Because pple have decided to throw morals in the gutter.

it can be reduced if we stop imitating the whites and also if ladies can stop demanding much. truth is sex is just an overrated act.

This is the reason.

People spend all their energy thinking and talking about what is not right. Sooo, they spend all their energy doing just that.
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You cannot be just against premarital sex.
You have to stand for abstinence.
You have to be celibate... engage in intellectual devlpmt activities... and live among and support people who prioritize life ambitions and goals above their seemingly insatiable sexual inclinations...
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TV and internet are not to blame for your misdeeds.

You and you alone are responsible for your actions...

Too many black market everywhere these days... I dey press my mango well well Before I buy am o I dey even collect taste for my Suya before I buy am.... Make I no go buy fake or half done. I dey examine all the components well well when I buy phone, sometimes I dey even take am snap and send text message sef . I dey test the charger too if e dey work well well abi who wan buy no testing?

Winneygirl:
This is the reason.

People spend all their energy thinking and talking about what is not right. Sooo, they spend all their energy doing just that.
.
You cannot be just against premarital sex.
You have to stand for abstinence.
You have to be celibate... engage in intellectual devlpmt activities... and live among and support people who prioritize life ambitions and goals above their seemingly insatiable sexual inclinations...
.
TV and internet are not to blame for your misdeeds.

You and you alone are responsible for your actions...

Wisdom! My friend.

pre marital sex.. hummm.. even when the media were nt showing unclad baes;it still happen;most of us are illegitimate child.(product of sex outside marriage)
may heaven have mercy on this Generation

delectablegyal:
I doubt if there is any relationship without sex these days. Even the media is not helping in anyway to curb pre-marital sex instead, they are enhancing it. Can you think of any music video that doesn't display obscene scenes? I doubt. Ladies shaking their buttocks, showing ladies taking bath in the bathroom, ladies putting on mosquito net calling it fashion. Look at that girl in iyanya's okamfo video, she is somebody's future wife.


Almost everywhere you go, you can't do without seeing these half unclad ladies. Even inside b.r.t, u ll see a screen playing fans mi by davido, real mvp by olamide, b.r.t that is for both adults and children. Will u now cover your ward's eyes? Saying "don't watch it, too many half unclad ladies inside".


What's the way forward? How can pre-marital sex be curbed?

Since am not to comment but led to pray...... About this issue.
MAY GOD DELIVER,HELP AND STRENGTHEN US IN THIS END TIME ERA IN JESUS NAME........ AND MAY HE GLORIFY HIS NAME IN OUR LIVES IN JESUS NAME....

because of ignorance of the high cost of premarital sex.

irisola:
pre marital sex.. hummm.. even when the media were nt showing unclad baes;it still happen;most of us are illegitimate child.(product of sex outside marriage)
may heaven have mercy on this Generation

Speak for yourself.

Strahovski:
End time.. soon the wrath of the Lord will be upon you all for your sins

his royal has holiness

I think sex is over - rated and one should wait till marriage before having sex........of course it is very very possible.

atlest the op didnt said anytin about his chaste, but rather talking to the populace for correction. I think so many factors is causing this.
1. A bad home. Telling u the truth, a good home is deteroriating these days. Let me ask u this question, when last has ur parent talk to about ur dressing.

Curb it for what? What's wrong with having pre-marital sex?

What is the world turning to? So human beings can not stand for what is right even if one has knowingly or mistakenly indulged in the wrong. God help those in this thread and this generation..

Estharfabian:
Hypocrite!!


Thunder wee seriously fire You if You're nuh A Virgin ...

So only Vees have the right to make statements bothering on morality ?

This has been going on for more than a century , its nothing new so get used to it.u can't bet on girls of tday , u need to test and be sure or u end up spending your life with damaged goods.

Estharfabian:
Hypocrite!!

Thunder wee seriously fire You if You're nuh A Virgin...

And what brought thunder firing him into this matter.
Grow up kid.

People used to marry as soon as they hit puberty and courtship was relatively brief. Now many wait till they finish university and go through lengthy periods of courtship so to expect that pre-marital sex would be as rare now as before is comparing apples to oranges.

I respect my body very well and guide it with dignity.

Sex is like a Food you will eat to fullest when you get married in the Future.
So why rushing to eat the food now?

It's cos of the society and the moral decadence afflicting it, the media promotes it, we all want to be like the whites copying their ways of life, etc.
Nowadays, pple even brag abt the no of sexual partners they av. Some 15yr olds sef av more than 2 sexual partners, and nudity is gradually becoming synonymous wt beauty, it's like some ladies feel they can't look good wtout exposing themselves, claiming to be flaunting what they av. The pple who manage to stick wt a sense of moral, decency and stand firm against premarital sex are seen as the weirdos and abnormal ones, some do it to feel among or accepted.
But I wld say the Society manifests the type of women therein, if the women are decent wt gud morals it will surely influence the Society. If a Society is gud, look at the women, if otherwise still look at the women. Like the Prophet said, train a man, train one person, train a woman, u train a nation. The Society is the product of the women in tht Society, the values emphasized on by the mother will av a lot of impact on the offspring. Sincerely, this generation is still manageable, I hope sometime soon, our women wnt be wearing pant and bra as normal daily wear .It's the end times, when women will wear clothes yet na-ked.
At the end of the day we all make our choices but nt everyone is lucky enof to escape the manifest consequences of pre-marital sex.
# Saynotopremaritalsex

Estharfabian:
Hypocrite!!

Thunder wee seriously fire You if You're nuh A Virgin...

Buhaha. Well...who no dey Bleep?

Because marriage is expensive and we can not wait anymore to have the pleasure...

Adaure4ever:
I respect my body very well and guide it with dignity.

Sex is like a Food you will eat to fullest when you get married in the Future.
So why rushing to eat the food now?

Iffa zlap you ehn.

Onye asai.

@OP, Your point is how to reduce our wards exposure to soft pornography, Because there is nothing like premarital sex, since not everyone would marry.

If a person happens to have sex at say 20years and ends up not being married at 80years (for whatever reason), would we then say such a person had premarital sex?

the influence of western culture

lol.. am nt selfish;i speak for all..

MrLexander:
Well my dear op you can only justify this if u aint one of them.. first, are you a virgin? Are u married? Havent you been having sexx?

The generation of this century is spoilt most especially now that the world is digitalised.. technology is advanced.. we trying to emulate the white folks style.. ot cant be curbed rather it will get worst..

Sha remove the peck in ur eyes before talking abt stick in someone elses..

Goodnyt..

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Because u steal does not mean you should advice ur children to or let them continue because u are guilty of it. It is only when we recognize our weakness that we work to overcoming it.

You remember your usual prayer that God should give you the courage to accept what you can't change?

This is one of them.

0ldirtybastard:


Iffa zlap you ehn.

Onye asai.

Nna abeg tear the guy correct back hand slap wey carry registration number abeg!

Welcome to microwave generation where everything is done quick fast and in a hurry....
Now that pologmy is no longer tolerated guys wanna dip here and there before committing.
Now that women are exposed just a husband is not enough, he must be able to provide the finer things in life she peep on cable tv, so most of them money for hand back for ground.
Since we mix up with other culture now having baby mama baby daddy is a fun, and less expensive then traditional, white wedding Aso Ebi and da such.
IMO

delectablegyal:
I doubt if there is any relationship without sex these days. Even the media is not helping in anyway to curb pre-marital sex instead, they are enhancing it. Can you think of any music video that doesn't display obscene scenes? I doubt. Ladies shaking their buttocks, showing ladies taking bath in the bathroom, ladies putting on mosquito net calling it fashion. Look at that girl in iyanya's okamfo video, she is somebody's future wife.


Almost everywhere you go, you can't do without seeing these half unclad ladies. Even inside b.r.t, u ll see a screen playing fans mi by davido, real mvp by olamide, b.r.t that is for both adults and children. Will u now cover your ward's eyes? Saying "don't watch it, too many half unclad ladies inside".


What's the way forward? How can pre-marital sex be curbed?

Funny thread. Would you buy a car without test driving it? People underate the power of sexual compatibility. Or the lack of it. I'd rather find out we don't blend together that way than find out when we are married.