Am dying,am no more myself,I don't even know what else to do. Am having an exam in few weeks time but I cannot settle down to read,I just cannot calm myself/my mind down to read coz I cannot concentrate.

Here...I've been in love once through out my life. I felt how hard it is for one to let go of that special one so,since then I hardly give into love. But fortunately for me,I fell in love with a....I would call him a Special one.

Truth be told...at first I went there for the money,I went there with the intention of going to spend his money but,things changed totally when I got deeply involved with the said guy to the extent that I forgot what took me there. I fell deeply for him to the extent that nothing else matters if not his presence. I could not help it,I could not control the feelings of him anymore. I just needed his presence,wanneth him to be with me always,I never cared if he was rich or poor all I wanted was him,just him and him alone. We got along very well,everything was moving smoothly until our r/ship hit the rock and everything came crashing. It happened early January and till date am yet to recover from it.

Guys?? I broke his trust. I broke his trust in the sense that I said things that I wasn't supposed to say about him. I would say he never did anything bad/offend me,he never did. If asked why I did what I did I cannot say a word,I cannot explain why. No reason at all. You guys know how ladies jist...Amebo things,lol. We were two and was just talking,the said lady was my friend. She said alotta things about him,I did too but,she recorded just what I said and went ahead to play it for him. That was how it all started. I could not defend myself coz he heard just my voice,he couldn't give me the chance to explain coz he heard just my voice. He was disappointed at me according to him. I knew deep inside me that he don't deserve what I did to him. I broke the trust he had for me coz he never expected such from me. I kept pleading vai text mssgs,whatsaqq even twitter,regretting what I did to him. The heartbreaking part was that,he told me that this thing happened at the exact time when he was already loving me. God!!

Guys?? You peeps should help me coz I cannot stand the chance of losing him to another,I can't. If I did lose him,I don't know what would become of me. Am not a bad girl,I dropped every other guy just for this guy. Why do bad things happen to good pple. The love I have for this guy is real. Forget about everything, I want him by my side. I hate it when something this precious is about leaving me. I hate it when am about losing someone so dear to my heart coz I cannot help it. See,I don't know how am gonna explain this but am not a bad girl,am not the material type,things of the world don't freak/move me no matter what. As an average Nigerian girl that would want everything for herself,am totally far from being one. Please guys help me,I don't want to loose him....Biko nu help me outta this

you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better. If i may ask what are the negative things you said about him from there i can tell you what might help.
But you were really a damned bit**.

So that was what happened... I will answer you, make I follow Buhari somewhere.. Brb

OP, first of all, you have lost him!

You fell in Love with the wine and later fell in Love with the wine tapper? Seems nollywood-ish.

My advice; Move on! Next time, fall in Love with the wine tapper first!

i swear i kno d feeling

Im just too dumb to advise now

My sister with the way you're behaving about this all matter.........To me it shows how valid this your statement is of you.

"As an average Nigerian girl that would want everything for herself".

chill ....get mme cold water

summary pls or i call buhari.

They told me not to fall in love' that shiit is pointless.....

Wht is yrs we always be
give him time and also give that gf number let me talk to her.

Dat my own number 07035754482 u can call me let talk or whtapp

sickstars:
i swear i kno d feeling
Im just too dumb to advise now

Why do you like calling yourself dumb,? that aint fun.
you should let someone do it.

icedbeatz:
you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better.

I know my wrong and I've for long accepted it. Am not missing anything all am missing right now is him. All girls are not the same so same goes to the men too. Forget about the comfort he provides,without the comfort all I know is I love him. I need your advice not your blasting,biko

Burnnotice:
They told me not to fall in love' that shiit is pointless.....

don't be deceived, nor get it twisted, love is a beautiful experience, Am a witness, though out of it now.

Do you want us nairalanders to gather around at your bf's place to beg him or what?

honestly, what do you expect us to do? we don't know you. we don't know your bf. in fact, if he should see this thread, you lose even more points from him. because what you just did is to put your relationship in public. I don't know why girls behave abnormally like this. so If you marry the guy now, any small thing, and you will put it on social media? don't you understand the meaning of privacy?

Besides, you keep saying you're not a bad girl, yet all of your actions keep pointing to that. first you went for his money, then you said bad stuff about him to your friends. and now you've put the whole issue on social media. thereby giving us a moral obligation to protect him from you.

falconey:


Why do you like calling yourself dumb,? that aint fun.

you should let someone do it.

Dunno why tho

icedbeatz:
you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better.

I know my wrong and I've for long accepted it. Am not missing anything all am missing right now is him. All girls are not the same so same goes to the men too. Forget about the comfort he provides,without the comfort all I know is I love him. I need your advice not your blasting,biko @icedbeatz

icedbeatz:
you're missing his money and the luxury which a part of you got accustomed to.
*Went to spend his money- never cared about his money.
*I'm not a bad girl ( a junky will always say he's or she's not a junky) but your mission was-is to squander his money.
*I hate losing SOMETHING precious - by something you mean all the comforts he provides?
b**** please. He deserves better. If i may ask what are the negative things you said about him from there i can tell you what might help.
But you were really a damned bit**.

Just couldn't help at her saying she's not the type who's swayed by material things and love someone coz of their money when the foundation and what got her attracted to him was his money. Never seen any thing as contradicting as that bro.

Tallestt:
I know my wrong and I've for long accepted it. Am not missing anything all am missing right now is him. All girls are not the same so same goes to the men too. Forget about the comfort he provides,without the comfort all I know is I love him. I need your advice not your blasting,biko @icedbeatz

ok, what were the negative things you said about him?

RexKexMilann:
OP, first of all, you have lost him!

You fell in Love with the wine and later fell in Love with the wine tapper? Seems nollywood-ish.

My advice; Move on! Next time, fall in Love with the wine tapper first!

Please don't say that @RexKex. You don't know how I feel right now. I can't lose him

Marlvin:





don't be deceived, nor get it twisted, love is a beautiful experience, Am a witness, though out of it now.

I was broke I was broke I was so broke, I used to roam about the street when I was homeless... me ad Marvin would rob niggas for their Jordan...now if they wanna Bleep my niggas they gat choices...lay them on the table we gat choices' they told me not to fall in love that shiit is pointless....

wat did d OP possibly old her bad frn? may be how d guy di*k. was small compare 2 her various Ex"sssss

Tallestt:
Guys?? You peeps should help me coz I cannot stand the chance of losing him to another,I can't. If I did lose him,I don't know what would become of me. Am not a bad girl,I dropped every other guy just for this guy. Why do bad things happen to good pple. The love I have for this guy is real. Forget about everything, I want him by my side. I hate it when something this precious is about leaving me. I hate it when am about losing someone so dear to my heart coz I cannot help it. See,I don't know how am gonna explain this but am not a bad girl,am not the material type,things of the world don't freak/move me no matter what. As an average Nigerian girl that would want everything for herself,am totally far from being one. Please guys help me,I don't want to loose him....Biko nu help me outta this

everything you said made sense until you wrote the above.... and then you sadly showed your real face. what we can understand from the above:
- your real issue is not really losing him but its losing him "to another", therefore you havent learned anything!
- the fact that you mentioned you dropped all other guys for him, as if it is some achievement (while it should be the "RIGHT" thing to do), further proves you havent learned anything here!
- what do you really know about "real love"? if you really did love the guy then you would have never said what you did, EVER.
- it seems that your only problem here is... continuing to be fake at all cost. i mean, here you are not willing to accept defeat, wanting "everything for yourself", that you obviously do NOT deserve.

i suggest you grow up and accept the consequences of your poor actions, and hopefully learn from them.

Teempakguy:
Do you want us nairalanders to gather around at your bf's place to beg him or what?

honestly, what do you expect us to do? we don't know you. we don't know your bf. in fact, if he should see this thread, you lose even more points from him. because what you just did is to put your relationship in public. I don't know why girls behave abnormally like this. so If you marry the guy now, any small thing, and you will put it on social media? don't you understand the meaning of privacy?

Besides, you keep saying you're not a bad girl, yet all of your actions keep pointing to that. first you went for his money, then you said bad stuff about him to your friends. and now you've put the whole issue on social media. thereby giving us a moral obligation to protect him from you.

@Teempakguy you're on point,I accept. Am not perfect,pple make mistakes. We're humans,we learn everyday. Yes privacy its important but one could go extra mile just to get help that's why I came here. You guys should slow down,biko. Am not perfect,what happened was a mistake honestly. I never meant it I swear

One of those days when you feel solemn

Tallestt:
Am dying,am no more myself,I don't even know what else to do. Am having an exam in few weeks time but I cannot settle down to read,I just cannot calm myself/my mind down to read coz I cannot concentrate.

Here...I've been in love once through out my life. I felt how hard it is for one to let go of that special one so,since then I hardly give into love. But fortunately for me,I fell in love with a....I would call him a Special one.

Truth be told...at first I went there for the money,I went there with the intention of going to spend his money but,things changed totally when I got deeply involved with the said guy to the extent that I forgot what took me there. I fell deeply for him to the extent that nothing else matters if not his presence. I could not help it,I could not control the feelings of him anymore. I just needed his presence,wanneth him to be with me always,I never cared if he was rich or poor all I wanted was him,just him and him alone. We got along very well,everything was moving smoothly until our r/ship hit the rock and everything came crashing. It happened early January and till date am yet to recover from it.

Guys?? I broke his trust. I broke his trust in the sense that I said things that I wasn't supposed to say about him. I would say he never did anything bad/offend me,he never did. If asked why I did what I did I cannot say a word,I cannot explain why. No reason at all. You guys know how ladies jist...Amebo things,lol. We were two and was just talking,the said lady was my friend. She said alotta things about him,I did too but,she recorded just what I said and went ahead to play it for him. That was how it all started. I could not defend myself coz he heard just my voice,he couldn't give me the chance to explain coz he heard just my voice. He was disappointed at me according to him. I knew deep inside me that he don't deserve what I did to him. I broke the trust he had for me coz he never expected such from me. I kept pleading vai text mssgs,whatsaqq even twitter,regretting what I did to him. The heartbreaking part was that,he told me that this thing happened at the exact time when he was already loving me. God!!

Guys?? You peeps should help me coz I cannot stand the chance of losing him to another,I can't. If I did lose him,I don't know what would become of me. Am not a bad girl,I dropped every other guy just for this guy. Why do bad things happen to good pple. The love I have for this guy is real. Forget about everything, I want him by my side. I hate it when something this precious is about leaving me. I hate it when am about losing someone so dear to my heart coz I cannot help it. See,I don't know how am gonna explain this but am not a bad girl,am not the material type,things of the world don't freak/move me no matter what. As an average Nigerian girl that would want everything for herself,am totally far from being one. Please guys help me,I don't want to loose him....Biko nu help me outta this

You started loving dis guy when he broke up with you. If you you truly loved d him as u claimed, you wont go gossiping abt him with ur frnd. Now see what you've landed urself into.. I think ladies will/should learn from this ur story..
My advice! Pray and ask God to touch and soften his heart so that he will hear!listen to u appologies/pleading. I hope u have learnt your lesson from this your mistake.

ronald4lif:


Just couldn't help at her saying she's not the type who's swayed by material things and love someone coz of their money when the foundation and what got her attracted to him was his money. Never seen any thing as contradicting as that bro.

Nwanne leenu anyi ma lekwe akuko nke eji otula ege(not meant for the ears) ona akoro anyi ebea. Trying to paint herself as an innocent, sweet girl not knowing she unconsciously revealed her real self and mentality. I really tried not to tell it like it is but i couldn't,she's just bad.

Why do I find this amusing

sorry o advice has finished for today.

wt a pathetic story op nxt tym fall in luv nt 4 money
learn frm ur mistake