. Advice me on how to turn this around.

HDee:
no.. Ain't mocking you boss, just an advice. You can't just spend your money for nothing.

As in thats the thing. This trip alone i spent around 70k on her. It is becoming obsessive

donholy28:
Op if u post this same thing again i will flog u

na the way he dey do me for body o.

HDee:
yea.. He gets it.

lol

I have watched exactly this film before.

This ur film sweet die.....

















Even though ur brain na Push and Work..

BANGERLEE1:
This ur film sweet die.....

















Even though ur brain na Push and Work..

push and work ke?

MsBliss:
I have watched exactly this film before.

Really??

ybros you are on an advance friend zone.

akins56:
ybros you are on an advance friend zone.

advance friend zone?? despite all the making out? I fingered her as well

Dude you are going to need to get over your lady friend very quickly. Been there, it doesnt end well for you

Seandexter:
This story has gone on for too long and it has taken its toll on me. I have been on and off with this girl for a while now. Nothing official though. I am based in jand and she in naija (uni lag). We met in naija and exchanged details. She came to jand on hols and we hooked up. I made the mistake of coming on too strong for sex early on and which apparently turned her off and we argued a lot on this. But this babe still dey come see me and i dey take her out and spent on her but we just kissed couple of times despite me wanting more. When she left i actually had a breakdown. It felt like her rejecting my sexual advances was like me getting slapped mentally. I eventually moved on and dated after that which she was aware of. She tried to come around when i was naija again but didn't let her as i was dating.

Me and my GF broke up and suddenly i am thinking of her again (to be fair i never really stopped). We reconnected and started talking again. She claims she likes me but cannot jump into anything due to me knowing some of her family members and our fight history. But she still comes around a lot n we talked nearly everyday. we make out, fingered her once but she won't let me go further. She still managed to bill me while doing all this. Now i am back in jand and i have let her know she is just taking advantage of my feelings for her. We aint talking right now. I still feel that she has the edge on me or something. I feel down on it which is why i keep going back i guess. The question is how do i break this hold? I know have sex right?? but i think she also knows this and is playing her cards right.

Also the chick says she likes me a lot but think she is just playing me cos why would u like a guy and not have sex with him after all this while. She is not a virgin and she is probably sexual active. I don't know why but for some reason i feel cheated. Everyone is telling me to move on now that this is taken too much out of me. Everytime you and this babe have anything u end up feeling bad. I am just confused cos moving on means losing and no way to recoup the investment made. I know i sound cheap or rude but i am just saying it now as i feel.

uche92:
Dude you are going to need to get over your lady friend very quickly. Been there, it doesnt end well for you

How did it end for you? lol

Maybe she playiing hard to get or she dating someone to and wants to see if her own relationship messes up before coming back to you

keeptalkin:
Maybe she playiing hard to get or she dating someone to and wants to see if her own relationship messes up before coming back to you

I have heard all this. hard to get, keeping me there, playing me. All not good. need to move on