all4naija:

The most interesting about her is that she is very quick to generalize about men. That is what feminists do. Men are always their nightmares yet some of them want to get married to them!

BeastOfNoNation:


I have the capability of doing both so don't underestimate me. My mother always told me that I can have everything I want in life. A family and A legacy. Obviously I won't compromise either one and I will take things one step at a time. But to tell me that I can only do one for the rest of my life will be a disservice to the people I'm planning on helping in the future. I'm a born humanitarian this much is true. I will have a name that will last all of history but I will also have that family that will love me for even longer. #LevelsDonChange

pinceprinz:


husband
1) Someone who has your back when you
need it, but knows when to get the hell out of
your way when he has to. Always fixing
things, keeping you warm, and that fuzzy soft
happy feeling that he usually creates.
2)Also, apparently something most of the
previous definition submitters haven't the
personality to attract.
3)
Superman to the right woman.

all4naija:
That is submissiveness though! When nature calls! Bwahaha... You aren't a feminist!

BeastOfNoNation:


Who told you a man is my nightmare You say I'm quick to generalize men but I haven't. This thread is about misogynistic men. If you are not misogynistic then clap for yourself. You are a decent human being. If you believe that a woman is a slave to you then this thread is for you.

all4naija:

The most interesting about her is that she is very quick to generalize about men. That is what feminists do. Men are always their nightmares yet some of them want to get married to them!

BeastOfNoNation:


What are you saying? Is it only men that enjoy in sex?

all4naija:
She is going to kill you for this palpable connotations!

pinceprinz:





Somebody has to die for our 'truth' y'know

all4naija:
The truth hurts!

all4naija:
Lol... You admit the error of the title yet refuse to change it. You are very hypocritical while looking at your dismissal of generalizing men in this post.

all4naija:
The truth hurts! She is going to date the dude, see the family, have his hand in marriage and foot the bills.

BeastOfNoNation:


Has it ever occurred to you that since this is my first thread, I don't know how to change it? I've been trying to for some time now. I don't see the need for insult. And when I created this thread, I asked for constructive discussion. Aand what I've gotten from you and @pinceprinz is prayer that I will fail in life, be divorced, move to Jupiter, sleep my way to the top, not find anybody to marry me, be a slave if I want to marry, be objectified, and I've been told that I can't differentiate between a snake and an eel. All of this because I'm a woman who wants to achieve and have a name in the future the same way any man would want to achieve. God punish the both of you

Why didn't you say so when I repeatedly ask the same thing in my posts? Nobody is trying to threaten you here. Oh, please...! You are becoming emotional now. A feminist is supposed to man-up for feminism sake!

all4naija:

Why didn't you say so when I repeatedly ask the same thing in my posts? Nobody is trying to threaten you here. Oh, please...! You are becoming emotional now. A feminist is supposed to man-up for feminism sake!

all4naija:
@ BeastOfNoNation

What kind of man would you like to get married to? Let me put it properly. What kind of man are you going to marry?

BeastOfNoNation:


Has it ever occurred to you that since this is my first thread, I don't know how to change it? I've been trying to for some time now. I don't see the need for insult. And when I created this thread, I asked for constructive discussion. Aand what I've gotten from you and @pinceprinz is prayer that I will fail in life, be divorced, move to Jupiter, sleep my way to the top, not find anybody to marry me, be a slave if I want to marry, be objectified, and I've been told that I can't differentiate between a snake and an eel. All of this because I'm a woman who wants to achieve and have a name in the future the same way any man would want to achieve. God punish the both of you

pinceprinz:






Ok ok now let me take it one step at a time

To change the topic, Go back to your profile, click on this very thread, brings you back to page zero , scroll down your supporting write up and click on modify. On clicking modify, brings you to that write-up page where you'll be able to change your topic to suit warever


Is this discussion not constructive enough? I mean you dot expect éveryone to share your thoughts on a thread this controversial. That we actually sounded metaphorical don't amount to insult sweet! We were only trying to make our point sink into your big head suffering from high degree af entropy


You know what? We're MEN ! The dominant specie, the alpha positive, the rugged and we RuLE the world cos I ts our birth right. Now, that doesn't mean you don't have the right to be warever u wanna be as a woman, but warever you are or u become will / should be to support / complement warever the man has already visualized /created

BeastOfNoNation:


I'm becoming emotional? I'm being humble as I'm hearing your immature comments. I'm pointing out the kind of abuses you've been throwing my way. I'm not going to sink to your level and start insulting people and cursing people I've never met. How can you tell someone she will divorce while she is still pregnant? Have I become your enemy that you will be wishing for these kind of things on me? Did I say you should be rendered impotent and live in a constant state of poverty for the rest of your life because I disagree with your point of view? I'm holding myself now because God knows I won't be banned from Nairaland on my first thread.

Yes, you did in your prior post. You can't deny that. After all you claim to be a feminist. Nevertheless, I am not against fighting for gender equality but trying to use feminism as an avenue to have your way through is going to be difficult and may cause you more emotional harm like we've just witnessed in your previous comment.

Oh, my goodness! So you take the divorce part of my earlier post very serious when you know it is part of the arguments. Excepting you aren't willing to face reality of defending what you advocate for. It takes all those to be what you have to fight for in the course of your movement. Nobody is going to hand the rights to you on a platter of gold. You must be strong and daring to take them. Come on, lady, go and fight for your rights - the rights of gender equality not feminism!

BeastOfNoNation:


An independent man whose manhood is not easily threatened by a working and goal driven woman. A man who also has goals to achieve and a name to make for himself. A husband who respects me the way I respect him. Understands that YES I'm a woman but that doesn't mean my brain is working at half capacity. A man who is my best friend and loves me the way I love him. Gbam. Is anything I wished for impossible?

BeastOfNoNation:


Thank you for telling me how to change the topic name

pinceprinz:



Baby, I swear to God, feminists don't sound this way! Human rights activist is exactly the it I feel you are ! Chikena!!

all4naija:

The problem is that she doesn't understand what feminism is all about. The worse thing of the argument is that she is denying it.

BeastOfNoNation:


An independent man whose manhood is not easily threatened by a working and goal driven woman. A man who also has goals to achieve and a name to make for himself. A husband who respects me the way I respect him. Understands that YES I'm a woman but that doesn't mean my brain is working at half capacity. A man who is my best friend and loves me the way I love him. Gbam. Is anything I wished for impossible?

pinceprinz:



Its unusual ! Folks find it hard to admit 'I don't know what I was saying'

At least we know what she stands for now , so maybe she is forgiven

all4naija:
Is that all you have to say? I think there is more to the post than the steps to modify the title of the thread.

pinceprinz:



Its unusual ! Folks find it hard to admit 'I don't know what I was saying'

At least we know what she stands for now , so maybe she is forgiven

BeastOfNoNation:


What else will I say that I haven't said before? "Don't be misogynistic" "Don't view women as lesser beings". I've said it before.

How can I be those when I support gender equality? You see, my posts are there to prove me right.

all4naija:

That is so wonderful. A perfect man in a real world indeed! No, it is not! That wish is not impossible at all. One thing I am skeptical of is that it looks more of a fantasy than reality of the world we live in.

It is not going to be easy to come by but it is very possible!

all4naija:

How can I be those when I support gender equality? You see, my posts are there to prove me right.

BeastOfNoNation:


Thank you. I plan on finding him someday. I know these guys exist only issue is that the guys I know of are not Nigerian

BeastOfNoNation:


I was talking about @pinceprinz post that you said I didn't reply to well