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Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 10:58pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
I just saw this advert somewhere and I am wondering if that is a joke or real? Call 07041185403 For A Ready 2 Marry Guy. 28 Graduate |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 11:01pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
some can and do sponsor their weddings |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 11:02pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Can you ? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:06pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Never! Will he also wear the skirt and blouse? A man ought to be a man abeg |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 11:09pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
agabaI23: mba oo. if i sponsor it what will the man doing then? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 11:11pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
~Sissy~: Then why do those who do it do it? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:12pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
agabaI23: desperation or stupidity I've even heard of women that gave the man money for their own engagement ring and that man will open his mouth one day and shout that he's the head of the house when he should be pounding foo foo in the backyard |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 11:13pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: gbam |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Majority of women would say NO. Why? cuz we ain't that desperate. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 11:15pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Yes I could sponsor my own wedding, but whether I would is another thing entirely. Wouldn't bother getting married to him otherwise. What hope is there for the actual marriage if he can't contribute to the wedding itself? No guy better even discuss wedding plans with me, if he cannot even foot 50% of the bill. Mess off. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
FL Gators: i beg to disagree . . . most nigerian women are indeed desperate even though they like to pretend. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 11:16pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: yes the desperation is very true~ once that biological clock start ticking it's do or die for some. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Desire2(f): 11:20pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
For me, it doesn't really matter if I do or don't, I mean it is MY wedding also so it doesn't make him any less of a man if he asks for my input. I do know that my parents would not mind contributing. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 11:20pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Secretz: True talk . . . .i dont mind contributing |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan:Desperate to the extent of paying for our own wedding? I thought Naija women loff to suck money from men, so now the story changed? Stop hanging out with 4Play jare. @Post He'll pay for the wedding and the other 22 after wedding parties |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:21pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
~Sissy~: If I were in that position and the biological clock was ticking sotay desperation catch me say 40 years or older[b],I may consider sponsoring the wedding but the man must be younger in age at least by 10 years.[/b]if I'm marrying him,I want one with very little mileage on his odometer It has to be a win win situation 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 11:22pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: Rofl . . . . . .Hehehehehehe |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
FL Gators: you havent seen anything yet. Nigerian women are desperate . . . beneath all the veneer of "i dont care". |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan:How you take know? Oya start confessing. How many times have you "visited" ajegunle? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 11:26pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
What I think is right is for the guy to take care of the traditional rights. Then if the babe has some money she can contribute for the white wedding assuming they are doing it. But for a guy to wait for her woman to sponsor their wedding it is not very good. I witnessed it recently though. I will tell you later A friend of mine got into it in naija. he refused to tell me about it. He had to use my car as his only contribution to the wedding. The in laws who were footing the bill were ordering him around. It was awful. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
agabaI23: Very sad state of affairs . . . one of the reasons i am determined to stay off weddings until my pockets are well padded. I wont stand in-law interference either in my wedding or marriage. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
FL Gators: you mean your ajegunle? I've lost count dear. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 11:29pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: true and thats prolly the age range of those who sponsor everything in their weddings as long as the man agrees to marry them. just marry me and i will do everything and anything. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Thou shall not corrupt the innocent mind. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:30pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: Tope imagine this na You pass 20,pass 30,reach 40 begin pass no man and you get the means. Here comes a man nearing 50 asking for your hand in marriage without shishi,living with his mama or crashing on someones couch Hoping to move into your house after the wedding which you'll sponsor what on earth would posess anyone to marry such a man. The man must be below 35 and agile then we can begin to talk. I'll help him find a job |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
@topic Hmmm no. what will my family say? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 11:34pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan: my point exactly. . . . if you both can contribute yourselves 50/50 then the plans and how you both want things are down to you, no one else. But seriously, which self respecting man would leave his fiance to foot the bill, only for her and her family to remember it later during the marriage. If a woman's sell by date is coming up, then is there much need for a big wedding if the man can't afford it. Go get married behind the rocks. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:36pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
David you don't even have to be well padded The wedding can be simple and within your budget |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 11:36pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
stillwater: they will congratulate you first for finding a man and second for paying the wedding |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: Abi. Before he gets heart attack over nothing. ~Sissy~: Lol, they will fight tooth and nail so I wouldn't marry him in the first place. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Secretz: i dont even like 50/50 contributions . . . especially if i'm marrying a fellow nigerian. Better to wait to afford it 100%, of course i wont complain if she decides to chip in. But let it not be said 5 yrs down the line that i didnt play my role as a man then. $osisi: Lets face it, depends on the woman and the family involved. If they say they want an elaborate wedding what do i do? Beg them? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 11:40pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: Death I agree jare |
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