akatekpe:
Gbam my brother. Ladies with issue with that tradition are those who are likely gonna be promiscuous in marriage and guys who are against the tradition are those weaklies who folds their arms while other men bangs their wives front, back, left and right without any complain.

Tallesty1:



In my village, if you know that your woman is cheating on you and yet you continue to eat her food, you will die.

A woman that cheats and refuses to confess will run mad or die.

But you are safe if you confess.


Being a woman is really had.

aim5:


What? Men are the ones who work and build society/civilization.. that's hard work. Men work and grind to try and at least get a female's attention. And even today, men are the ones who have to look great aesthetically to even get any play from females. Black males have this struggle especially since we are hated worldwide and because most black females are vain and shallow. Also about keeping yourself attractive, most guys aren't even that picky, so even if you're a fat woman, you can still catch a guy whereas a short man or a physically deficient man has no chance at all. Some females can literally suck and mess their way to stardom and financial prosperity while most if not all men have to grind and get by on their merits. So you have to be delusional if you think females have it harder than men.

Tallesty1:
A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo.

Sha, that is not why I am writing this post.

What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back.

Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from.

Me: Huh

Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place.

Me: How is that possible?

Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband.

Me: What will happen to them.

Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad.

Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman?

Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband.



What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity.

So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition?

BTW, the man is from one village at obollo.

Folaatisade:


I was NOT refering to u when i made that comment. Where from all this unnecessary insults? Please do not quote me again i'm not in the mood to argue with u!

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

Eluwilussit:


....and What the fucck is cosmos?.... You reject their culture because it is African but you go yappin about cosmos. What do you understand by The term "cosmos"? You believe every shit you read, don't you? Now go ahead and tell me about it.

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

heardis:
youy must be a serial cheat, in fact your own pass sef. Na cheater you be. Double mouthed nigro that is even denying his self.

Brandnew2:
He is lying.

Boy, just marry a decent girl and hand the rest over to God. Women are very unpredictable and easily deceived. Just close one eye. If you open two eyes, wetin you go see, you go run mad.











I have a better reason not to worry about my wife cheating. First, I'd be the best man she ever met and wouldn't want to risk losing the "devil" she knows to an "angel" she doesn't know.

And.

I'd be the first to know if she even thinks about cheating since I'm her best confidant.
That's where the need for communication lies.

aim5:


What? Men are the ones who work and build society/civilization.. that's hard work. Men work and grind to try and at least get a female's attention. And even today, men are the ones who have to look great aesthetically to even get any play from females. Black males have this struggle especially since we are hated worldwide and because most black females are vain and shallow. Also about keeping yourself attractive, most guys aren't even that picky, so even if you're a fat woman, you can still catch a guy whereas a short man or a physically deficient man has no chance at all. Some females can literally suck and mess their way to stardom and financial prosperity while most if not all men have to grind and get by on their merits. So you have to be delusional if you think females have it harder than men.

Tallesty1:
A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo.

Sha, that is not why I am writing this post.

What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back.

Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from.

Me: Huh

Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place.

Me: How is that possible?

Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband.

Me: What will happen to them.

Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad.

Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman?

Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband.



What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity.

So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition?

BTW, the man is from one village at obollo.

Mynd44:
So their tradition only recognises female adultery. Okay na.

BTW, I think it is bullshìt. If anyone wants to be taken seriously, the same rules that apply to men should apply to women.

Brandnew2:
He is lying.












I have a better reason not to worry about my wife cheating. First, I'd be the best man she ever met and wouldn't want to risk losing the "devil" she knows to an "angel" she doesn't know.

And.

I'd be the first to know if she even thinks about cheating since I'm her best confidant.
That's where the need for communication lies.

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

aim5:

How? If you want to sleep around, then don't marry. Plain and simple.

Tamee:


What happens if a man from your village marries a white woman and she cheats on him?
Do the gods who kill and make Nigerian women mad board planes to go kill white women too?

Dhotseal:


Lol, for there to be murder, there has to be a perpetrator. In this case, the gods of the land are responsible. So, guess the gods must be crazy. Lol.

I can relate to your sentiments, but then, it is the b tradition of the people. They accept it. I doesn't have to bother u though, except u happen to be married to an Nsukka man.

SeverusSnape:

Wonderful suggestion. I concur!

Oliviaarims:

Who's this? Don't quote me again!

MizMyColi:


You really do expect a reply from me, don't you?

Learn some manners first!

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake

hensben:
Hey! Woman watch your mouth Ermm finger (you use in typing).

dabriggs:


The rule is simple


MEN CAN CHEAT
WOMEN CAN NOT

Simple.

greatiyk4u:


Dis is because d men re free 2 be polygamous n not d other way round

Tallesty1:
A married woman was caught in the act here on Friday. It happened right in her husbands house so neighbours were there to witness what happened. I was there too to witness the taboo cause her husband was just shouting that whoever was around should come and witness a taboo.

Sha, that is not why I am writing this post.

What actually necessitated this post was a convo I had with a man on my way back.

Man: It is stuffs like this that makes me appreciate where I come from.

Me: Huh

Man: I appreciate my village the more anytime I hear or witness something like this because married women don't cheat on their husband in my place.

Me: How is that possible?

Man: They Know what would happen to them if they dare cheat on their husband.

Me: What will happen to them.

Man: If a married woman sleeps with another man, or collects money from another man, or spends her husband's money on another man without telling her husband, she will run mad.

Me: And if a man sleeps with another woman?

Man: Nothing, except the woman has a husband.


What he's saying in essence is that a married woman who sleeps with a man that is not her husband or collects money from a man who is not her relation or spends money on another man without informing her husband will lose her sanity. The madness is curable but she must confess her sins to regain her sanity.

So Nairalanders, what do you think of this people's tradition?

BTW, the man is from one village at obollo.

MizMyColi:
Such tradition, whether it is applicable to man or woman, or both is simply barbaric and crude. It must be vehemently rejected. It promotes murder and oppression/bondage.

People should be free to make their choice and live with the consequence as meted to them by the cosmos.

It's really not in the place of any mortal (exceptions though) to determine who lives or dies.

Why destroy what you couldn't possibly create?

#MyTake