EnlightenedSoul:
You edited your previous posts to make it appear as if I'm responding to your porn, etc, but that shyt wasn't there before. I'd suggest you take your failed exposé and your fantasy-based pornographic images with you before you deactivate only to reactivate once again.


Edit:
*shrugs*

Can't say I expected different from a low life-form.

Hey, that's not nice!

I'll let you have that one tho.
Peace.

Erase the screenshot of the girl.

** Oh well, too late.

EnlightenedSoul:


First off, LOL @ wowzers.

This dude really tried with unleashing this bullshyt sprinkled with some outright lies for empty ego-trips even despite prefacing, and thus practically negating, everything he said with "I've never been around Somalis, bu bu don't you know the internet". At the very least, I wasn't basing what I think of AAs off the internet, though I hardly think you'd have fared any better if I was. Jokes! The part about Insta-famous girls, and, especially "go ahead type in Niko on Youtube" really got me.

No.. the fact that I've never personally met Somalis to witness this behavior for myself doesn't "negate" anything at all.
Ask yourself this.. what was it that made you form a bad opinion of AAs? Well, unless it's all happened to you personally rather than news reports, hearing it from a friend, (etc.) like I'm assuming it was -- No, like I KNOW it was (since you said it yourself) then that's known as a second-hand source, just the same as the internet.

And just so you know, My opinion isn't based solely on trolls either. These are pretty much any Somali people you come across. Even the types who proclaim themselves as good people will switch up in a second to reveal their true colors (as we've seen plenty of times in this thread alone.) I don't know if it has to due with Somalis being Arabized or whether it's a part of Islamic or Somali culture, (and I really don't care) but there definitely seems to be something going on. I just wonder why their hatred is directed towards other Africans or black in the diaspora? Like I've said before, the fact that Somalis have derogatory terms towards black people is quite telling. You gave the excuse that 'jareer' was a "neutral" term. Lol (how can a term which refers to a feature mainly black people have be neutral.) I've also seen you state on another thread that Somalis are just arrogant & prideful people in general, and their arrogance isn't directed at black people in particular - which also didn't make much sense considering the fact that they mainly troll black forums & talk down to black people. Just read a few of the trolls threads and you'll notice a pattern - all feelings of superiority are mainly opposed to black people. You'll see them going on about how they have soft hair, never been enslaved, blah, blah. But you'll never see them bragging that way towards whites or any other people. These people are not truly arrogant or prideful, but deeply insecure which leads them to looking for other people they feel are beneath them and using those people to prop themselves up.

Btw, speaking of the internet, us AAs have an identity that's renowned all around the world - people can be seen following suit from Russia all the way to Japan & Korea. Trust me, there's a good reason you can visit Somali forums at any given moment and see people talking with AA slang, or setting AA celebs as their avatars. Hell, there's even "What are you listening to" threads and most the music posted is made by AAs.
But hey, AAs are influential people, what's new?

At least the majority of us aren't straight up hypocrites who'll slander people but appropriate their culture at the same time. I can at least be proud of saying that even the worst of our forums don't openly degrade people the way even your normal ones do.

Your entire schtick 'til now, as I've observed, expressly revolves around scouring the internet for ways to try and get to a Somali man, Somguy, through women lol. Not only is that absurd, but it simply isn't plausible. Maybe you truly feel anything you've said/found thus far has translated to a goldmine knockout, which it hasn't, the irony of it being that you're judging us not by your standards but OURS, or perhaps you think relations between us are hostile like that of AA women and AA men, and that it would trigger or provoke a divide of some kind? That isn't the case. You'll always find Somalis out here who're marrying/dating out in the West, men and women, and you might find people venting about relationships on twitter, as you can just as easily find them defining the size and color of the dump they took not ten mins earlier

Lol hold it right there.
It isn't only Twitter where you can find Somali men complaining about their women dating out, or Somali women talking down to their men, but various forums where the discussion is much more serious as well. You have a really bad habit of trying to downplay things, don't ya?

Not exactly sure what you mean when you say i'm not judging you by our own standards, but yours.. ?
Anyway, I'll have to admit that maybe it's true relations between men & women aren't as hostile in your community as it is in ours, but then again we aren't under the same circumstances to begin with. For one, your people have adopted a religion where it's permissible for a man to have 4 wives.. we all know misogyny is embedded in Islam, which Somali women for the most part abide by, whereas AA women are more likely to have an independent or feminist mentality. Funny how quickly the rise of Somali feminist happens once exposed to the west, right? Could this quite possibly be another "symptom of living out in the West"

and I'm 1000% positive you've come across not just passing comments, but dissertations coming from AA women towards YOU farrr more serious and colorful than so-called "Ashy-Abdi", a lot of them certainly justified in being upset with the "men" they've been dealt, IMO, but I digress - but Somali women and men don't bear any true hostility towards each other in life from anything I've seen even when they are dating out (except maybe for that innate possessiveness some people, usually men, seem to have about their counterparts dating out, of them who don't believe in it), which is something that is wont to happen as a matter of course and as a symptom of living out in the West. We're cool and we actually like each other simply as Somalis, which may be a shocking concept to you, IDK.

Uhh, and this is coming from someone who has previously stated they don't live around too many other Somali people...?

Also, you don't see the irony in your statement when some Somali women are dissing "ashy-abdi" in favor of men who, in your own opinion, are justifiably put down by their own women?

But anyway, I'm not sure if I could call it "farrr more serious" tbh.. especially when Somali women are talking about how Somali men are feminine, unattractive, etc, etc.. and how they have lil' dacks.

I don't need to, but I would stick up for a Somali man any day of the week, and I'll tell you now what I told 'someone else' who made a now-disappeared troll thread titled, "Somali women seeking Black guys" to hype AA men and defame Somali men, claiming to be African himself (he wouldn't tell us where from, but said he wasn't Nigerian). This "African" man who signed up expressly to hype AA men and try to defame Somali men on a Nigerian forum, upon seeing my comment, pivoted to "Well, OK, but only a Somali woman would say that of a Somali man (which is also NOT true), and then proceeded to delete his account LOL. Come to think of it, he sounds and acts a lot like YOU, with the same schtick and talking points and same deletion of accounts! Well, here's what I said to him:

"Lol. OP, you couldn't so much as reach the feet of a Somali man were you to grab a six foot stool, and stretch out with all the length and might your body could muster, which puts you double six feet under and buried alive beneath the earth he walks, ya filthy oversized buffoon. And AA guys ain't shyt, so spare us the BS, already. Only their women can be equal to dealing with their brand of the unstable crazies enough to actually stick with them long haul."

This is it. In my view, Somguy, as a Somali man, is easily 10 ten of you. And I can say that even despite his being a stranger to me with some added conviction from what little I've seen of him.

Lol interesting how you think that thread was made to "hype up AA men while defaming Somali men".
My sole intentions were to combat the onslaught of Somali trolls at the time. I kinda felt bad because I saw @SomeGuy's attempts at calling out the Somali trolls.. him being Somali himself, but I ended up doing it anyway.

I don't ever recall myself claiming to be African tho...

But anyway, yeah I remember the comment you made towards me in that thread... Honestly at the time I didn't even feel it was worthy of a response. As an AA, I don't feel beneath a White man or Hispanic man.. or much less a Somali man.. Lol kidding.
I judge people by character; not ethnicity, culture or creed - something which may be a strange concept to you, IDK.

Oh, and the picture of the guy I posted who's nationality/ethnicity was at question was actually West African (Liberian)
http://www.modelmayhem.com/SLIMJKH2

I don't specifically feel I need to jump in to defend a Somali man, in this case Somguy, because I know they/he can hold their/his own, though you've failed to see that shots aren't being fired full throttle and no one's going full in the paint like you are,

Lol but you DID jump in at every turn!
As a matter of fact you never missed a chance to interject yourself in beef that had nothing to do with you.

And you don't consider the comments that other Somali chick made in that very thread that you just mentioned as "firing shots full throttle" or "going hard in the paint" ?

What about the comments @SomeGuy made in this thread ?

And all the Somali troll thread ? LOL

but being that that thread was targeting Somali men in general, especially in their absence but for a useless troll and one genuine guy, I had to jump in and DID, and so too did the only other Somali girl on this forum, btw.

You can't be serious. Lol as if 'Somali men in general' even browse Nairaland. You might as well had been jumping in for the trolls.
Even a child could see that's who the thread was really targeting.

Those are not the words of a "guilt" defense, whatever the heck that means. Furthermore, I've dated Somali, and being quite light myself, something AA men can be seen pointing out in a pick-up line or when hitting on women as if you need to remind me of my tone, your asinine "looking for light babies" tag you probably use to accuse your own women when you're neck-sparring with them for giving up on you simply doesn't apply here, nor are you in any position to raise questions about, "Well, why isn't she online-dating blah". Fvck you. How about you go online-date, ya shytstain.

Aren't all the Somali girls light these days? Man, those bleaching creams & pound of make up really work wonders.

Bleaching is far more prevalent with your community than ours.
I wonder why? Especially for such a "prideful" group of people, right!? Could the actual reason for that be self-hatred and shaming of blackness runs deeply within your community?

Sure colorism is a problem within our community too, and I don't doubt that you've attracted a few bottom of the barrel color-struck AA guys (just as you attract bottom of the barrel from all other races as well ) - but it's not to the point where it's almost a requirement for our women to bleach their skin!

Something else which actually happens more in your community is dating out. And like I already said, I don't care much for the types who do it when it comes to our community.

Believe it or not, many AA men love black women with dark-skin and their natural hair. As a matter of fact I love black women so much, the only non-black or East African women I'm attracted to normally have features typically found in black women.
Funnily enough, I actually found this was the case with most black men who are attracted to East African women. Just listen to the songs which mention them or look at the 'Appreciation' threads they're posted in - they all have curvy bodies (which me & you both know aint really that common with them) so in reality the type of Ethio & Somali women being lusted after is a small amount. Personally I never heard any of my friends mention either one so the amount of AA men lusting after them is small to begin with.

Further-furthermore, what aspects of your slang have I used, tell me, and what music except for music I've already admitted from AA generations long gone, that even today's AAs fail to appreciate, and stray hype music and hidden gems (not mainstream) of good modern music like that Erykah Badu song I mentioned earlier? And are you really implying, considering my stance, and even despite the fact that I asked Somguy to delete the link when he was telling me about that site, that I went and signed up to an AA forum? Really?! If you told you that I lacked the curiousity to so much as click the link, would you believe me? Probably not, but them I don't know what you understand about integrity. You probably think everyone's disingenuous, or perhaps you are yourself, which whatever man, you're free to believe whatever you want as far as I'm concerned.

GTFOH with your bullshit. You aren't fooling anybody.

(I'm only sorry I had to write all this mess out on a foreign forum, but that last essay begged addressing.)

This chick and her condescending attitude.
Sure, so you listen to AA music, but only the music which they fail to appreciate these days. Bytch get off your high-horse!
There is no such thing as music made by AAs which AAs don't listen to or fail to appreciate.

I'm not even sure how you came to the conclusion of me thinking you signed up for an AA forum... I'm well aware of the registration for TheColi - (which is the site he linked), being closed.

You can't stop being disingenuous to save your life. Pretty sure you're VixR of SomaliSpot,
and if you are then I've seen you WITH MY OWN TWO EYES using AA slang & you posted a Kid Cudi songs FFS. Since when did Kid Cudi become stray hype or a hidden gem LOL. You straight up lied about being referred from Reddit, when actually it was here you came from so how's about you GTFOH with your bullshyt.

Somguy:


Thanks for your reply.

Have you dated AA men before? How were your experiences? What are some of the negative traits that you observed? I have noticed that many African women (from both East and West) avoid AA men like the plague. I've always chalked it up to negative stereotypes since I don't believe in painting an entire group of people with the same brush. But on the other hand, people have a right to make a decision based on their own reality and past experiences.

Ashy, I know ya been lurking this thread still

Lmao just look at your insecurity reeking out within the first few pages of this thread. Damn! Wanting to know if she's dated AA men. LMAO.

I bet it eased your soul a bit to find out I haven't had personal experiences with Somali women as an AA guy but make no mistake about it, breh - it's still happening. Let's be real, neither East or West African women are avoiding AA men. Actually on the contrary many African women, ESPECIALLY East African are getting the dack from AAs. Not to mention all the black dudes in London, Canada or anywhere else Somali chicks live in close-proximity with are smashing them too!

Lol are we really gonna sit here and pretend there aren't tons of Somali, Eritrean & Ethiopian who have a fascination with rap/r&b culture.

Are we really gonna pretend they aren't publicly declaring things on their social media accounts like this:

Wowzers, I no longer know what's going on

I could address all that bullcrap, but it isn't worth it anymore. This tale has grown tails.

EnlightenedSoul:


This tale has grown tails.

Very long tails indeed, amazing flow of words, from both sides.

Baaballiyo:


Very long tails indeed, amazing flow of words, from both sides.

It's like the AA version of Aj.

Where the heck is EnlightenedSoul

Somguy:
Lmao, these AA's got mad.

Somalia has thousands of years worth of history. I will trade the history of my people for hip-hop music and a few notable figures who don't even represent your community any day of the week.

I'll take our ancient trade centres, seafaring people and empires. Heck, the Ajuraan empire alone should be enough to shut you up lol. So you can keep the nay-nay, the Quan etc..

20 years of civil war in the South does not define us as a people no more than the two world wars define Europeans as a people.

Somalis are useless. All talk no action. Stop wasting our time and rebuild that apocalyptic hell hole you call home. Bunch of morons.