blackpanda:



Hoow many of the so - called married couples actually bring the kids up together under one roof. We live in an age where parents are to busy looking for daily bread and kids are brought up by either a single parent or nanny.....and this the same tin whether or not the parents r married!

Speechless3:
Eiyyyyyyya Maybe God did not approve the marriage Maybe pastor Chris is not a genuine MOG. Only God knows.

ceeceeuwa:

You are not in the marriage with them so you don't know what she had put up with over the years. Do you think a woman will wake up one day to let go of what she worked for like that without put up a fight? He that wears the shoe knows where it pinches! If you can walk a mile in their shoes, then you will be in the best position to draw a conclusion.

thorpido:
Naaah.You have to provide statistics if you want to argue this point.Even when the parents are busy,they still come home to meet the children and spend the greater part of the day with them on weekends.It's not the same as single parenthood.
Moreover,the psycho-social effects are not the same.

floragregs:
Marriage is NOT for everybody! That's why I hate seeing nairalanders telling celebrity single ladies to go and get married. Please leave them alone! I repeat, marriage is NOT for everybody!

Demdem:
Seriously, pastor Chris the divorcee. Shame.

Dirkcoyt:
Honestly the world need to revert back to just giving birth and no marriage.

blackpanda:


Statistics?? Really Does anybody keep those in nigeria. Anyway, all these are hypothetical situations, there's no evidence to say that children of single parents are bound to be worse than both parents. Actually there are kids brought up in homes with both parents that turn out to be monsters e.g adolf hitler

Davidovinci:
She finally got what she wanted.....


Pastor chris ain't innocent in all this(ain't judging), but i respect the man for trying to make the marriage work...


If it was a case of cheating i'd undestand why she was putting on a show/bn dramatic... but it ain't. why divorce?


Well... all the best to her..besides, Salvation is a personal thing

hamilton62:

Yes you are right but do you recall the vow made on the alter during the holy matrimony activity? I take this man as my wedded husband through thick and thin, in good and bad time etc... The vow made on the chancel (fomerly called Alter) is between the physical and spiritual and God approves it...
I know I am not in the marriage with them but she lost it at last that's the problem... We look at the big name of our trouble forgetting the might of the God we serve...
Do you remember this A/M hymn:
Jesu, my Lord, my God, my All
Hear me blessed Saviour when I call.
Hear me and from thy dwelling place.
Pour down the riches of thy grace.
Jesu, my Lord I did adore
Oh make me love thee more and more.

If she truly love God and seek Him, she would have won at the end but now she's a looser not because she is but because she became self-centre instead believing our God unconditionally

thorpido:
Actually, researches have been done to prove that children who grow with both parents are better than children who grow up with single parents.There was a thread where someone gave links to such researches.
I'm lazy/busy to dig out links to show you.You can do a bit of google search to see if it's true.It doesn't mean that all children who grow up with both parents turn out well or that you don't have children raised by single parents who turn out well,it just means that there were more cases of delinquents in single-parent homes than where both parents are present.

hamilton62:

Yes you are right but do you recall the vow made on the alter during the holy matrimony activity? I take this man as my wedded husband through thick and thin, in good and bad time etc... The vow made on the chancel (fomerly called Alter) is between the physical and spiritual and God approves it...
I know I am not in the marriage with them but she lost it at last that's the problem... We look at the big name of our trouble forgetting the might of the God we serve...
Do you remember this A/M hymn:
Jesu, my Lord, my God, my All
Hear me blessed Saviour when I call.
Hear me and from thy dwelling place.
Pour down the riches of thy grace.
Jesu, my Lord I did adore
Oh make me love thee more and more.

If she truly love God and seek Him, she would have won at the end but now she's a looser not because she is but because she became self-centre instead believing our God unconditionally

herbie27:
And who made u judge on their divorce issue....learn to keep quiet when u hv nothing reasonable to say.

myners007:
The Woman is quite over ambitious. Women should always learn how bto be submissive to their husband and be supportive ang encouraging even when the chips are down.Its not advisable for a Man of God to be involved in a divorce saga but Anita insisted and has finally gotten it. May God continue to strenghten you pastor Chris and your ministry will continue to wax stronger

TeOwl:
Another Christ Embassy member spotted on Nairaland.

Demdem:
Seriously, pastor Chris the divorcee. Shame.

Mbkite:

Mr. Perfect! Understand that God is still God. Why should u address a MOG in that manner? Be careful.

ceeceeuwa:

You sound like you are so sure it is her fault. Can two work together except they agree? One hand cannot wash itself clean except with both hands! What if she has put more effort to make it work without a corresponding zeal from her husband. These are all assumptions, we don't know the details. Besides they are two adults who are verse in the word of God, so they know the implication of their decision. May God help the church and their children to go through this difficult time!

BoreholeEngr:
Please I want to know, do they have any kids?

blackpanda:


Statistics?? Really Does anybody keep those in nigeria. Anyway, all these are hypothetical situations, there's no evidence to say that children of single parents are bound to be worse than both parents. Actually there are kids brought up in homes with both parents that turn out to be monsters e.g adolf hitler

vicky85:

You are far away...so you can't know what some pastors are enduring....Satan is so smart that, he will use either his wife or children to bring him down...but whoever is stand fast will stand forever...