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Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 9:05am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing:Yea, if his name is not English then it's must be indigenous. Except if it is Cletus that name is still confusing me. I don't know if its English or Nigeria. Just ask the boo his Nigerian indigenous name then I'll give you my own piece of advice. |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Michellla(f): 9:08am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing:Some questions you could ask yourself in this area include: Have you ever seen where he lives, especially after dating for an extended time? Does he avoid talking about how he spends his personal time? Do certain facts he reveals about his life seem to be contradictory? these are some questions you should ask yourself 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by misspicy(f): 9:09am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn:lol,that's the truth now and can you see that Xpac01 trying to turn this into a tribal thing,read his last comment... when will Nigerians stop been foolish? good morning 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by GodFrearing(f): 9:16am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Michellla: He showed me his house already and said he wanted me to come visit him and his door is always open. No he doesn't really avoid talking about his personal time. He texts me all day throughout the day. We have video called a couple of times. Generally I have not found anything really to contradict him other than those pictures from 2011 or so. I asked him if I can come by whenever I want without having to call. He said yes his door is always open for me. And he said when he starts his course and gets a job he will give me a key to his place. I am not terribly concerned about him seeing other people here it is more of back home if he really has a wife and kids...... |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by jmaxjohn(m): 9:21am On Jan 04, 2016 |
misspicy: Lol....most Nigerians won't . Uve said enough, i rili don't wanna start talking on d matter either |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Michellla(f): 9:21am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing:it could be he's married back home.you dont know any close acquintance you could ask about that? cause i doubt he's been sincere with you 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2016 |
misspicy:What's up bae, it's too early get roughned ok? I don't even see how this trend got to be any of your minute business. Moreover, did you by anyway peek into my thought to know what am about to advise the sis PS: only a ma.d person calls a sane person foo.lish. Have a pleasant day :[ |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by jmaxjohn(m): 9:26am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Here's d deal. We can't help on that info without a name If you'll leave a first name and surname here, or his fb details, caring Nigerians might look into it. GodFrearing: |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 9:26am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn:I pray you're wise sha. Because our generation is desparately in need of wise youths out there not just on nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by jmaxjohn(m): 9:28am On Jan 04, 2016 |
xpac01:Oh pls don't start It's too early |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 04, 2016 |
@GodFrearing...be careful, girl. Creamish: Ya know, tho .....I was thinking the same thing. Personally, seeing FB posts about a 'wife' is a BIG red flag. I don't think people would post something about a wife if one didn't currently or at least "previously" exist. Seeing that I don't even know if I'd take it slow. I'd prob turn and not gamble on that one. But I too am curious to know his explanation. Is he divorced, widower, a 'baby daddy'... |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by GodFrearing(f): 9:39am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Hunnydropps: He said he was never married and never had kids.... he said the picture he posted was of his girlfriend and saying he misses her and then people were saying he has a beautiful wife and he says thank you. He never said he has a wife on facebook. He just posted he missed her. And that it was just his girlfriend. |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by luvguy(m): 9:42am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing:canada kor ghana ni |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by jmaxjohn(m): 9:47am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Then the twins! Did he say they were his girlfriend's cousins? GodFrearing: |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by GodFrearing(f): 9:48am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn: The twins he said he found that picture online and put it on his fb page. He said if you google black babies they will show up. |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 9:49am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing: Oh, I see. This is a tricky one bc it's common to be referred to as wife by others even if your just a girlfriend. You will need to compare his words to his actions. Watch for unnecessary pressures from his side. Do background research like you would dating another man. Trust your instincts. Don't take anything you see or hear at face value if it seems fishy to you in one way or the other. Most of all...pray for discernment for all matters in your relationship. I wish you the best. Happy New Year 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by jmaxjohn(m): 9:55am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Don't say trust ur instincts. She's not Nigerian and needs insight into the Nigerian mind, dats why she's here Hunnydropps: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 10:07am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Michellla:on point |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by misspicy(f): 10:09am On Jan 04, 2016 |
xpac01:lmao,did I touch a rough spot? now tell the world why you are so kin on knowing is native name story said Nigerian man,you are after his native name before you can advice.. seen any connection? we all ain't fools on here now move along,AF seen and dealt with multitudes of your kinds,not new |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 10:30am On Jan 04, 2016 |
misspicy:Aint got ya time, its first day at work. Good luck in your dealing with multitudes wish you more this year. Gracias de mien! |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by misspicy(f): 10:42am On Jan 04, 2016 |
xpac01:lol just run along with your tail between your leg,we got zero tolerance with tribal bigots on here have a fruitful day if you wish |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 10:52am On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing: You welcome. Keep looking out for yourself and your child if you feel uncomfortable with anything make sure you clarify till you feel peaceful about the decision you are making in and for the relationship don't let anyone make you feel your uncomfortable feelings are not valid not saying you should do the relationship defensively just saying do it in a way that takes care of your needs and concerns. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Cybertext(m): 10:53am On Jan 04, 2016 |
You need to be careful here.... if this story is real. There are two things involve here, its either he has true feelings for you or he doesn't.... . The wife and twin thingy: If he's still in his 20s there's higher probability that he's saying the truth; at least going by the explanation he gave, since the pix dated back 5years ago (2011)... . And No matter what your feelings are with him don't in any way support him financially (the day he ask you to give him some money is the day you fleee). 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nobody: 10:56am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn: I can REALLY see what your saying but human instinct is a primal thing regardless of where your from or culture. That feeling that needs not be explained by anyone, that feeling were all born with. You could've posted your thoughts to her directly like I did without posting to me that I shouldn't say what I did. She is asking for NL opinions/advice, correct? The more points of view she gets the better for her. She can take or leave from it what she will. Also I advised her to keep her eyes open. Investigate/assess things for herself. If I said go on the stereotypes, prejudices and misinformation you may have been exposed to that would have been one thing... but I didn't say anything like that. So I really don't see a problem with what I told her. I think we're at the core both advocating research of some sort. Whether it's her coming to NL soley for cultural clarifications or getting general relationship advice that could be applied to anyone's relationship. At the end of the day, if she applies wisdom, it can all be a benefit to her. I'm sure we can both agree on that. Happy New Year 1 Like |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 11:12am On Jan 04, 2016 |
jmaxjohn:You wey know. |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Nightie(f): 11:18am On Jan 04, 2016 |
Sum of una jst dey confuse d lady join. |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by xpac01(m): 11:27am On Jan 04, 2016 |
misspicy: Lurid corrupt girl. What has my By the way, take your corrections up there, inbetween rather than between and Legs rather than leg. Please dear, before you quote me again, check your grammer. If you can't please run along and stay off my quote... Thanks |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by uchennamani(m): 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
GodFrearing:New year scam. Guys are really not smiling! |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Lordprez: 12:35pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
misspicy:@bolded haba that's uncalled for |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by GodFrearing(f): 12:47pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
Lordprez: What does what was said mean? Was it bad? |
Re: Is It Real.....please Be Kind With Your Replies by Wolfbrother(m): 1:15pm On Jan 04, 2016 |
whenever i see threads like this , i just go |
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