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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Stillfire: 9:23pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Stillwater/Stillfire - all the same |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by cooker: 9:26pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
do not divorce him yet : your son is still young( secure yourself financially have a side boyfriend so that you won't have emotional pain it will be very difficult for you to change your husband's cheating ways the only way he may change is if he experience something bad while cheating why will he change he knows if he cheats you will still not leave him after all you are his wife i do not see him changing any time soon 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 10:36pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
nevanevaland: He passed two out of 3 naaa sister, you seem like a good woman and your husband is just distracted, why not confront the man. If he doesnt change, you can proceed. ofcourse except you are totally tired of the marriage (as most married people are)..... We guys could be immature choosing the copper over the gold, but on his behalf i apologise. At least talk to the guy first and dont let your anger get the best of you (mistakes women make) cos if it does, you will only give him a reason to be defensive and can even hold you at your angry words. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Stillfire: 11:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
@OP I hope you don't have a false sense of belief that your husband will accord you all these analyses if you cheat eventhough you forgave him when he cheated. You and your ghana must go would be thrown out sharply. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by TV01(m): 12:07am On Nov 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:Although you prefaced this with my moniker, I take it you are not addressing me specifically? If you are, I couldn't be more puzzled. I don't think anyone on this section is clearer,or enunciates more fully, their mission statement, or whom their main target audience is bukatyne:As above - if it's is me you are addressing directly, I can only guess there is something amiss. bukatyne:You would teach your grandmother to suck eggs - like seriously? bukatyne:Are you, like, having a conversation in your head with me, that I know nothing about? Not that I would know,mind or care, but repeating that in public is plain odd bukatyne:Ok, who's logged in as Bukatyne and posting sket - and in a way that suggests there are some pathologies that need addressing This one was incorrectly addressed - please return to sender ! TV |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by TV01(m): 12:30am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Kimoni:Yes 0! I hear so much of no-fault divorce, I actually didn't realise, that not every nation had signed up to it. Only the "progressive", feminist led ones . I was waiting for you all to deal with mindfulness - who claimed the woman "had a right". I'd honestly like her to tell us what that right is, and explain the underlying principle. I'd also like her to explain how that "right" overrides a legal, cultural (societal), traditional (historical), moral and for many spiritual recognition of the agreement, contract, vows and covenant(sacrament) the couple made. The positions such people take are often not even worthy of ridicule. High expectations.... TV |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by TV01(m): 12:36am On Nov 04, 2015 |
daretodiffer:We could argue that forever, and back and forth between most and many - first having agreed on what constituted frivolous, but here you go; AyeeIdris: TV |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 1:43am On Nov 04, 2015 |
[quote author=bukatyne post=39654978] The emphasis on men because women have been trained for so long unfortunately, a tree cannot make a forest. You repeatedly show your ignorance on the matter of family and marriage. Women have been trained for so long therefore, emphasis should be on men. Did it occur to you to ask if this so-called 'training' these women receive is sufficient or even effective? Would you, as a woman, say you know your role as a wife and mother and act accordingly? Because going by your posts in this forum, the loooong training you received is hardly enough, even bordering on defective. Men believing it is OK to cheat or throw bullshyte because they paid bride price or did 3 wedding ceremonies or are superior to women is unfortunately NOT an attitude that will help build strong marriages. Is it the feminist equality that you espouse or your blatant bible-twisting that you assume will by strong marriages? You're such a fine one to talk. In any case, that comment was made in jest, release yourself quick Teaching people epecially women to stay in shitty marriages so stem the divorce/seperation rate is futile. What makes it futile? What is the purpose of a marriage, the big picture? Do you even know? And why especially women? Men don't stay in shitty marriages, because, of course, most women are saints? Babe, I repeat, you dont know shiit. Just because you don't hear men wailing like bushbabies doesn't mean they aren't going through hard times in their homes and marriages. They just conduct themselves as men and discreetly work on whatever challenges they may have. And no, Bukatyne, divorce doesn't help build strong marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by armyofone(m): 4:03am On Nov 04, 2015 |
i read somewhere that you are dayo aboki...wow, i like the change mehn. raumdeuter: |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 8:08am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Stillfire: Well I do not think a husband is mandated to forgive his cheating wife because she forgave him when he cheated. It is her decision to forgive; it is his not to. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 8:11am On Nov 04, 2015 |
[quote author=Timbuktou post=39659432][/quote] I was going to respond to your bullshit but I read the last line. and decided against it. If that is your summary of my post then it is pointless 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Oh, shut up. You have nothing worthy to say. Let me ask you then. What purpose, exactly, is your constant quick prescription of divorce meant to serve? Happiness? Liberation? Correction? Peace? And how would you reconcile your divorce-happy counsel on this forum with the establishment of strong families/marriages; assuming you find that more worthy than your pseudo-equalizing mission, of course. Bear in mind you're at liberty to post another halfassed cop-out. No be today. 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Kimoni: 8:50am On Nov 04, 2015 |
No point TV01, no point taking her on as our values on marriage are pararell lines that would never meet. Again, why engage someone who is quick to go off on your family during a sane debate? To what end? Biko, let me try and keep this short fuse of mine under tight lock and key. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Bukatyne, Do me a favour and don't respond to the indirect attention-seeking jab to incite E-fight and later be claiming pseudo-innocuous/saintly. Thanks. 5 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by TV01(m): 10:17am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Kimoni:I disagree. Tedious as it may be, marriage is a societal artefact - it belongs to us all. So we are in a sense duty bound to treasure it for the benefits it accords. One way of doing this is to defend it from attack. Her values are hers, marriage is ours. If her values are inimical to marriage, she is free to reject it, not infect or pervert it for everyone. There is also a duty of care for those who may be listening, some may will swallow her not so subtle lies wholesale without much thought. It's poison. Saying proclamations of love gives one the right to act as they please to satisfy that feeling is plain wrong in the context of marriage, and blasphemous when she tries to tie it to the biblical prescription for love. She is almost certainly championing this path because it's one she has trodden - trying to normalise - even moralise - it is a lame attempt at self-justification. Pretty typical for transgressors of her type. TV 1 Like |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 2:13pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
FrancisTony: LOLs! Thank you Francis 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 2:16pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
cococandy: I try not to 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by bukatyne(f): 2:22pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
TV01: That post was addressed to you. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by coogar: 2:27pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
Stillfire: she would be very stupïd to hold on to such a belief! Stillfire: i wish it was that simple! man meets woman.......man already has about 5 side-chics. new woman likes the man in spite of the warning signs. woman marries man.....man impregnates one of his side-chics. a scandal ensues! if you don't believe me, ask toke makinwa. |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by raumdeuter: 3:03pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
armyofone: Yarinya, Yaya kwanabiu? Ina kake yanzu |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by mondaynelson20: 3:46pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by TV01(m): 4:06pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:I often wonder, is it comprehension, deduction, a memory disorder, an "inferior" IQ , or outright psychosis? Along with your ever present "complexes", it's kind of hard to tell really, as you at times present conditions & symptoms singularly or severally. So, you call me to a thread I have no interest in - I arrived on page 6. I subsequently made clear my position; TV01: which you had already acknowledged; bukatyne: So please kindly explain how you made the unfathomable leap from there to here; bukatyne: Then this; bukatyne:Who are my main audience on this forum? Do I not regularly - despite the fact that it could be considered somewhat off - drop comments specifically exhorting men? Have I not written a series of pieces advising men? And this; bukatyne:Where have I ever said, insinuated or supported anything even remotely like what you typed And this; bukatyne:Where, when or to whom have I ever advised to stay in a "shitty marriage" - and only in order to "stem the divorce rate" I can only recall one instance of properly responding to a divorce type situation; https://www.nairaland.com/1284024/broken-dejected-found-out-wife/2#15635959 And all addressed specifically at me You have been willfully mis-ascribing things to me for as long as I've known you on this forum. I am always happy to be called out and open to challenge, but this kind of thing is simply quite pathetic. I've advised you previously - stop having soliloquies in your own head and mistaking them for real life. Stop looking for imagined enemies to wage your campaigns against. If the issues are really there address them as they arise and direct your rejoinders to whomsoever raises them. C'mon Bukatyne, I'm sure you are better than mere nuisance value. TV 7 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by armyofone(m): 7:50pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
Lafiya , a aiki. Kuma your suna funny. Menini rodmeter raumdeuter: |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by BluStreak(m): 5:44am On Nov 05, 2015 |
queenfav: May I digress a lil'bit. @queenfav, having not been married and you are in an organisation that exposes you to marital problems mediation which most might likely be as a result of infidelity on the man's part, I am just wondering (I have not implied that you do) if it will not cause you to have trust issues with men. How are you dealing with that? |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Ewuro4: 7:00am On Nov 05, 2015 |
Baba skonskon ni TV01 yi haha easy 0 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 8:38am On Nov 05, 2015 |
dinachi:How did I miss this post? I thought you abide so much by biblical principal/standard going by your self-righteous posts. Why are you not condemning the ADULTEROUS man since bible is so clear on it no sugar-coating?. 7 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by dinachi(m): 8:43am On Nov 05, 2015 |
FrancisTony:As usual, you missed the whole pont! it is not about cheating here, it is about getting close to the man she once called husband to know what is happening, not coming to nairaland to whine about divorce but what do you know? This is not a homosexual relationship so you wouldnt know how it works would you? 5 Likes |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by funlord(m): 8:58am On Nov 05, 2015 |
TV01: What sort of "merciless advice" am I reading from this nairaland print out like this? Bloody hell gaddemit!!! 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Nobody: 8:59am On Nov 05, 2015 |
dinachi:Okay!. I've gotten what I want. This is how christians read bible -- pic attached! 11 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by Gboliwe: 12:11pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
freecocoa:Sweetheart, please remind me again how to download from YouTube. thnx |
Re: Divorce Lawyers In D House, Pls I Need Some Advice by blessedapple: 12:13pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
shoksimba: Please my dear kindly hearken to this advise if not for any other thing, just for the sake of your son. I really feel your pains and will like to remind you of "No cross without a Crown" this might be your trying moment. Please try to bear and conquer evil with good. In other words, try to forgive, forgo, feel free and fresh for your family again. They actually need you. When Job was tempted, he stood his ground and finally made God proud. Wouldn't you like to make God proud again? My dear, God has given you that family to behold and nothing will snatch it away from you (I pray). Keep saying it, keep doing it, keep testifying and the good Lord shall see you through indeed! If you have not been voicing it out pls start now to say nice things about your hubby and family even to his hearing. If you have not been showing it in your actions, pls start now to do things that will give and bring joy/happiness to your family. If you have not been telling about the goodness of your hubby/marriage/family, pls start testifying about it now to everyone. Please do not over burden yourself with sadness and depression. For sorrow may abound in d night, but joy will always come in d morning. Always remember that we(Nairalanders) love you. I personally love and care for you and your happiness. It is well with you, darling. 1 Like |
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