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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jan 14, 2016
honeric01:


She's no more a virgin because of what? She only did mommy n daddy at d age of 6 with another 6 years old naive pikin.
science will say she's still a virgin but psychologically she's not and am sure she knows she's no longer a virgin ...its the same thing as telling a female athlete who haven't had sex before but had a broken hymen while doing sports is no longer a virgin. .hymen doesn't tell if a girl is a virgin...go read more about virginity it's not as of its a big deal though....Virgins know themselves

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by dikeigbo2(m): 7:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

You can say that again!

If you are still in doubt of your status,migrate to virgin islands and tell your story, they are in a better position to check and confirm you .bye
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:21pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

My curiousity led me to talk to a doctor, he said he would check with his fingers to see if there is a wide entrance.

He was wearing his gloves when I told him, 'dont bother again, thank you sir' cry
But seriously were u expecting him to just tell if the hymen is intact or nt from ur face? He'll av to examine nau, if u ain't comfortable wt a male, ur can always go to a female Dr
Besides why are u so worried abt ur virginity status?

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by davidif: 7:22pm On Jan 14, 2016
harbeedaymee:


I love your boldness. Yes, you are still a virgin since there was no blood

Wrong! What kind of lying are you telling her? A virgin someone who has never had sex before. Don't decieve her abeg.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by 7footre(m): 7:28pm On Jan 14, 2016
PasNina:

You mean diagrammatic presentation?





Very much so brother guess I was carried away by what d diagram would contain embarassed
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by OluwaGolden(m): 7:30pm On Jan 14, 2016
you're still a virgin.

MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by SirLewis(m): 7:36pm On Jan 14, 2016
In my opinion mhiztessy you're still a virgin as long as when you had your little "play" at age 6 you were not mentally aware of the implications of what you were doing. Forgive me for digressing a bit, but in law to be guilty of a crime, one must have committed the guilty act or offence like (e.g rape) and also been mentally aware that he was doing something against the law. Without both elements he cannot be held accountable for a crime. The law also states that a male under the age of 12 cannot be convicted for the offence of rape because under the eyes of the law he is not deemed to be of age to have or fully carry out sexual intercourse. I hope this helps.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jan 14, 2016
Can we stop using the term "deflower" please?
Thank you.

Every woman is a flower and nobody can deflower her. Amen.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by osakue18(m): 7:46pm On Jan 14, 2016
bigtt76:
shocked Mr. Doctor wan play guitar ni grin I'm sure there are better ways to check than doing the manual thingy. Truth is if you've only had an encounter with a 6 year old back then, you have no cause to worray. Funny enuf some girls without any encounter still get their hymen broken due to excessive bicycle riding so stop worraying joooor and live your life!
How did you felt when his finger was inside your virginal.. Guess u enjoyed it grin grin grin.

Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Jaygrl(f): 7:48pm On Jan 14, 2016
bigtt76:
shocked Mr. Doctor wan play guitar ni grin I'm sure there are better ways to check than doing the manual thingy. Truth is if you've only had an encounter with a 6 year old back then, you have no cause to worray. Funny enuf some girls without any encounter still get their hymen broken due to excessive bicycle riding so stop worraying joooor and live your life!


There is no other way to check it,except through inspection.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Jan 14, 2016
Tufanja:
Can we stop using the term "deflower" please?
Thank you.

Every woman is a flower and nobody can deflower her. Amen.

So what term would you suggest they use?
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Jaygrl(f): 7:52pm On Jan 14, 2016
quiinnBee:
check with his finger? theres actually something doctors use in checking and it doesnt require dipping the fingers.
he's a pervert
Not sure he would have put his finger in because he can even deflower her in the process. His reason for putting gloves on could be so he can keep the labia majors apart and have a better view.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Malakh: 7:59pm On Jan 14, 2016
that only applies to those under the law not fornicators
kateskitty:
The hymen is a membrane that partially covers the opening of the vagina, carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon. Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It is a blood-filled vessel placed there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening.

The disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun, it is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the shed of blood. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges in to this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life"

Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed.
There is no covenant without blood, and that's why the hymen contains lots of blood.

As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness

Sex is a spiritual affair. When a man breaks the hymen of a woman, her spirit opens up to the spirit of the man and there's a spiritual transfer of destiny. Bonding the both of them together for life.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jaygrl:
Not sure he would have put his finger in because he can even deflower her in the process. His reason for putting gloves on could be so he can keep the labia majors apart and have a better view.
you have a point
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by davidif: 8:10pm On Jan 14, 2016
SirLewis:
In my opinion mhiztessy you're still a virgin as long as when you had your little "play" at age 6 you were not mentally aware of the implications of what you were doing. Forgive me for digressing a bit, but in law to be guilty of a crime, one must have committed the guilty act or offence like (e.g rape) and also been mentally aware that he was doing something against the law. Without both elements he cannot be held accountable for a crime. The law also states that a male under the age of 12 cannot be convicted for the offence of rape because under the eyes of the law he is not deemed to be of age to have or fully carry out sexual intercourse. I hope this helps.

WHAT?!?! shocked shocked shocked shocked

Which law school dem teach you that? Haven't you heard that ignorance is not an excuse? Man, you better stop misinforming people here about something you have a partial knowledge of.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by nuelyoyo(m): 8:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
bigtt76:
99.9% sure you were not deflowered. At that age the boy's preek would not be strong enough to cause any damage to the hymen. A guy needs enormous force to deflower a grown a$$ babe sef.

Yes the current day kids raped have blood stains because of the force with which the rapist do their thing angry inflicting bodily injury to the kids rather than their hymen.

if u were a guy, I would have said u are a specialist in disvirgining girls. Your response is too professional, kudos.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by fromnigeria(m): 8:13pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

***
Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlal
Am trying to figure out the possibility of remembering what happened at 6
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by fromnigeria(m): 8:16pm On Jan 14, 2016
Am trying to figure out the possibility of remembering what happened at 6
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by lovely17(m): 8:20pm On Jan 14, 2016
Technically you haven't but on a norms you ve heard sex You ain't a virgin anymore the Hymen can be replaced this days through surgery even after screwing 50 men. N:B you ain't a virgin

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by lovely17(m): 8:21pm On Jan 14, 2016
Technically you haven't but on a norms you ve had sex You ain't a virgin anymore,the Hymen can be replaced this days through surgery even after screwing 50 men. N:B you ain't a virgin

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by SMREXY(m): 8:26pm On Jan 14, 2016
If you claim the OP is still a virgin, what about the boy she had it with?
From my understanding, virginity is more than just the presence of the hymen.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by honeric01(m): 8:30pm On Jan 14, 2016
ellacute45:
science will say she's still a virgin but psychologically she's not and am sure she knows she's no longer a virgin ...its the same thing as telling a female athlete who haven't had sex before but had a broken hymen while doing sports is no longer a virgin. .hymen doesn't tell if a girl is a virgin...go read more about virginity it's not as of its a big deal though....Virgins know themselves

Virginity is a big deal, if not, it won't be emphasized in most of the religion of the world.

you can't define what virginity is in your own English. There has to be penetration for one to be deflowered (female). anything else isn't right.

check your dicto.

Hymen is not what defines virginity, purity and lack of penetration is.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by honeric01(m): 8:31pm On Jan 14, 2016
tevinsolt:


I'm afraid you have no clue on what you're talking about. women use tampons all the time it breaks the hymen sometimes, it is penetration a word that is only used to describe the action of insertion of one object into another.
sporting activities say for example horse back riding can cause a woman to break her hymen......these does not mean she isn't a virgin.

How many virgins would say she uses tampons? have you seen or heard any virgin using tampons? breaking of hymen is not what determines virginity. it's penetration via sexual means. please learn to read right.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by taiwoti(m): 8:32pm On Jan 14, 2016
YourMain:
Sigh. Do you even know what a hymen is ? Virginity by presence or absence of an hymen is the most ridiculous thing in the world.

You do realise it's possible to have a hymen completely intact even if you've had sex. The hymen isn't a big piece of tissue just covering the entry of the vagina.

Virginity by definition is the state of never having sexual intercourse. If you've had sexual intercourse, you're not a virgin. Finish.

I doff my hat for you, you just made my day with the sophistication of your intelligence.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by An0nimus: 8:43pm On Jan 14, 2016
YourMain:

Yeah on buzz feed!!!!
Exacto!
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jan 14, 2016
fromnigeria:

Am trying to figure out the possibility of remembering what happened at 6
Of course, its very possible.
Infact I can still remember my birthday when I was 5years.
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

***
Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlal


I doubt a 6 year old joystick can do any damage. Dont get it twisted it can be rock hard, but not strong enough to do the job. Besides he probably won't know to push with all his might.

Trust me you are still a certified Virgin and babe you had better keep it that way. Trust me when your Husband meets you and finds your hymen still there..........hmmmm.....let me not talk

As for the pains you feel in your V area, I think you should have that checked. It shouldn't hurt with just a touch. Might be an infection or something. Just have it checked.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by 01Mysticdon(m): 8:55pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:
Now this is what happened to me. I'm not gonna say it happened to a friend like some used to. I am just curious and would appreciate meaningful comments.

When I was much younger, precisely 6years, I had this quickie with a neighbour. He was around that Age too, we just did for the fun of it, I don't realy know what led to it, I just saw that this boy and I had some kisses and sex, twice.
I grew older and I blamed myself for doing that trash then, there hasnt been much exposure as it is these days, I had been a bad girl for doing the 'mummy and daddy's game'.
This year, I will be 24 years. I have never had any sexual intercourse after the one I had 18 years ago though I have had some boyfriends But sex was out of it.
To the Best of my knowledge then, there was nothing like pain or blood. Now, I wonder, wasnt the hymen torn then? How come girls even below 6 years (who were taken advantage of) now have blood stains and experience pains?
This hymen, do they vary in flexibility?
I wonder if I have been deflowered back then?
Now I experience mighty pains if anything comes around the V area, as tiny as a finger.
I am just curious..

***
Comments like 'who cares if you are a Virgin'
Who Virginity don help
Should please not be typed here.
I have been sincere enough to type this, I will respect Matured contributions.

Cc:Lalasticlal
You have been penetrated, whether blood or no pain. As far as you have been penetrated then you are no longer a virgin.
I speak the truth.

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jan 14, 2016
Whats with all the fuss about what Virginity is or what it is not.

A virgin with a broken hymen and a LovePeddler who for some reason still has an intact hymen, who would you consider a virgin after physcial examination

The yourng girl asked if she has been deflowered and the simple answer is not. I think we all know what she is asking. She is simply asking if her hymen might still be intact.

Whatever your opinion is, if she lays claim to being a virgin, an intact hymen is the only known proof. End of story
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by victor2fresh(m): 9:01pm On Jan 14, 2016
MhizTessy:

Of course, its very possible.
Infact I can still remember my birthday when I was 5years.
Op dis ur case reminds me of smtin i did with ma neighbours daughter wen i was a kid..we wia bout d sme age..i remember using ma **** to rub her ****** nd i tot i was havin sex...note; i neva inserted ma stick into her..tho av kissed a lot of girls nd stuffs buh av nt rily done d real sex tin..lemme ask u smtin..do u tink am stil a virgin? even wen i dnt consider ma sef as one..xo 4rm d way u state urs dat means typically am a VIRGIN
Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by kingsultra: 9:05pm On Jan 14, 2016
Guys I have 2 kids already, am I still a virgin?

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Re: Have I Been Deflowered? by nkemdi89(f): 9:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
davidif:


WHAT?!?! shocked shocked shocked shocked

Which law school dem teach you that? Haven't you heard that ignorance is not an excuse? Man, you better stop misinforming people here about something you have a partial knowledge of.
Part 1 chapter 5 section 30 of Nigerian criminal code I believe that will enlighten you more.

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