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Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:41pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
I know someone that sponsored her wedding She paid for everything They moved into her apartment later into her house he drove her car She paid for everything The man later went on to become a high earning professional but the marriage was plagued with problems from the beginning because she who earned the money naturally determined how it was spent. The man felt emasculated and eventually filed for divorce. It's not a good idea for a woman to wear the pants in the family from the get go. I can understand a woman being the provider because the man fell on hard times but being the breadwinner from the marriage's inception is not a good idea. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: you've said it all. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi:LOL divoorce was inevitable, there's no way any MAN would let his wife run the finance in the family. Kilode? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:49pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
FL Gators: That story is not unique o It's become very common all those single Nigerian nurses are now going home with wedding gown in hand and marrying men and filing papers bringing them over here. If you know any intimately,you'll feel sorry for the husbands. Same with some who are not doing much and their wives become nurses and take on the role of a man Many of them become babysitters while the woman works 3 jobs. Maybe that's why when their demons double in number,they hack the women to death |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 11:50pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
David It is very sad. The truth is that the babe is way older and is working. The family is well to do as well. This guy has no job. I think the family promised him a job if he married their daughter. The drinks for the wedding was bought in the middle of the night before the wedding 'cos they were waiting for the girl's brother to bring money from ABJ |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: I know some doing that right now . . . my brother even surprised me with a similar story this morning. It seems many nigerian women here are not finding nigerian men and are returning to nigeria to marry men they hardly know in increasing numbers. I tire for them! And she was only 25 at worst. If i had agreed, they would have married me off 4 yrs ago. All they told me i had to do was show up for the wedding since the girl was a banker with an MBA, her own car, apartment and money plus the kicker - US passport. I wasnt ready to go be a girl's plaything for the yrs i'd be in school. Marriage can wait abeg. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:52pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
agabaI23: Agaba you should have cautioned this your friend against this sort of contract. He'll never be a man again. If his name is Emeka,he is now Amaka. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 11:53pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: Ive heard of cases like this tooo. But this is one of the reasons why a man shouldnt be discussing wedding plans if he no get the money to put down. If he hasn't got much they can do it within their budget. abi? Why must the wedding be soo elaborate?. lol 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Treetop20(m): 11:54pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
any man who cannot afford a wedding no matter how small is not ready to be a husband yet. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:54pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi:Hmmm. And you'd e hearing some naija parents (cough) telling their children to go home and bring back a wife/husband. They just don't understand how hard it is. And no responsible/sensible man would feel right feeding on a woman. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 11:55pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Treetop20: lmao. . .true true but nothing wrong in the woman chipping in o since its always the woman wanting a big wedding |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 11:56pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan: 4 years ago? God forbid bad thing Thank God you refused You would have been pushing prams all over the place and I would have never known you since she may not even allow you get online |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 11:57pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Treetop20: Thank you jare! This was my point before. If he can't do that, then what hope is there for the marriage? or his position as the man of the mansion? But I still believe the woman can chip in too. I just don't think he should open his mouth about wedding if he can't put his 'fair' share down at all!! |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Treetop20(m): 11:58pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Secretz:sure she can chip in if she can but the bulk of the money should come from the man |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: it was serious o . . . my father and i even fought over the issue sef. Me wey still get eye for ground . . . mba! Marry now when there are still plenty of chics around? By now i'd have been a proud emasculated father of 2, rushing off to Seattle to greet madam every weekend and waving my US passport of course. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan:You might as well let them know it was me |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 12:00am On Jun 15, 2009 |
FL Gators: It's a little different when a man goes home to marry a wife. It's a totally different thing if it's the woman going home to find a husband It just looks wrong |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 12:01am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Ahh! Dafid, i can now understand why you reacted the way you did about that young man's story. lol |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 12:01am On Jun 15, 2009 |
davidylan: This is funny! |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Treetop20(m): 12:01am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi:it is wrong |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 12:02am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi:Thank You, plz tell my mom I told her I no do, she keeps insisting that the Naija men are might as well be Ghetto |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 12:03am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Treetop20: Very wrong my brother haba! even if na Togolese men wey dey wear blouse It is still wrong |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 12:03am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi: u r so right! i know one lady she went home and got married. she paid everything, the whole wedding expense, filed the papers for him to come over, paid the flight ticket, i mean she did everything for this man, just so that she will be among the "married ones" little did she know it's all a hoax from the man and his family. the man's sister even told the brother to make she didn't get pregnant, so when he finally leaves her he wouldn;t have to pay any child support. the marriage is in shambles |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by agabaI23(m): 12:03am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Naturally it is the male bird that prepares a nest and wows the female to it not the other way round. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 12:05am On Jun 15, 2009 |
~Sissy~:Wow, you serious? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 12:05am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Treetop20: Wrong is not even the word. It is embarrassing. FL Gators: Please inform my mama toooo. She been in UK for over 40 years and she still think like this? lol. I am even put off the whole marriage thing sef. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by TOPE20001(f): 12:05am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi: Lmao . . . .osisi wont kill me tonite |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Sissy3(f): 12:05am On Jun 15, 2009 |
FL Gators: very serious |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by sosisi(f): 12:07am On Jun 15, 2009 |
~Sissy~: One other story sef The man came over but a few months after he impregnated one white chick he met in the bus He confessed to the wife,now ex wife that all his life he had wanted to sleep with a white woman and have "half caste" kids He now has 2 |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Nobody: 12:08am On Jun 15, 2009 |
@Secretz lol @Sissy So what would she do now? Is there any way she could take him home to naija and send FRIENDLY hirekiller after him? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Treetop20(m): 12:08am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi:personally a woman will never pay my mortgage rent or anything else. she can pay utilities and such only time i would expect help with the bulk of the bills is if i lose my job or something of that sort. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by Secretz(f): 12:09am On Jun 15, 2009 |
$osisi: lmao. |
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