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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please / Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) / He Is Almost 40 And She Is Above 34 But They Still Want Abortion (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 05, 2015
ShyNeptune:

lol. your parents will definitely wanna help you out.
just try and confide in them.


Dude. Shut the Bleep up.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ChynoBEATS: 3:12pm On Nov 05, 2015
ShyNeptune:
alright.... but just ensure you don't get your lady pregnant.
Ok
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 05, 2015
Demigods:


Dude. Shut the Bleep up.
lol. alright.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 05, 2015
ChynoBEATS:

Ok
yeah.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ststyreal(f): 10:28am On Nov 06, 2015
ChynoBEATS:


Can i mail you?
Habaa! Am just goofing around with that guy that called me an abortionist. Sorry am not a nurse but works in the hospital.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ChynoBEATS: 10:57am On Nov 06, 2015
ststyreal:

Habaa! Am just goofing around with that guy that called me an abortionist. Sorry am not a nurse but works in the hospital.

Ok
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nuellah: 3:31pm On Nov 09, 2015
Demigods:



Dude. Shut the Bleep up.
.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by cocolacec(m): 6:42am On Nov 13, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
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SECTION 228 AND 229 OF THE CRIMINAL CODE
228. Any person who, with intent to procure miscarriage of a woman whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to her or causes her to take any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years.

229. Any woman who, with intent to procure her own miscarriage, whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to herself any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, or permits any such thing or means to be administered or used to her, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for seven years.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 13, 2015
cocolacec:

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SECTION 228 AND 229 OF THE CRIMINAL CODE
228. Any person who, with intent to procure miscarriage of a woman whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to her or causes her to take any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years.

229. Any woman who, with intent to procure her own miscarriage, whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to herself any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, or permits any such thing or means to be administered or used to her, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for seven years.

Crase they worry you.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by cocolacec(m): 4:37pm On Nov 13, 2015
Demigods:


Crase they worry you.

The Truth they say its bitter.What i quoted is the Nigeria provisions of the law regarding your situation.Abortion is not something to publicise.If i want law enforecement to catch you,i can send them after with your Nairaland account but i wont do that.A word is enough for the wise.I wonder why you young boys on nairaland use derogatory words on your uncle mate .In my days when a man impregnate a woman he gladly accept to marry the lady or take responsiblity of the child.To commit fornication is a sin against God and now you have the result of your fornication,satan is leading to take a life you cannot create.So you have two sins to answer for before Your Lord.If you dont want the baby ,give it to me when its born,i can assure it will be your loss.

I ask you how are you different from the soka or okija people who dismember people body parts its the same with the abortion(ist),if you dont have love and pity for your own flesh and blood you can never have for people close to you.
Before you say he with no sin should cast the forst stone.i can proudly tell you i never nor my family ever engage in abortion.We value God gift of Life and will never take what we cant create.

"And do not kill your children for fear of poverty: We give them sustenance and yourselves (too): surely to kill them is a great wrong." (Q17:31)

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ChynoBEATS: 3:54am On Jan 03, 2016
cocolacec:

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SECTION 228 AND 229 OF THE CRIMINAL CODE
228. Any person who, with intent to procure miscarriage of a woman whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to her or causes her to take any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for fourteen years.

229. Any woman who, with intent to procure her own miscarriage, whether she is or is not with child, unlawfully administers to herself any poison or other noxious thing, or uses any force of any kind, or uses any other means whatever, or permits any such thing or means to be administered or used to her, is guilty of a felony, and is liable to imprisonment for seven years.




R u a barrister?

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by cocolacec(m): 4:37am On Jan 03, 2016
ChynoBEATS:





R u a barrister?
Im married to a barrister

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ChynoBEATS: 8:04am On Jan 03, 2016
cocolacec:
Im married to a barrister
Cool cheesy my gf wants to study law too buh now she's having a 2nd thought abt it
sad
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 04, 2016
ChynoBEATS:

Cool cheesy my gf wants to study law too buh now she's having a 2nd thought abt it
sad
lol. why's she not sure?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jan 04, 2016
Pls guys if you are not ready to marry a girl in d next six month, pls forget about dating because this dating shit brings a lot of stories that touches d heart. What is the need of having sex when your not ready to father the baby?? angry
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 04, 2016
Eliba:
Pls guys if you are not ready to marry a girl in d next six month, pls forget about dating because this dating shit brings a lot of stories that touches d heart. What is the need of having sex when your not ready to father the baby?? angry
you have a point. *sighs*
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ChynoBEATS: 6:57am On Jan 05, 2016
ShyNeptune:
lol. why's she not sure?
I dont know o... Infact I'd ask her sef...
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 9:11am On Jan 05, 2016
ChynoBEATS:

I dont know o... Infact I'd ask her sef...
cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by goldenbullet: 5:53pm On Sep 04, 2016
08066620214...CALL ME I WILL ADOPT THE BABY...I RUN A MOTHERLESS BABY HOME AND I CAN STIL ADOPT MORE,ABORTION IS A SIN.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by onlinegeneric: 8:59am On Oct 10, 2017
My friend used abortion pill to abort her pregnancy. She used this link to buy abortion pills online from the forum.

Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by timadam: 12:38pm On Nov 01, 2017
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by NwanyiOkpa(f): 11:35pm On Feb 28, 2020
chimchim1:
I spent about 15k to 20k in phc

At where?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by TheActionase(m): 5:22pm On Mar 29, 2020
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.

Seems the doctors on this page can help....they help me and my partner successfully.

https://freeonlinebiznezideas..com/2020/03/abortion-how-to-handle-unwanted_29.html?m=1
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by TheActionase(m): 5:30pm On Mar 29, 2020
Seems the doctors on this page can help....they help me and my partner successfully. They don't judge or use sentiments.. although they can assist if it's 9wks or Less...

https://freeonlinebiznezideas..com/2020/03/abortion-how-to-handle-unwanted_29.html?m=1
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by NobleDeSage001: 5:38pm On Mar 29, 2020
Do not harm an innocent baby by abortion.
Tell your girlfriend to carry the baby and take responsibility.
Approach your Mom or any relation of yours you can freely confide in and open up.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Orgyte: 6:53am On Mar 30, 2020
House is pile in a lady a sign of pregnancy
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by FemiLastBorn(m): 10:15am On Apr 03, 2020
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
. Bro I Need Some Updates From You Concerning This Post.. Pls Reply Me As Soon As You Can.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Zyzman: 10:47am On Mar 31, 2022
olayinkajnr:


I've been there bro. Same happened to me.. I'm fact, she attempted abortion before telling me but it didn't work for her. I opted to leave the pregnancy. Now she put to bed. A boy, 2 months old now. I was serving then and as at this moment, still jobless yet married. Though managing. But to say the fact, things has changed. Its a blessing in disguise. Don't kill the unborn bro. Best of luck.
Bro how your kid now?
And how is your married life?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by okoroemeka(m): 10:53am On Mar 31, 2022


Bro she did a pregnancy strip test she said the lines came out thicker and redder than before. Which means she is pregnant, yes I love her but I'm not working of thru wit school to marry her yet I don't want her to suffer now
also all clinics do that abortion procedure and it is safe,just budget #20k last time I know it is #15k,let her go to a good clinic and tell the nurse what she wants,it is still early,2 weeks will not be a problem
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by olayinkajnr(m): 1:15pm On Mar 31, 2022
Zyzman:

Bro how your kid now?
And how is your married life?

Fine bro. Kid is fine. With 2 beautiful additions.

He's 6 now. Will be 7 by August.

Married life? Well, we thank God. Can't complain. It has its own challenges but above all, it's enjoyable.
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