happney65:
Rubbish thread..Rubbish Topic..So a Man is now God that must be Pampered abi?What about the Woman?Means she can be belitted and treated like shit abi,cos everything is about a Man here..Abegi Jare..Shiorrr

janefrancisca:
and what if i require full of it...what does it mean? ..inconsiderate and selfish abi...ok o kontinu

dmcdad:

Una go get una own for sure na. Infact, una go get all those or most of them in return too.

No look as as cheating. This one na just for men. Nobody talk say una own no go dey. So no fear.

chara019:

Better
'Cos it won't be fair if men are always at the receiving end.

janefrancisca:
hmmmmmm

Nnemuka:
it should be reciprocal...
Dont expect all of the above if you cannot treat her same way.

PunkyVeer:
The "rules" aren't bad but I sense chauvinistic undertones to them. Boyfriend of two weeks my square azz!

djphish:
This is how couples should live.. You differ?

damton:
. Why sex especially ?

dmcdad:

Babe, to be frank here, the reverse has always been the case. It's always women who are at the receiving end. You don't agree?

You seldom find threads such as; manual for pleasing men, 50 things to please a man, how to get a man blah blah blah. But you will always find these with the ladies. 20 steps in getting your EX girlfriend back, 30 moves in seducing her, how go please a woman, how to make her like you and so on...

Seriously, make we men get small attention na. Abi?

chara019:
men has always been getting all the attention,even whilst growing up,females are always adviced on how to please the males,its beginning to sound like we are supposed to be their'mugu'.its totally unfair.



Maybe another list would pop up,when females would be spoonfeeding males,bath them,dress em up,clean their butt.because we be machines na.we are not to complain,but be 'submissive'shebi?

dmcdad:

That's not it. The last time I checked, women don't do most of the things you highlighted any longer.

Are you even for real? Agreed, when growing up women were taught how to please men and all. But sincerely, at this juncture, or at age of their teen up to their adult age, women are generally programmed to be at the receiving end.

Check on it, in your relationship or the one before (at least you must have been in one), who did more in the relationship? In many cases, the men do virtually everything which is not fair. Although admittedly I must say the table turns when marriage is the case(at least in some respect). But even that is beginning to change in recent times also.

So, I think it would be fair to come to a point of equilibrium here and agree it swings both ways at different circumstances. I can't tell for sure who enjoys more, but I am very sure both are at a receiving end at one point or the other.

My view though. Do you agree with me?

AfroKnight:

You'd better adhere to the rules let me add one more

* If you think he's cheating, please let him explain cos that mystery girl might just be his cousin or long lost half-sister or a simple innocent friend.

djphish:
This is how couples should live.. You differ?

djphish:
This is how couples should live.. You differ?

chara019:
All that is required is striking an equilibrium,a particular gender shouldn't be subjected to giving always while the other takes.There should be equality.both should enjoy.

ovanny15:
Noted

butanep:



Nice one Op...


Please can I know the name of the book. Let me add it to the gift I intend to present to my girlfriend on saturday courtesy her birthday.

She needs books like this not only the romance novies she reads...

I will appreciate.

ghidefemi:


You sabi the game too well

PunkyVeer:
The "rules" aren't bad but I sense chauvinistic undertones to them. Boyfriend of two weeks my square azz!

janefrancisca:
hahaha ...babes i tire o. women eyaf suffer, rules everyday. I will only stick to those rules if and only if the man is worth it. I no dey for gold ring for pig nose matter o.

dmcdad:

dmcdad:

We are definitely on the same page.

But, I hope you can say this too about sharing the bill. Or...?

Krystalxxx:
After doing all this he will tell you that you are too easy and treat you like a 'mumu' and marry some girl who don't take shit from him. Real life and fantasy.

Then everyone will tell you it's your fault for being so submissive.

lilmax:
are you dating a worthless man?