We went into a relationship in 2008, after our nysc in 2012, she had a teaching job d following year and I am yet to secure one by the grace of God.. she is up for marriage and am not ready as she believes she is running outta age.. this has become a problem i do not want to welcome nor entertain neither but she is taking it too far, she is ready to do anything to keep us both according 2 her, she wouldn't mind using her money to get married to me, she believes in morrow,
that isn't the issue here, we both know tomorrow shall be great but considering so many things as a guy and as the first son n first born, I have little siblings, they are all in school, my dad is retired, I am still job hunting... whenever I think of the responsibilities I have to face in life, marriage disappears from ma mind n doesn't seem to reflect in the next 3 years, her behaviours this days has gotten me under pressure, I told her she is free to marry someone as she told me so had propose to her lately,she is telling me she can't concentrate with any other guy that her love for me is still there and grows every minute, now she is saying I never loved her if I should turn down her proposal and the only way to prove this love is by accepting her proposal..

Like seriously I don't know the words to say to her, mbok u guys are needed here mbok..

CUMPOLICE01:

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Booking your space in a filling station abi?

she proposed to you and not just that she fixed a date for you to marry her. All she wants is to be rest assured that you are her own anytime you are ready to marry. therefore, if you do love her, accept her proposal tell her not too soon but we are together. #justsaying

Hmmm! This is serious o

Please, sit her down and explain things to her just as you've done here.

I won't blame her, society's pressure on ladies is damn too much. Especially when you've attained a certain age and already working. It takes a very strong person to withstand the pressure.

Please, don't think about marriage until you are ready.

Serious

It is not everyday we find a naija woman who would stick to her boyfriend this long without money involved. My brother you are a lucky man. Start planning the marriage bro. Fix a tentative date next year and start working towards it. No job yet? Learn a skill this month and start marketing yourself. With time you will notice undeniable progress.

I won't advice you to allow her fund your wedding. You will earn enough money. Don't worry. Loving women are not many anymore. Na business women full town now o.

AfroKnight:
It is not everyday we find a naija woman who would stick to her boyfriend this long without money involved. My brother you are a lucky man. Start planning the marriage bro. Fix a tentative date next year and start working towards it. No job yet? Learn a skill this month and start marketing yourself. With time you will notice undeniable progress.

I won't advice you to allow her fund your wedding. You will earn enough money. Don't worry. Loving women are not many anymore. Na business women full town now o.

i concur with you.