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|Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 10:57am On Jan 04, 2016|
Pardon me, i had to create another moniker just to post this.
I am in love this babe i met in my estate, but i got frustrated and let out a piercing outburst which has made her delete me on BBM, blocked me on Whatsapp and have made her refuse to pick my calls for 2 weeks now. I will attach the screen shot of my outburst below.
In other not to bore u with some long stories, wi just state what actually led to this.
I have been asking her out for a while, i met her in my estate some months back. i left her when she told me she was seeing someone. I later saw her again walking home in my estate while i was driving by. I knew i still liked her, decided to try again as i was not in any relationship too.
We got talking again, but she is always not there. claimed her job and all that. sometimes takes up.to 24 hours to revert my messages even sometimes ti pick up my calls. There are sometimes i see her online on whatsapp, while my message remains pending on BBM. Its always excuse of work,being tired and all that. I had to take it like that afterall am still just an "admirer".
But i noticed one thing, its when i want to get something from a store...she remembers she needs something too. There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it. I dont need to say much, you guys already have an idea. I kept on asking her out and telling her I loved her and all of that. But it was frustrating because we mostly see Sundays, and my Sundays too not always free, as i may be on duty. Her sub finished, my messages weren't delivering, i was able to get her on phone and she told me her sub expired. When she hung up, I immediately recharged her line with quick Teller. it took me about another 48 hrs to even let her know i have recharged her line. She wouldn't pick her calls she wouldn't call back.
This time she acts like she is tuning in with me, next time she acts strangely. To cut it all short, she is been telling me she wished to go clubing. 24th was a public hol though i went to work, but she didnt. Called her and told her, ok today we are both free....what about clubbing? she said fine. Called me like 3 times before i got home. Its only when something is at stake she calls. Told her will come pick her by 9pm then we chill somewhere till late, when club will be opened. At past 9, called her i was enroute, she started complaining it was already late, i was like late at past 9? which club opens by 9. she said she is not going again, she is even hungry, just come pick me to eat and drop me back home. I was like WTF in my mind how can a lady be home since morning and tell a guy to come pick her and buy her food at past 9. Those are things we do on campus. I told her no...we are going clubbing, she will eat along the road. Hung up and met her outside her gate. she was dressed casually with simple slips. I was surprised. so she actually meant it. She entered the car and i drove off...told her she will enter the club like that, i will try not get her bounced. lol. She was boning and angry...i gnored her, picked my friends and drove straight to an hotel that hat a restaurant and lounge. Got her her meal, then we went to the lounge later. Told me she was traveling next day, and i have to drop her at the park or something since i will make her wake late. I agreed, she insisted i dropped her home, as a gentle man i did just that around 3am. Waited till she was safely in, before driving back home.
she called at 8am, and i was still sleeping, i picked and she started saying, you are still sleeping when you know you to drop me off. please come and pick me, i am late. and hung up. I was upset but went to pick her, it was then she remembered she needed to use ATM. I became a driver looking for ATM. we didnt get to use, its either crowdy or no money. That was when she said she can manage with what she had. Dropped her and went back home. Didnt hear from her, no thank you, she didnt even tell me she had gotten to her destination. When i asked and told her how was missing her...took another 9 hours to reply. and it was just a line. i got pissed and exploded.
meanwhile night out , someone was calling and calling she refused to pick. eventually turned off her phone. i later collected it and tuned it on...she had about 76 unread messages on Whatsapp. Phone was locked. I just gave her back...because she was getting angry i was holding her phone.
This made me wondering if that was how she turned off her phone when i keep calling. No calls returned but phone eventually says switched off. Excuse is always work and being tired.
Below was what i told her....becaue i couldn't take her games any longer...But i cant stop thinking of her still. I really like her....and i am almost regret blasting her. But i can't let feelings manipulate my normal sense of reasoning. she is a working class and should stop behaving like an hungry campus girl.
I mean while gather all the admirers and respond to whichever u please to at that time.... I find it strange, whats the gain?
But should i have been more patient?
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Vjcray: 10:57am On Jan 04, 2016|
" There was a day i was getting a bottle of beer in a shop in my estate, that was when she knee she didn't have milk and sugar at home. She told me to get her milk and sugar. i saw that as odd. " milk and sugar" well i got it. The other day i wanted to recharge my phone, she suddenly remembered her unit was low too. I got for her, she never even called me with it.
[size=14pt] boys, you deserve a 32 inches flat screen hot undiluted slap for this meandering stupidity. ... .
How can a girl colonize your brain to such level?
Last time I checked there are billions of girls in the world... if one rejects you they are many more who will welcome you with open arms....
As for the girl, next time you see her tell her that I said she is not even menacingly Close to being a human being material....
Just forget about the girl and move on because from what you typed up there, that girl does not have an atom of love for you...
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by donTbone(m): 10:59am On Jan 04, 2016|
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 04, 2016|
Goof?? Meaning pls
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 11:02am On Jan 04, 2016|
did i make a mistake...goof means mistake
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 04, 2016|
MrLP:Thanks now i can read ur topic
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by ozeepresh(f): 11:11am On Jan 04, 2016|
OK lemme nw talk.....honey there's a big diff between love and stupidity..... obviously u've been acting stupidly.... buh no qualms....my church is having a program next week, theme :"KARISHIKA FALL AND DIE O"..come and be delivered
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by CaroLyner(f): 11:11am On Jan 04, 2016|
you did the right thing. she''ll have sucked more money out of you.
She took you as a milking machine and was
winding you like a piece of elastic.
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Gracito(f): 11:14am On Jan 04, 2016|
You didn't. I'm a lady but some ladies sha know how to piss men off. You made no mistake. You got rid of a mistake and I'm glad you did. . She doesn't like you at all. .
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Michellla(f): 11:16am On Jan 04, 2016|
you did the right thing cutting her off.
she's only there when she needs something.
you were just being used as a money tree.
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 11:17am On Jan 04, 2016|
Let her go
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 11:18am On Jan 04, 2016|
you can not love 10 billion girls. There may be 1 triillion girls.....it will still take u time to love just 1
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Vjcray: 11:19am On Jan 04, 2016|
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by nerdfrost(m): 11:22am On Jan 04, 2016|
I suppose flog u with beta koboko @OP! The gal has been showing u rejection signs but u were still forcing urself on her that's why she saw u as a means of income n supply n ure complaining
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by cruzita(f): 11:25am On Jan 04, 2016|
some people will say that he is stupid for chasing a particular girl when there are millions of dem out dia ,the guy is in love and once u are in love ,u can do the stupidest of thing to win her heart and please her.but the girl should not take the guy for granted because he might be the one for her
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Intrepid01(m): 11:32am On Jan 04, 2016|
Guy you have to wise up..........I met a lady around August last year in a bus, my car had an issue and had to follow bus. I was not even in the mood to chat, she started it all, admired my shirt and all that stuff. We got talking from there and she seemed nice & friendly. That was how all the rubbish started.........I asked to take her out, she agreed and said she preferred Ozone center. We went to ozone center, she insisted on eating before the movie ( note, I went to pick her from her house and she's been at home since morning). To my surprise, she did not eat the chicken on the rice and opted to take it home (mogbe!!).... She started behaving stupidly after that day...asking if I could drive her to her colleagues birthday at Oniru, I stylishly turned her down. The following week my fone's screen got damaged and I couldn't call or access my contact. This babe did not call me once for two weeks thruout the period my fone was bad.
I did not waste my time, I got the message CLEARLY and moved on. I saw her afterward and acted like have never seen her before. I could see the surprise on her face. Before you turn me to maga I will dump you bin.
It is so sad that Ladies have turned to be something else, even the working class ones.
I just dumped another one last week when I realized all she wanted was money and food whenever she comes around. This one stays with her parent but even if she's leaving my house at 10 pm she expects me to take her out and buy something for her. They are just gluttons.
My advice to you is this...never should you profess love or intention to date to any babe until you've been friends for sometime. Just stay as friends for a while, assess her and confirm if she likes you too before making your intention known
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 11:34am On Jan 04, 2016|
bro you did the right thing
the best thing
she been don turn you to her personal chef oooo
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by douchesnozzle(m): 11:36am On Jan 04, 2016|
After ur so called outburst u still called her?? That's where u got it wrong.
What I do to such ladies is to activate the ignore button. By activating the ignore button I mean deleting all contacts on my phone ND whatsapp. I don't add ladies on bbm so this method works without the lady knowing I deleted her.
This action of mine works 9 out of 10times.
I had this girl who was proving hard to get besides that was taking me for granted. I just simply deleted her contacts ND never chatted her again. She called after a month of not hearing from me. To cut long story short I just told her I was too busy to call her. That was the beginning of another episode. The same girl that always give excuses when we were supposed to hangout started making frantic efforts to hangout with me.
You didn't have to shred her on whatsapp as this paints a picture of frustration, activating the ignore button would have done the trick.
But this trick only works for guys who are well to do. If you are a broke guy ND u try this OYO go be ur pseudonym..
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by PLANETMARS(m): 11:36am On Jan 04, 2016|
MrLP:sorry for quoting the full episode. Please sir repeat after me, AM a big olodo,am a big olodo say it 10 times and then bath Unclad in d market for 7 days. That's d only way to be free from the stupidity u displayed to that girl.
Next time u see her, tell her u r sorry for everytin u said and then tell her u want to say something real bothering u in ur hrt.
Tell her to come close and bring her ear then say this slowly from the bottom of ur hrt "THUNDER FIRE YOU!!!!"
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 11:38am On Jan 04, 2016|
you called someone for two weeks she didnt pick up.
do you need a prophet to tell you she doesnt like you one bit?
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by StPete: 11:39am On Jan 04, 2016|
Truth be told you goofed, like WTF!
I guess u initially tried to impress her wit ur car and by doing some quick few things for her without her asking. She just blatantly came out to tell u that her love cannot be bought with money and that since u hav it to flaunt, let her spend part of it.
On her part, I think Her attitude is what results in some girls being single for a long time without any possible suitors. Now she's playing hard to get, in a few years, she'll be running around for attention and going to pastors to pray on her head against delayed marriage
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Nobody: 11:39am On Jan 04, 2016|
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Michellla(f): 11:47am On Jan 04, 2016|
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by drmikeadams(m): 11:59am On Jan 04, 2016|
StPete:?..all the shakara go end for church when she don reach 39..cum my church cum see all of them forming born again...op.. U no try at all..u get motor ,them still turn you to cabdriver
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by prince088: 12:03pm On Jan 04, 2016|
cruzita:dont mind them. see them blasting the OP.
he still tried by sending her such a message. The babe will still think about it even if she blanks the OP for life. 66 messages on what's app? means she keeps gathering dem guys. so babes though
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by MrLP: 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2016|
StPete:Impress with car? Nope. Impress by doing things she didnt ask...that is normal. As for the, she is carried away with so much attention she is getting. she is quite cute and beautiful. She is just 24 so i cant blame her orientation
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Obudupikin: 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2016|
Dear OP you made two mistakes;
The first was,through your actions, you showed the girl that you love her a lot even before she got used to you. Therefore,she took advantage of that.
Secondly,that mssg you sent her was a wrong move because it only made her indignant and more defensive.
It's obvious the girl has lot of admirers and she saw you as one of them. Therefore,what your mssg implied to her was that you saw yourself as something other than that.
But the damage had been done,here is what you should do;
1) Send her an apology text without explicitly seeming sorry. E.g,"although your attitude was childish,I shldnt have sent such mssg to you. For that,I apologise"
2)Ignore her. Don't communicate with her again until you see her face to face.
These two moves have their purposes but I can't start explaining here.
If you really LOVE(emphasis on love) the girl,I'd like to help you get her.
We can do PM's.
Note; No girl is above you. You just need to know her thumbscrew.
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by StPete: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2016|
25 actually. She'll be 25 dis yr and before u say Jack! She go don clock 28. My advice? Like Olamide, fvck dat shii
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|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by prince088: 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2016|
douchesnozzle:on other words u are a "BIG BOY"
OP drives, that alone is enough for a overage Nigerian lady
romancelanders are at it again
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by sluvy4tune(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2016|
Dis babe haf use u finish last last u wan come form dorobucci ni?
Anyway you made her feel you were available to be used.
Avoid her, there re other babe who are waiting for you to do half of what u did for that babe.
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by biz2get(m): 12:30pm On Jan 04, 2016|
Why do i find it funny that you noticed all this she was doing... and was still playing fool games with her?
My Brother Delete her contacts and photos from your phone and do a brain reboot so you forget about her asap!!!
TO BE FOREWARNED IS TO BE FOREARNED
|Re: Did I Goof? My Experience With A Lady I Love. by Evathyst(f): 12:38pm On Jan 04, 2016|
Never knew a maga like this still exists in this jet age.
Bro, if only I have your Pastor's number, would have told him to organise a prayer session for you cos it seems the village witches subscription on your head is still active.
How can a lady treat you with such disdain and you're still feeling something for her? Na wa o!
Estharfabian come and read story o!
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