icedbeatz:
you are a female definitely. Op dnt gib into this crap, if she truly loved him she would have never put him in that position. Zou females think the word sorry automatically solves every fups u all dish out. Op the handwritin is on the goddamn wall now cease to be a fool. Ask yourself this op, would you put her in such position if u were in her shoes because of an "ex"? That dead dude wasnt no ex. He was her true love and she defended him and attacked u the way u would attack an ordinary female friend that says shitt abt a girl u truky love Use ur logic now and lock up ur emotions nw op. Time for logical thinking.

misspicy:

so you all are saying she should not mourn him for as long as she wants because he is an EX?

is he an alien?
so because he wants to marry her now,she should suspend every other activities?...la wa
the way we react to death is different maybe she needs to heal alone,she might no need to share it with her current boyfriend?

I still see nothing bad in her mourning her EX for as long as she wants even at her present boyfriend's stand...kilode,if I lose an EX today amma mourn him well,he is human....

misspicy:

A sane man you say?

you mean a sane man who is not insecure will feel threatened by a dead man?


you all are confused,for Christ sake,the man is no more,not like she will go and meet him in the land of the dead I don't see the fuse here?

its just a phase and she will be over it soon.
they must have shared some memories and it hurts to lose anyone not to talk of someone you were close with

OP is just insecure mbok

jmaxjohn:
I'm nt saying she shdnt mourn. She shd, or he'll freak out dat she's gt no heart. From a guys standpoint, mine (an emotional guy at dat), if u wanna mourn i think it shd b on my shoulders. I'll understand ur pain nd know just hw to help, I'll help u heal nd even love u beta, I'll know just hw to make u smile wen such a loss happens again. Moments like this define d strength of ppls luv; wu do u run to for a shoulder?
But it seems she needs d space to mourn indefinitely.
Coz if she can mourn for an ex for bout 2 months nd z obviously still mourning, den if dat ex wanted her baq if he was alive, our luv stands no chance. It's more like she used me to get over d ex.
Ure a gal na misspicy, u shd get wat i mean.

donTbone:

Ok... let your wife or gef be thinking about a dead man
for more than normal and tell me you wont be bothered...
That only happens in Nollywood and bollywood
BIKO! we are human...

If you knw d definition of insecure, u wont post such!
I think you are the most confused nigga here!

misspicy:

lmao

point am bringing out is this EX is no more,he is gone and not coming back

she can mourn him anyhow she wants and prefer

that's just my point

icedbeatz:
lol do u think its a male thats behind the emotionlly raving post? Let alone a "Nigga"

icedbeatz:
reactivate your oblongata dear, so its col that the supposed wife to be is in love with the dead guz so the op has nothing to worry about since the guy is late? What about the fact that she values the late guy millions more than op? Just cos the guy is dead he should be grateful that she wouldnt have anything to do with the dead guy anymore? Which from their situation its crystal clear that she loves thee late guy (her true love). Well how could i expect u fellows to be sensible about his situation, op thats warning from God so listen. Shes just going to settle for u her fall back guy and maybe fantasize about the dead guy straffin her while u r on top the matter.

funkyibodude:
One thing! Someone's first love always remain in their hearts forever. Be it a guy or a lady, maybe her ex is her first love or someone really special to her. For the fact she's with you doesn't mean her heart is completely off her Ex... So just try and be the man for her and prove to her that you are better than her Ex in all aspects, soon after she would gradually forget him.

icedbeatz:
reactivate your oblongata dear, so its col that the supposed wife to be is in love with the dead guz so the op has nothing to worry about since the guy is late? What about the fact that she values the late guy millions more than op? Just cos the guy is dead he should be grateful that she wouldnt have anything to do with the dead guy anymore? Which from their situation its crystal clear that she loves thee late guy (her true love). Well how could i expect u fellows to be sensible about his situation, op thats warning from God so listen. Shes just going to settle for u her fall back guy and maybe fantasize about the dead guy straffin her while u r on top the matter.

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Dont mind theses chics. If they were the ones a guy did that too they will be up in arms
Double standards I tell ya

funkyibodude:
One thing! Someone's first love always remain in their hearts forever. Be it a guy or a lady, maybe her ex is her first love or someone really special to her. For the fact she's with you doesn't mean her heart is completely off her Ex... So just try and be the man for her and prove to her that you are better than her Ex in all aspects, soon after she would gradually forget him.

icedbeatz:
*smiling lik a mofo*... MAAAAAA NIGGA! whats good bro? How have you been enjoying the merry sweet season? Hows everything and work G?

fernandoc:
That girl doesn't respect you. And my brother these days men ought to value that more than love.
You can take her back only when you are sure she has learnt hour lessons.

BUTCHCASSIDY:


Ma nigga where have U been bro
Compliments of the season

icedbeatz:
man, a nigga been so goddamn busy, stressed the fk out and barely got time which i use to solely replenish and refresh a nigga since a month now but thank God project is completed and the fruits of the labour makes it soooo ..... Infact you know how joyful numbers makes us feel . Ma nigga how the streets of nl dey man?

misspicy:

kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

1)am no nigga,remove that shade on your eyes,this is misspicy

2)only an insecure man will be competing with a dead man's memory,kilode? she can mourn her ex as much as she wants,so what if it was her brother will OP say the same?
the way we mourn the dead differs,men are likely to easily get along well but women tend to mourn till they can mourn no mourn


there is nothing wrong in here mourning her EX anyway she likes,how long she wants until she can mourn no more shikena

catlova:


@jmaxjohn, huh, he b geh with stone-heart ooo. she no fit understand anitin

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Ive been on break since Monday homes
Been doing some serious travelling too just touched down in Ibadan
Enjoying the weather and shìt... great people around here too

BUTCHCASSIDY:


So you're happy being a backup quarterback
Meen thats fùcked up

misspicy:

kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

1)am no nigga,remove that shade on your eyes,this is misspicy

2)only an insecure man will be competing with a dead man's memory,kilode? she can mourn her ex as much as she wants,so what if it was her brother will OP say the same?
the way we mourn the dead differs,men are likely to easily get along well but women tend to mourn till they can mourn no mourn


there is nothing wrong in here mourning her EX anyway she likes,how long she wants until she can mourn no more shikena

odaniel1:


Why do ladies hv a problem abt male insecurity?
Whateva makes som women think Men are "metallic" and aint supoxd 2 subjct 2 emotions n shii.
Take a chill pill bae, ts ok fr a man 2 b insecure esp ds kind..lol
Cmon, dude dnt evn kno if she mourning or missin d x factor. He's gt every right to b inquisitive. NL jst does d thinkin out loud. M sure u'd too if u wr in d position

phrancky:
Misspicy, i havent felt insecure to any lady before and am damn sure this wouldnt be my first. I wasnt against her mourning the dead and even if she is to do that, must she bring it to my notice when the said guy was her ex and had been in contact with him while he was alive. If she could still be so emotionally connected to someone who is dead, wondering what she will be doing with other numerous ex of hers who are still alive.

misspicy:

A sane man you say?

you mean a sane man who is not insecure will feel threatened by a dead man?


you all are confused,for Christ sake,the man is no more,not like she will go and meet him in the land of the dead I don't see the fuse here?

its just a phase and she will be over it soon.
they must have shared some memories and it hurts to lose anyone not to talk of someone you were close with

OP is just insecure mbok

marvelous000:

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Bruh!

I gat no advice for you, order than the embolded. She just made it easier by giving you a clue on what to do. tho not going back to your ex, but dumping her.

Never allow yourself to used has an option. By all indication. She never loved you and is unlikely to love you.

Her comment just sloughed all doubt.
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Richiy:


You took the words right outta my mouth. Over a dead man? She z just hurt and it is just a phase.