agarawu23:
If @27 you are still screening, I wonder what will end up with you.

You are dying for a b!tch that's taking you as his sidechick because he works in an oil firm abi? You knew he had a gf and you went ahead to waste your time with him and you are here saying crap

You better hold the present guy that is ready to take you along and take you for whom you are. You better forget his job level because nobody knows tomorrow since he has a PhD which means things might be well with him tomorrow if God wishes

If I hear you repeat that your old bf here again eh! You go chop igbaju

PinkBarbie:
Your comments on sensitive issues like this are always preposterous. She should go ahead and marry someone she doesn't love or know because she's 27? Goodness me! I can't deal!




Op, what you need to do is to stay away from both of them and clear your head.

ugojohnlittle:



Thank you so much for this advice, my family once arranged a muslim guy for me who already brought things to marry me but I eloped. He wasn't educated and my siblings supported me, they said I should be allowed to make my choice.
I have convinced my parents that I can't marry this guy and that I dont love him, my mom says that love will grow and the only thing they are using against me is that I brought this one myself...so why will I change my mind. That I am spiritually possessed.


I have never felt this in love with anyone, I once travelled out of town to forget him, but I just can't. It is not working. We are obsessed with each other and I know he would have been with me if we met earlier.

I work in a Promasidor key distributor's office and I also have a HND from Kwara Poly.

ugojohnlittle:



Thank you so much for this advice, my family once arranged a muslim guy for me who already brought things to marry me but I eloped. He wasn't educated and my siblings supported me, they said I should be allowed to make my choice.
I have convinced my parents that I can't marry this guy and that I dont love him, my mom says that love will grow and the only thing they are using against me is that I brought this one myself...so why will I change my mind. That I am spiritually possessed.


I have never felt this in love with anyone, I once travelled out of town to forget him, but I just can't. It is not working. We are obsessed with each other and I know he would have been with me if we met earlier.

I work in a Promasidor key distributor's office and I also have a HND from Kwara Poly.

ugojohnlittle:



Thank you so much for this advice, my family once arranged a muslim guy for me who already brought things to marry me but I eloped. He wasn't educated and my siblings supported me, they said I should be allowed to make my choice.
I have convinced my parents that I can't marry this guy and that I dont love him, my mom says that love will grow and the only thing they are using against me is that I brought this one myself...so why will I change my mind. That I am spiritually possessed.


I have never felt this in love with anyone, I once travelled out of town to forget him, but I just can't. It is not working. We are obsessed with each other and I know he would have been with me if we met earlier.

.

ugojohnlittle:



Thank you so much for this advice, my family once arranged a muslim guy for me who already brought things to marry me but I eloped. He wasn't educated and my siblings supported me, they said I should be allowed to make my choice.
I have convinced my parents that I can't marry this guy and that I dont love him, my mom says that love will grow and the only thing they are using against me is that I brought this one myself...so why will I change my mind. That I am spiritually possessed.


I have never felt this in love with anyone, I once travelled out of town to forget him, but I just can't. It is not working. We are obsessed with each other and I know he would have been with me if we met earlier.

I work in a Promasidor key distributor's office and I also have a HND from Kwara Poly.

Oliviaarims:

Good..At least u've got sth doing 4 urself. If u make up ur mind to forget bout this man u claim to be obsessed with,then u surely will...with time. That man's no good 4 u. I feel like begging not to do this-nursing hope as regards a future with him. But u'd still go ahead to do what u want. Even if he leaves hz fiancé to marry u,karma 'll catch up with u 4 destroying her relationship, coz she was there before u and u knew it.

And what's the guarantee that when u get married he won't cheat on u,since he conveniently cheated on his fiancee?...And what's the guarantee,also,that there's no other side chic of his somewhere?

My dear,pls move on. Put all of these behind you. Look 4 long-lasting happiness:Everybody deserves that. Don't settle 4 less.

Oyind17:

This spicy eeh
Cc
Prettythickme

omotayo123

JollyJoy

Ladyx

Estharfabian

come and advice a sister

PinkBarbie:
On point!

StPete:
The guy is simply eating his cake and having it. And this OP is so foolish to tag along.

I mean for heaven’s sake, do you have to date or marry either of them abi men done finish for your world?

Take a break and clear your head jor. No relationships in the interim. Go away as far as possible from either of both men.

This is exactly what I want to do. But I can't just relocate, I wish I could just get a job away from here, I am applying randomly for work so as to have a legitimate reason to leave town thereby ending the marriage plans.

Do not contact them nor allow them contact you.

By the time you have had a clear breath of fresh air, usually around 6 months, look for a decent guy to start with.

StPete:
The guy is simply eating his cake and having it. And this OP is so foolish to tag along.

I mean for heaven’s sake, do you have to date or marry either of them abi men done finish for your world?

Take a break and clear your head jor. No relationships in the interim. Go away as far as possible from either of both men.
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Do not contact them nor allow them contact you.

By the time you have had a clear breath of fresh air, usually around 6 months, look for a decent guy to start with.

misspicy:

Oyind17:

This spicy eeh
Cc
Pretty.thickme
omotayo.123
Jolly.Joy
Ladyx
Esthar.biafra
come and advice a sister

NinaNigeria:
so u don't wana marry the muslim coz u don't love him and he is a "petty soft drink retailer". mxm bitches like u upset the heck out of me. Well let the muslim go, coz he deserves a better woman than your stupid self. I wish he gets a really good girl who loves him, and he gets a better job or bzns deal which will make him a millionaire in American dollars. while the Christian marries the masters girl. You on the other hand have proven that u r a stupid home wrecker who does not value her self, and allows herself to be used as a intimacy gadget. how the hell did u allow yourself to go in to a relationship with a man who has a woman in the first place? bitch u need brain pills coz u don't have none. abeg with all due respect, keep being the sidechick of your little male hoe, while he marries this other chick. I wish he impregnates u with triplets and dumps u after wards, so that u can wake up when u r 35, single and not a threat to many men who don't wana be step daddies. bithc use your brain and dump that fool of yours who u call a boyfriend. leave the soft drink guy alone coz he deserves a real woman. just clear your mind for sometime before starting a relationship. your problem is that u do things for people. bet u bragged about he oil guy just bcoz of his job, and now u don't want the ppl u were bragging to, to realise that u were a little concubine and nothing else. how some girls think I don't understand. don't u know dat u should be someone's queen and not his prostitute. bitch grow up

gunners160:
think b4 u insult and advice . . .D brain is meant for thinking and not for spewing rubbish

gunners160:
COULD THIS BE LOVE?the answer is a big "NO" and it will never be love.First and foremost,I will like you to know that there is no crime in falling in love but that does not mean 1 should not think with his/her brains.
The first guy you dated played a mind game on you because he saw your weakness and he used it against you.first,he knows very well he can't get married to you because you are a muslim so he told you the truth knowing fully well you won't break up with him thereby in future when the lady he really wants to get married to should come you won't have anythng to say or accuse him of cheating because he told you beforehand that he has some1 he wants to get married.
Secondly,When he knew you wr about to get married to some1else he pretended to be heartbroken and also pushed the blame on you. Funny enough he himself has some1else he wants to get married to by Febuary and funny enough it really worked on you to the extent you went ahead trying to kill yourself forgeting that "nobody is indispensable".
For the second guy,he is a complete pretender. Yes,"A pretender.
1.He knows you are seeing anoda guy yet he does not care pls tell me which guy will see his fiancee dating anoda guy and will be comfortable with it?
2.He knew you are pregnant 4 sum1else and he mumulishly wants to be d fada do you think it is ordinary
3.You dnt knw anything abt him ask yourself "why".The answer is because he pretends and dnt want you to know about him.
4 He has no job and staying with is parents pls tell me where wuld u be sleeping if he gets married to you?or how is he going to fed you?.Lastly,he is imature and reports to your family every time wo trying to handle things himself.
SOLUTION: PLS,TAKE YOUR TIME AND DNT RUSH INTO MARRIAGE BECOS YOU WILL RUSH OUT. TRY AND LOOK 4 ANODA JOB ELSEWHERE AS THIS WILL GIVE YOU TIME TO USE YOUR BRAINS AND NOT YOUR HEART WHEN DEALING WITH RLSHP ISSUES.THE SECOND GUY HAS 3 OPTIONS TO MARRY ANODA WOMAN IF HE ENDS UP MARRYING YOU AND D RLSHP IS NOT BRINGING FORTH ANYTHNG TANGIBLE. . FURTHERMORE IT IS NO TO LATE TO CANCEL YOUR MARRIAGE DATE WITH DIS GUY AT LEAST,IT IS BETA DAN LIVING IN BONDAGE 4 D REST OF UR LIFE. FINALLY,DNT KARE ABOUT HOW TO FACE YOUR FRIENDS EVEN THOUGH U HAVE BOASTED ABOUT DIS GUY. THEY WILL SURELY TALK BUT 1 THNG 4 SURE IS DAT THEY WILL KIP QUIET WHEN THEY ARE TIRED OF TALKING!

Estharfabian:
LoL..."" my dear, wetin I go talk? NL don advice am finish nah... wetin my own small 2Cents go change!? ""


Anyways...*Back to proper English*

Uhm...Op..You've said it all..Mr Muslim Adores You.

..He even stood by You even when he knew You got Pregnant..
..He Knows You Love some Other Guy And he's still willing to Marry You..
...The Assholic Christian guy had a Fiancé n still dated you (Side-Chick)..LoL! think of what he'll do when he finally marries you...

If you ask me? the Muslim guy is an Angel and I'll pick him anyday...anytime..""

Oyind17...Ah don talk my own..over to You abeg *drops mic*

HARDDON:

Monocultured

Estharfabian:
I'm sorry?? Whatcha Tryna say? ""

HARDDON:


Parochail......


Only a tru player wud see tru the second guy's moves n motives.....

You only roast what is within d homestead, and hunters wud give any bait to lure sexy games home...

Hope u dig that, if u didnt, nida do i

Oyind17:
I dey cum, make I finish I go modify

You want your Christian boyfriend to leave his fiancée and be with you, right? And don't want to marry the other guy cos of what your friends will say right?

You will end up loosing in this selfish game of yours. You said the Christian is faithful you forget he's cheating on his fiancée.
I'll advice you to either marry the Muslim or you. wait till you see someone you love. Forget about the guy that is engaged, you are just his sextool

gamaliel121:
Love or no love.. What does not belong to u is not yours... So you want the other hommie to leave his fiancee for u? because u love him? Fucck love Do the right thing niggress... Leave that bf alone..and fall in love with another person.... You guys will knowingly ruin your lives and come here for advice... Mtchewwwwwwwwwwww

And thumbs up to that bf u love... For controlling 2 bit-cheese well.. Your are his sextool...to him..ur just his freee pucciiiiiii.... Hahahahahahaha