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Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by SStoneCCold: 8:05am On Oct 12, 2015 |
ALISMILE:Where has it been changed and effective when? |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by BiafranAvatar(m): 8:22am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Ya... that's how we roll... But a stubborn husband gets the cake when he turns blind eye against his wife's adulterous ways... Our tradition is true face of Africa Igbo Amaka!!! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by BiafranAvatar(m): 8:24am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Cutehector: Believe me... that tradition is custom in most Igbo land, but some part have demolished theirs already... |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ammyluv2002(f): 8:30am On Oct 12, 2015 |
charsola:Big fat lie! Most married women are not loose. Get your facts straight |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by BiafranAvatar(m): 8:30am On Oct 12, 2015 |
xynerise: Remember the tradition allows a man to marry multiple wife... so when a man has extra martial affair with a single girl or unmarried woman..... there's no alarm, but if a married woman, such man has his own dare punishment... In our tradition... no gender is spared... I have seen men gone mad or die after sleeping with married woman but mostly in Enugu-Ezike part of Enugu state... |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ALISMILE(m): 8:51am On Oct 12, 2015 |
SStoneCCold:Are u frm Edo state? If u re find out about wat I said! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by hensben(m): 8:58am On Oct 12, 2015 |
cococandy:Or amadioha would visit you. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by BiafranAvatar(m): 9:04am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Tamee: No...but if you paid the bride price, she dare not step a feet into the soil of your origin... Tradition know no race... |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by SStoneCCold: 9:08am On Oct 12, 2015 |
eightsin:Have you slept with any married Nsukka woman that didn't go mad? I'm just curious because you sound so sure the tradition no longer works 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by SStoneCCold: 9:17am On Oct 12, 2015 |
ALISMILE:I'm not doubting you, I just want some more information regarding the tribe in Edo state where the tradition has been reversed and how long ago the reversal took place. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by justmenoni: 9:29am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Nawa ooooo,,so mehn from dos areas go dey happy,all dey need to do is sleep around with single ladies and they are sure karma ain't coming to them... Tallesty1: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by sabi99(m): 9:52am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Gender inequality which has been backed up with ancient traditional satanic spirits 4 Likes |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by trapQ: 9:55am On Oct 12, 2015 |
In my state, DELTA, the wife cheats and her husband's head starts swelling uncontrobably xynerise: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by trapQ: 9:57am On Oct 12, 2015 |
And some men are too stup!d. Why do you think Adam ate the apple eve gave him? eherbal: 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by XKZ(m): 10:32am On Oct 12, 2015 |
In polygamous societies adultery can only be committed with a married woman. If a married man sleeps with an unmarried women, it is assumed she is going to be his next wife (until proven otherwise). It is the same in the bible too. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Fortunate017(m): 11:00am On Oct 12, 2015 |
xynerise:That is if the husband knows and didn't talk or take the matter to his kinsmen so as for them to do what need to be done to the woman. Before it was the first son abi child that would die. Don't know how it was reversed. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Acidosis(m): 11:25am On Oct 12, 2015 |
I don't have problems with such traditions. What I can't possibly understand is why people believe such traditions/beliefs. A woman will only die when she accepts to partake in their fetish acts in the name of traditional wedding. Washing your feet, head & hair; eating cola nut, drinking palm wine and all the likes in the name of marriage is enough to kill a couple, cheating or not. A man and a woman whose wedding is based on the Law as proposed by the Nigerian constitution or Church bye Laws have nothing to worry about if caught in the web of adultery. The Court would honourably dissolve the marriage when the man and the woman are tired. I personally will not accept such fetish nonsense from my In-laws. Rule No.1, I will not partake in any "family" practise, I will not accept to buy any strange property, animal or partake in any ritual. Cheating doesn't kill; but an evil covenant (or ritual) does... 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by limen123: 11:41am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1: It is crystal clear. As a man, you are entitled to as many women as you can. Can a woman marry more dan one man?? So why are dis debate? It can only be applicable to women and women alone 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 12, 2015 |
xynerise:That's true of my place too. "Covers face" |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by sabi99(m): 11:57am On Oct 12, 2015 |
This should be titled"gender inequality that has been backed up with archaic,evil and satanic tradition" 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by sunidexsike(m): 12:21pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Tallesty1:i realy cant blame you though..seems your level of thinking is just too low(no offence)..i understand,have seen people like that,it not realy your fault.it just that you have a very retarded and shallow mind.i understand you sorry ehh...it is well. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by predatorX: 12:28pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
na Edo State be dis. Very useless tradition Na so when my cuzzin wan marry, They Groom pipo say she must go shrine go swear. Trust where i from come na, Isiala Ngwa olof us put leg for ground say if to swear na by force, Both Bride and Groom must swear the tin. Na for dia the EDO pipo reverse course. my friend wey be girl dey suffer the thing now. Her hubby is a confirm slut and she no fit do anytin becoz she don swear. what is good for the goose is good for the gander 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by ALISMILE(m): 2:00pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
SStoneCCold:Currently I don't live in Edo state but am in constant touch wit pple who live there! A gud friend of I, frm Edo State, who is very connected to home was d 1st person I heard it frm last yrs! I jus got married now and my wife who is also from Edo State told me same and also gave vivid examples of ppersons whom recently d wrath of that curse befell! However, I do not ve any formal source to refer 2u! |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by CashVessel(m): 3:06pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Mynd44: Well your thinking is irrelevant because no tradition metes out equal punishment for adultery to both sexes. Right from ancient times(even in the bible), traditions have been favorable to men, and it won't change now cos of what you think 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 6:57am On Oct 13, 2015 |
trapQ:we seem to have touched a nerve dear. Truth be Painful. Truth Hurts. I Feel Your Pain |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 7:05am On Oct 13, 2015 |
Believe Me, They Are. They Abound Everywhere. Even The Saintly Looking Ones. I Know. I've Seen Them. Irresponsible Mother Of Nations. ammyluv2002: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by trapQ: 7:08am On Oct 13, 2015 |
Lmao... What nerve? What pain? What truth? You're the cause of global warming and the depletion of the ozone layer. eherbal: 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by jabojafa(m): 11:20am On Oct 13, 2015 |
vfactor:not only in Obollo but also in Enugu-Ezike in Igbo-Eze North LG in Enugu state. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by eherbal(m): 12:20pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
lol trapQ: |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by themanderon: 1:11pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Tallesty1: So true it usually occurs around nsukka axis I actually witnessed one live. Strange but true. |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Nobody: 7:11pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
[quote author=Pidggin post=38895894][/quote] My bad. I don't support women whoring themselves out, but I have been a bit too harsh on here. Even though I'm not a gentleman in the classic term, I'll try and be more respectful in my disagreements from now on. 1 Like |
Re: "Why I Am Not Worried About My Wife Cheating On Me" by Pidggin(f): 7:24pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
aim5: You may not be a gentleman for now, but I think you are a work in progress. No sane person will support women whoring, but it should go both ways. Hope you can keep up the effort, cheers. |
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