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Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Winnergal(f): 3:18pm On May 07, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: exactly . . . . |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Winnergal(f): 3:19pm On May 07, 2009 |
That's why you never trust so called friends aka frenemies. . . |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Winnergal(f): 3:20pm On May 07, 2009 |
An enemy i know once did something like that . . . |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Winnergal(f): 3:21pm On May 07, 2009 |
@Peyton Beware of Dammy o . . . Are you sure she never slept with Tunde, your present fiance. . .? |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by peyton(f): 3:22pm On May 07, 2009 |
@DEBOSKY Dammy didn't do a thing - according to you, the problem is that the two brothers (Tunde and Demola) will feel bad that one man has slept with their wives. DAMMY did a lot , if she had told me that she had dated jide when i started the relationship , i would not have venture into such relationship and i need to let you know that I MET JIDE THRU DAMMY , I NEVER KNEW THEY HAD A RELATIONSHIP WHEN JIDE SIGNIFIED HIS INTENSIONS, a least as a good friend she shouldn't have encourage me to go out with him when she knew quite well that they had history that is the painful part of the whole story |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by debosky(m): 3:37pm On May 07, 2009 |
peyton: OK it is painful, but it is in your PAST and has no bearing on your current relationship. Be angry at Dammy if you want, but even then I would be wondering why you would be angry, especially since you've now moved on essentially. There is no reason for this to affect your current relationship. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by surface(f): 3:42pm On May 07, 2009 |
@ poster,since what u want is pity,then am very sorry for what happened,its one of those things,move on wit ur life,shit happens.Goodluck. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by nigerbobo(m): 3:48pm On May 07, 2009 |
@ poster If you find yourself worrying about something then fix it. If it is beyond your control, then there is no sense in worrying about it. 90% of what you worry about will never happen, so why worry! |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by spikedcylinder: 3:53pm On May 07, 2009 |
surface: You've been chirping like a bird since. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by chamotex(m): 3:59pm On May 07, 2009 |
na today |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Secretz(f): 4:10pm On May 07, 2009 |
@ poster, Hasn't it occurred to you YET that this all happened the way it has done because its supposed to have just happened that way? ? For goodness sake look at the end result for goodness sake, you have someone special now who you want to call your 'husband'. Stop using your retarded stubborn-ness to destroy your happiness! Move on pls. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by bblacky(f): 4:20pm On May 07, 2009 |
put d past behind u n move further, wats d probs here, or u dont love Tunde? OHHHHHHHH U do, den forge ahead girl!!!! kiini |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by peyton(f): 5:16pm On May 07, 2009 |
@debosky @secretz @ nigerbobo Thank you, am grateful for your good advice |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by storm0210(m): 5:57pm On May 07, 2009 |
@ poster, me nkor? |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Hotstepper(f): 7:38pm On May 07, 2009 |
u have nuthing to worry about. they are all in da past b4 u met ur hubby to be unless u r just disgusted that da same man slept with u and ur friend |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Outlaws1(m): 10:28am On May 08, 2009 |
I read the whole story all I understood was tunde, jinde, and maybe fonde. Seriously your story is more confusing than the real issue. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Omolola1(f): 12:55pm On May 08, 2009 |
@ POSTER Shit happens. MOVE ON!!! |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by waterworks(f): 2:37pm On May 08, 2009 |
at poster ok so you and dammy slept with the same guy and are going into the same family. ehen? so why are you worried? the only problem starts when jide tunde and adebola are friends. but you havent stated that. ehen you can be mad at dammy but as far as im concerned that wont make a difference. it was in both of you's pasts before you met your husband to be so where is the problem the issue does not concern your relationships it is strictly between you and dammy (even thogh i dont think theres even a big issue) FEAR is not involved and to be honest self neither is WORRY. it should be more like dissapointment or anger that dammy never told u. which doesnt really matter as normally the problem between two friends dating one guy is that the first girl diddnt approve of her friend dating her ex. youre going bck to dig up old dirt. like i said mountain out of mole hill. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by peyton(f): 3:57pm On May 08, 2009 |
@waterwork at poster ok so you and dammy slept with the same guy and are going into the same family. ehen? so why are you worried? the only problem starts when jide tunde and adebola are friends. but you havent stated that. ehen you can be mad at dammy but as far as im concerned that wont make a difference. it was in both of you's pasts before you met your husband to be so where is the problem |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by peyton(f): 3:58pm On May 08, 2009 |
@waterwork at poster ok so you and dammy slept with the same guy and are going into the same family. ehen? so why are you worried? the only problem starts when jide tunde and adebola are friends. but you havent stated that. ehen you can be mad at dammy but as far as im concerned that wont make a difference. it was in both of you's pasts before you met your husband to be so where is the problem i feel you |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by peyton(f): 5:34pm On May 12, 2009 |
@ poster, me nkor? @storm0210 thanks too and to all that gave me a reasonable advice its like a burden been lifted |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by baybgirl(f): 5:44pm On May 12, 2009 |
@poster infact i feel your pain o that is why you dont have to trust anyone people are very bad and i think dammy took you for granted sorry if i may ask how do you feel if you and dammy sits down and both brothers are on sit too |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by shilees(f): 6:39pm On May 12, 2009 |
wat kind of long boring story is this, haven't they slept wit other people's wives(b4 they became wives) abegi let d past b past but oh girl u self rock town o |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by spoilt(f): 5:20am On May 14, 2009 |
I dont believe the things that bother women! A guy who sleeps with sisters, siblings or friends will easily chalk it down to his past without any remorse. you should do the same. wetin! Its either he wants to marry you or he doesnt |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by na2day2(m): 5:26am On May 14, 2009 |
for the life of me, can u kindly rewrite this post in english? peyton: |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Nobody: 5:32am On May 14, 2009 |
If you bring this case to my court, I'LL THROW IT OUT. You're just naive. What exactly is your problem? NOTHING !!! |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by na2day2(m): 6:33am On May 14, 2009 |
BlueDiva: u actually understood what she was mumbling about? |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by yicob(m): 7:33am On May 14, 2009 |
So ? How many guys have slept with u ? Jide, Tunde and ?. U berra continue ur life or else more men to dig down wif u. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by WhyAWhy(m): 2:49pm On Aug 24, 2011 |
only if women will start learning to close their laps, this sounds like one ashewo to me. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by Nobody: 4:00pm On Aug 24, 2011 |
Let sleeping dogs lie go marry your Tunde. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by BodyKiss(m): 5:30pm On Aug 24, 2011 |
The outcome of this your story, if your fiancée finds out about it, depends on the type of person he is. If he's like most guy here on nairaland, he might open a thread with a subject like "Help, same guy 4uck my fiancée and brother's wife. What do I do?". Just pray he's a real man who will see what's in this story. . . Nothing. |
Re: Help Me! Same Guy Slept With Us by WebSurfer(m): 6:02pm On Aug 24, 2011 |
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