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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 7:32am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry
are yu calling nairalands fools. Yu r sick.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Leosamitodo(m): 7:32am On Oct 02, 2015
Beauty my friend is just a skin deep,if she cant serve you now what makes you think she will in the future...and ladies to say are pretence oriented(they can pretend die)if the mannerist can serve you now,what makes you think she cant in the later days ahead...my brother if God is your father then you need to call home for counselling
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Trustworthiness: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015
People marry for four main reasons:

1. Beauty,
2. Wealth,
3. Position, and
4. Religion / Culture.

I see that your reason for your choice of marriage is beauty that can command English language fluently.

A question I will ask you is this: will you still be in love or willing to marry her if something happens to her beauty? If yes then marry your beauty. Else beauty should not be your priority.

Likewise, if your so called well mannered girl change to a not mannered wife when you have married her, will you continue to love her.

What happens during the period of courtship is not real. What is real is the real discussion you both discuss about what you want if you eventually married.

This is where most young people of nowadays made serious mistakes. Instead of discussing issue, they will be assuming and judging based on the characters that is apparent to them.

I will advise you to discuss real issues with your girlfriends and ask questions in an indirect way so that you can Truely get the answers you want.

The beautiful girl may be doing that because she feels she is not married to you yet or she just a dirty and lazy type. While your well mannered girl may be doing so because she want to lure you to marry her or she is the neat type that can't withstand dirty environment.

But what I am sure of is, if a man possesses something greater than a woman, the likelihood of the woman being 100% submissive is high. So, I can't advice to take any of them yet but to do you own home work first.

How will you do that?
Highlights what you actually want from a wife first and ask real questions in an indirect way to get the right answers to your questions. You might be surprised that both are far from being a wife material.

Goodluck.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015
Oliviaarims:

“He who knows not and knows not he knows not: he is a
fool - shun him. He who knows not and knows he knows
not: he is simple - teach him. He who knows and knows not
he knows: he is asleep - wake him. He who knows and
knows he knows: he is wise - follow him"
Go back and read all ur posts on ur profile,not even 1 perfect sentence...Short forms are allowed,terrible grammatical blunders like urs are abhorred...If u're not completely daft then u ought to have learnt sth 2day..I've had major fun tonight,btw & I hope that proverb is not beyond ur reasoning ability.









#Philosopher Quëën#

My lady calm down! Don't let my guy go and commit suicide.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:33am On Oct 02, 2015
sonofananimal:
I understand your last form of defense, drifting away from the main issue but concentrating on what won't profit you.

I know WOMEN like you! So dull but think there are intelligent just because there know another's man language,but in reality, facing a form of depression.

I understand you very well
Ur low understanding ability's snowballed... Ur shallow mindedness works mightily against u. U can't KNOW women like me..Do u know what it means to know sth?..Dyu know what a "knowledge claim" entails? Don't bother arguing with a philosopher on such matters. We deal with critical analysis nd evaluation....#smiling#
BTW, that "another man's language" is very important..learn it...Hope u took note of the correct contextual usage of "another"





still
a


#Philosopher Quëën
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by bellville: 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015
Marry the educated lady abeg. The economy ain't smiling. You may need her to support the family financially at some point. My neighbor, a graduate married a school cert hairdresser. Now that there's a salary cut, she fights him every morning for money. She just doesn't understand.

Her house is always clean though.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by freecocoa(f): 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015
So what you call 'manners' is cleaning up after you and bending knee to greet you? You are beyond mannerless for leaving your house dirty, what rubbish!
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:34am On Oct 02, 2015
kazmanbanjoko:
are yu calling nairalands fools. Yu r sick.

your dumb father is sick for not pulling out but pouring the sperm that created you into your mama undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Mwada: 7:35am On Oct 02, 2015
So those sarakis, gej, namadi sambos with the mentality of nationalism are they same? Are they same today? So it is better you get the other mentality so that incase u may reverse it.
What i believe is that the wind of corruption started blowing during the shagari time, buhari try to halt it but Ibb sponsored it, abacha monopolize it. Obj came in and celebrate it while gej skyrocket it, thank God now that baba buhari is here to bombared it, therefore i foresee a better nigeria ahead
rionel:
THE COMING GENERATION SCARES ME...REAL HARD! While we have been busy talking about Nigeria of today, I wonder if we have spared a thought about how this country will be in the next TWENTY-FIVE years. On October 1, 1979,when Alhaji Shehu Usman Aliyu Shagari was sworn-in as
President, Goodluck Jonathan was just a 22-year old undergraduate of University of Port-Harcourt. Shagari was 54 years old. Ayo Fayose was 19 years old. Bukola Saraki was 17. Yemi Osinbajo was 22. The generation of the likes of Shagari, Richard Akinjide, Adisa Akinloye, Sabo Bakin Zuwo,Ifeanyi Nwobodo, Ume Ezeoke, Akin Omoboriowo, Olusola
Saraki, Sunday Awoniyi,Garba Nadama, Awal Ibrahim and so on have gone for good! Some of us in our 20s and 30s, when in school, either in the university or secondary school, had lofty dreams, both personal and societal. We were always motivated by nationalists and inventors who had impacted positively on the cause of humanity. We were voracious readers of novels and other books. Nelkon for our Ordinary Level Physics, Lambert for Chemistry, B.O ADELEKE and Goh ChengLeong for our Geography, Phebean Ogundipe for Practical English and others like that. We were always flaunting our knowledge of current affairs. Inter- school quiz competition was the in-thing.Fast forward 35 years on and you are shocked and disturbed. Have you ever spoken to or engaged a 20 year-old boy? Ask him what motivates him and he is likely to mention music,hip hop to be precise. He has hundreds of downloaded songs on his phone. He can sing all of them off hand. He knows all the singles of Nice,Neato C, Timaya, Davido, Whiz Kid off had. But he does not know anything about history of nationalism in the country. Ideas about good society, responsible family and good conduct do not motivate him. He just wants to make money because his friend who does yahoo is rich and rides a good car, an SUV! The things that interest him are things that do not add value. He has google but never uses it for advancement of knowledge but to download porn and other inanities. Yet, in TWENTY years time, they are the ones that will be contesting to become Governors, Senators,Reps Members and even President. They belong to a generation that does not care about morality. They belong to a generation that is motivated only by money and it's acquisition. By 2035 to 2040, they will be our Senators,Reps, Governors and so on. I wonder if we have ever spared a thought how this country will look like under them. I told a man recently and these are my words: IF A GUY WHO IS IN LAGOS COULD USE FALSE PRETENCE TO OBTAIN $20,000 FROM SOMEONE IN UNITED STATES, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN IF SUCH A GUY BECOMES A STATE GOVERNOR AND IS IN CHARGE OF AN ALLOCATION HE DOES NOT EVEN HAVE TO OBTAIN UNDER FALSE PRETENCE? WHICH HIS STATE IS STATUTORILY ENTITLED TO. I am worried, deeply worried. Are You? Forwarded as received from a friend.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 7:36am On Oct 02, 2015
I will suggest u marry d gal with character o ....u could even train her in skul wen u ppl get along togeda lerra on but for d graduate, how do u want to start training her abt domestic chores n all....... ro daada o ko si gbadura si
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:36am On Oct 02, 2015
I greet y'all in the name of music

Thought I drop this my song for y'all to listen

yes Nigeria gain their independence!!!


But check your heart are we truly free..

I didn't go out today cus I didn't feel like
Reasoning all the things happening in this country..
Bombing.. killing
Stealing.
Corruption...



[size=18pt]TRUTH IS WE ARE NOT FREE FROM OURSELF[/size]

Had to express it true music Bro

https://www.nairaland.com/2638177/nairalander-song-bombin-fighting-killings#38585207
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Subom1(f): 7:38am On Oct 02, 2015
freecocoa:
So what you call 'manners' is cleaning up after you and bending knee to greet you? You are beyond mannerless for leaving your house dirty, what rubbish!

lol as in. Rubbish!!!
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by xbanda: 7:38am On Oct 02, 2015
no show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knwno show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knwno show 4 u bros jxt because say she dey wash clothes na y u come notice am 4 ur board shebi ur notice board full up wit miss grammar u come open dem because miss manner dey wash clothes kneel dwn greet u abeg follow ur heart and ask God 4 direction d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 7:41am On Oct 02, 2015
mistabiola:



★★★I quoted you because I felt you're facetious tongue tongue ★★★~ ©Mistabiola® lipsrsealed
Feelings..very subjective. Hope u knw better now. It's a good thing u sought 4 clarification, though.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kayceeD2(m): 7:41am On Oct 02, 2015
tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.


Abeg make I ask u too question... if u see #1000 note and #500 note which one will u pick first?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by linked: 7:42am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry
I pity your life although you dont even derserve such pity... You call someone who has finished senior secondary school uneducated and an illiterate?... SMH... You seem lost... .


I wonder why people make a public spectacle the their utter ineptness and often agonizing cluelessness. You need a reset..
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 7:44am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:


my dumb father is sick for not pulling out, but pouring the sperm that created me into my mama undecided
ok. Fixed.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by livinbygrace: 7:46am On Oct 02, 2015
Whats special about being graduate in the present day economy,where a graduate is being paid 20,000 for a month?Abeg park well.Go tell Alaba boys,they ll answer your question.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:46am On Oct 02, 2015
linked:
I pity your life although you dont even derserve such pity... You call someone who has finished senior secondary school an illiterate?... SMH... You seem lost... .

I wonder why people make a public spectacle of their utter ineptness and often agonizing cluelessness. You need a reset..

I don't need your pity ass-wipe! undecided

Its my life, my rules, my headache.ig you wanna go marry an SSCE holder in this century, your life, your headache. You will soon get to know making a strong home isn't all about a girl who can wash cloths very well. Dummy undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:48am On Oct 02, 2015
kazmanbanjoko:
ok. Fixed.

lol, a dummy spotted, can you read what you just did? Read it out loud grin
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by adorable2016(f): 7:49am On Oct 02, 2015
Hmmm
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Captain001(m): 7:49am On Oct 02, 2015
bestestgirl:
So the cleaning she does is what makes you notice her more grin grin grin grin Bulletin for you; we girls have mastered the art of pretence.
If a clean house and freshly laundered clothes sway you that much, hire a housekeeper/cook and buy a washing machine, then marry your beautiful, well educated, grammar controller and enjoy the best of both worlds.

PS. The educated girl is not necessarily bad mannered, she just might surprise you after marriage


Inasmuch as I am not advocating that he marries the not-so-educated girl, but you saying that the "grammar controller" might surprise him after marriage sounds more like fallacy. I always tell people;once during courtship you identify character traits you cannot live with as a man/woman, do not go ahead with the marriage hoping that the partner will change after marriage. It is only true for infinitesimal proportion of marriages. Marriage hardly changes inbuilt character traits, it only consolidates.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Captain001(m): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015
bestestgirl:
So the cleaning she does is what makes you notice her more grin grin grin grin Bulletin for you; we girls have mastered the art of pretence.
If a clean house and freshly laundered clothes sway you that much, hire a housekeeper/cook and buy a washing machine, then marry your beautiful, well educated, grammar controller and enjoy the best of both worlds.

PS. The educated girl is not necessarily bad mannered, she just might surprise you after marriage



Inasmuch as I am not advocating that he marries the not-so-educated girl, but you saying that the "grammar controller" might surprise him after marriage sounds more like fallacy. I always tell people;once during courtship you identify character traits you cannot live with as a man/woman, do not go ahead with the marriage hoping that the partner will change after marriage. It is only true for infinitesimal proportion of marriages. Marriage hardly changes inbuilt character traits, it only consolidates.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by cleoMcdanie(m): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015
to hell with all this marriage shii. wats d craze all about? must we all marry? end time things just like the Bible said
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 7:51am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry
Seriously man u typed sense for once.....

Money making is really d back bone of marriage not house chores like pple think,abi na house chores go feed the children?

Wetin house help dey for


Bar man please serve my niccur a truce orijin from me

Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mistabiola: 7:52am On Oct 02, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Feelings..very subjective. Hope u knw better now. It's a good thing u sought 4 clarification, though.


★★★English teacher... Okay tongue tongue ★★★~ ©Mistabiola® lipsrsealed
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Ifexladon: 7:53am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry
dats d kind of stupid advice dat I was telling u abt
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:53am On Oct 02, 2015
Sylver247:

why is it dat ur comments dont ever make any sense? u only comment in order to get likes from ur fellow brainless mofos. no offence

why is it that you are such a biitch? Go furck yourself dimwit! undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by hope4nigeria(m): 7:56am On Oct 02, 2015
sholay2011:

Come on...Nairalanders won't be harsh on you...tell the whole truth wink




Is it Tai-chi or Kung fu una dey use communicate

Abi na Gidig

























By the way, you might just be the one with low self-esteem, not your wife with 'ego'. Ona kan o woja.
YOU ARE A MAAAD IDIOOOOTS. I CANT ague with you. must you joke with everything? i fight gidigbo with your mother , the last cong-ful compitition i did last time. that was when your father died on the stage! ode
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 7:57am On Oct 02, 2015
cleoMcdanie:
to hell with all this marriage shii. wats d craze all about? must we all marry? end time things just like the Bible said

no marry o,wait der o....until ur mama go dey sing for ur ear say she wan carry her grandchildren.... ehn, igbayen lose ma understand pe u GATS marry...
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 7:58am On Oct 02, 2015
misspicy:

Seriously man u typed sense for once.....

Money making is really d back bone of marriage not house chores like pple think,abi na house chores go feed the children?

Wetin house help dey for


Bar man please serve my niccur a[b] truce orijin[/b] from me

just because we don't ever agree on a topic doesn't mean I am not making my own point.

I don't drink early, let me have a coffee tongue
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 8:00am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:
just because she's gat good attitude doesn't mean I should marry a vulture undecided

To those guys quoting me to type trash. Na me talk say make una go marry fugly girls abi? grin

I just typed what I am gonna do mehn, an educated girl is "beauty" she is successful in her business which means she's gat brains

So what else do I need apart from a pretty girl who knows what she truly wants, forget about the manner, she go learn undecided

Make I come go marry illitrate cuz she dey always wash cloth Seems you guys think marriage is all about house chores abi? FOOLS angry

so who told u d illiterate gal is not pretty...its just cos ders no money to Polish her na....wat makes u think she won't be successful too...nna ehn! odi egwu o

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