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Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by hedonistic: 11:11pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Very stupid and annoying thread. In Nigeria at least (where women always have a sense of entitlement), women can never have the same rights or expectations as men when it comes to the prerogative of extramarital affairs or having multiple partners. Simple. When women stop expecting men to make money or have money before they can be deemed 'worthy', then they can come back to the negotiating table. Men can't be expected to pay for sex, pay for dating expenses, pay bride price, foot household expenses, worry about making money in order to get a woman etc, and yet some stupid woman would want to have the same 'rights' at the end of the day. Not in Nigeria maybe in western countries were women are not that money driven in the way they see men and relate with men. If it is unfair to treat an unfaithful woman worse than an unfaithful man, why is it not unfair to demonise a broke guy in a relationship more than a broke woman in a relationship as is the norm in Nigeria? For example, a thread like this: www.nairaland.com/2658404/10-things-broke-guys-normally Why is it never an issue for a broke girl to be in a relationship or a marriage? Yet you want to be free to have outside affairs? 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:13pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
akatekpe: Exactly.. these ladies are exposing themselves by disagreeing with the tradition. They'll call a tradition that staunchly promotes infidelity and faithfulness backwards and wicked.. I tell you these females nowadays are just ridiculous.. My brother only God go save us from them. And the guys who say the tradition is bad are probably weak manginas and simps anyways. Females love to pounce and use those types, but they hate a real man who doesn't put up with their bul.lshit. 3 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by realglob(m): 11:14pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Same in my village. We share boundary wit d village in question. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Folaatisade(f): 11:20pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
aim5: I was NOT refering to u when i made that comment. Where from all this unnecessary insults? Please do not quote me again i'm not in the mood to argue with u! 2 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:25pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Nsukka.. Tallesty1: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Folaatisade: This is a public forum if I see that you say something retarded, I'm gonna call you out on it... 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Eluwilussit(m): 11:27pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: ....and What the fucck is cosmos?.... You reject their culture because it is African but you go yappin about cosmos. What do you understand by The term "cosmos"? You believe every shit you read, don't you? Now go ahead and tell me about it. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by MizMyColi(f): 11:30pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Eluwilussit: You really do expect a reply from me, don't you? Learn some manners first! 2 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by heardis: 11:32pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi:youy must be a serial cheat, in fact your own pass sef. Na cheater you be. Double mouthed nigro that is even denying his self. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by MizMyColi(f): 11:33pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
heardis: Aii |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Eluwilussit(m): 11:34pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Brandnew2: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:36pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
aim5:100% right 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Dhotseal(m): 11:38pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Obollo is in Udenu Local Government of Enugu State. My own village is just a few klicks from there, and I can confirm it. Adultery by a woman in the whole of Nsukka and environs is a huge taboo. The most dangerous is Engwu Ezike. As a woman married to an Nsukka man, u better be sure to never set foot on the soil after the act, even if done in the United States cos the day the woman sets food on the soil, she loses her sanity. You may call it what u wish, but it is as potent as can be. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Dhotseal(m): 11:41pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Mynd44: Yeah, as always, u are entitled to your beliefs, but better not be married to an Nsukka man and keep that view, cos if u do, BS will get REAL fast! 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:42pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Brandnew2:bros! You better wake up from this dream you dey dream so 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Dhotseal(m): 11:47pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Lol, for there to be murder, there has to be a perpetrator. In this case, the gods of the land are responsible. So, guess the gods must be crazy. Lol. I can relate to your sentiments, but then, it is the b tradition of the people. They accept it. I doesn't have to bother u though, except u happen to be married to an Nsukka man. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by prissyluv(f): 11:47pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
I was shocked when a lady from Ebonyi and a man from Abia states told me tales like this of recent. The lady's story happened to her aunt. So she was sure of what she was telling me. I was all ears ooo. She said the man is free to sleep with a single lady but not with a married woman. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:49pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
aim5:Who's this? Don't quote me again! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Dhotseal(m): 11:50pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Tamee: In Nsukka land, she is safe as long as she does not set foot on Nsukka soil. The day she does, she comes within the jurisdiction of the gods of the land and the judgement is swift and with finality. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by MizMyColi(f): 11:51pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Dhotseal: Your Siggy is funny. Thanks for catching my drift. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Dhotseal(m): 11:51pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: Lol, that will obviously be contrary to the tradition. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:56pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: Another female who's mad... |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Eluwilussit(m): 11:57pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: You can't even explain your theory of the cosmos, and you are talking about manners. It is not by throwing around some exotic theory. Did I think you were gonna give a sensible answer? Nope. Little kids of nowadays too like to dey talk about things they don't understand. Go and study. Pay closer attention to your books. Leave social media alone. Come out with at least 2:1, and you will be on your way to success. Don't forget to thank me. . Sleep well my dear! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:58pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Have you been cheating on your husband |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:58pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Have you been cheating on your husband? |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by cococandy(f): 12:04am On Oct 12, 2015 |
hensben: Or? |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Pidggin(f): 12:32am On Oct 12, 2015 |
dabriggs: Lol that's why it's not working. 5 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Pidggin(f): 12:34am On Oct 12, 2015 |
greatiyk4u: Just imagine telling this to your wife or gf, you'll only be fueling her desire to cheat. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Pidggin(f): 12:39am On Oct 12, 2015 |
[quote author=aim5 post=38894539] What? Men are the ones who work and build society/civilization.. that's hard work. Men work and grind to try and at least get a female's attention. And even today, men are the ones who have to look great aesthetically to even get any play from females. Black males have this struggle especially since we are hated worldwide and because most black females are vain and shallow. Also about keeping yourself attractive, most guys aren't even that picky, so even if you're a fat woman, you can still catch a guy whereas a short man or a physically deficient man has no chance at all. Some females can literally suck and mess their way to stardom and financial prosperity while most if not all men have to grind and get by on their merits. So you have to be delusional if you think females have it harder than men.[/q When you say black women are vain and shallow, remember you have a mother and sister. Think twice before you spew filth 2 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by sunidexsike(m): 12:43am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1:are you actually stupid or you are just to dumb to kno that a mad person cant confess voluntary..habaa 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ayokellany: 12:44am On Oct 12, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Simply because you ain't okay with the custom does not necessarily mean that indigenes of such community are against it. You do not get to dictate how they chose to live their lives as they can't dictate how you live yours. |
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