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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by LEOSIRSIR(m): 9:36pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
But why nah |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Ptoocool(m): 9:36pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Prom Queen |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by dandadee: 9:37pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Two female antelope..from sambisa forest 1 Like |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by ireneony(f): 9:38pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
I don't see any wrong with the list U all shud stop judging the culture of a tribe. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by kudos4u(m): 9:39pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
If I should manage to pay all these, forget oooo make the bae say beybey to her family, na if I like I go let her pay them visit. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by 12month: 9:40pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
lol i av even seen something like one trailer of pigs on one of these list |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by neocortex: 9:41pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
vimi: You must be joking, government can't regulate peoples culture especially when people are not being forced to practise such, if you can't foot the bill, you zoom off. |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Kikikikiki No wonder |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by jkendy(m): 9:42pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Is she 4 sale? Which struggling guy would afford 2 pay such dowry Greed is dia 2nd name!!! |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by yetunsbay(m): 9:43pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
gbadenor:advice her to take #500...c hw blessed it gonna b |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by manny4life(m): 9:44pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
@OP, you're such a shameless liar... Biko try elsewhere. If you want to mock the Igbo tradition, please don't do so with cheap lies. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 9:44pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
ireneony:Thank you jare. Truth is even tho the items are much, they are not that expensive. But the 22 carat necklace is unrealistic, sure they don't know what 22 carat gold is. That is one of the most expensive quality you can get. But every other thing is child's play |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Krismart(m): 9:45pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
22 carat gold? Na to go carry Jacki Chan come for them, dem go see carat run 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by shakaZuIlu: 9:46pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
that's Imo for you oooo this one small sha compare to what my cousin spent on mbano lady Beremx bia fulu ndi bunu chai your husband heard nwiiii |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by HardMirror(m): 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
manny4life:There is nothing wrong with the list biko. Most of those items may not even go round well for the family. They deserve it. It is a marriage not birthday. And this seems fair to me |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by pinkyspice(f): 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Well the guy is not serious,cuz there's always a way of negotiation for all these items...but if the guy is from Kalabari in Rivers State he should buy everything in the list cuz men from other communities pay more than dis jst to marry their girls. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by badonkadonk: 9:47pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Adaowerri111: Some people sha... Dem for kukuma tell me say dem wan dey do trading business make i open shop for them, once and for all.. See their mouth like 20carats gold necklace.. Awon oloshi eniyan.. |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by EbolaParasite: 9:49pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Even if your daughter is Halle Berry, this kain list na terrorism na. Anyone that puts a list up can keep their child. I thought women wanted equality? What does the mans family get? |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by EbolaParasite: 9:51pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
HardMirror: Nothing wrong? Everything is wrong. Are they selling their child? Why must the man provide anything? What will the woman give to the mans family? 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by manny4life(m): 9:51pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
HardMirror: Why would you see anything wrong with the list? Did you say "may not even go around in the family"? Are you marrying the whole family? It's a marriage, more reason why it should be modest. If you spend all these on "Ime ego", what's the traditional gonna look like? Well from where I'm from, this is the height of ridiculousness. As much as we have a list, it's no where close to this. And we wonder why some men see their women as a piece of furniture rather than as a their spouse. Oh btw, it's the discretion of the man's family to do more if they so desire (and yes, they do more). Dowry from my place is only N100 and it's up to the man to give up thousands if he chooses. |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by waice6571: 9:53pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
No wonder all my friend from the east are afraid of wedding. Now I know why Emeka my friend is always in support of inter-tribal marriage. His girlfriend is from Abeokuta. I will confront him with a copy of this bride price tomorrow. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by EbolaParasite: 9:53pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
neocortex: When the so-called culture was originally being practiced, no such thing as "gold necklace" existed back then. This has nothing to do with culture but plain poverty, greed, and primitiveness. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by scachy(m): 9:53pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
talktonase: With cooking oil biz nah |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by manny4life(m): 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
EbolaParasite: Exactly! This isn't culture at all, this is greed. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by infogenius(m): 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Adaowerri111: This one na to take off. No time abeg |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
halfricanadian: same way i am gonna buy u soon |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Millichamp(m): 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
There is a difference between BRIDE PRICE and DOWRY. Dowry is an amount of property or money brought by a bride to her husband on their marriage |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by DANO1011(m): 9:56pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
halfricanadian:choi....I go love to Mary person like you, we go save the money for our children abi? |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by bladeAnders(m): 9:58pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
its not funny...that was almost the kind of list my brother got from our inlaws |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 9:58pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 10:00pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by manny4life(m): 10:01pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Millichamp: |
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