Ishilove:

Nna pu eba!!

You aren't getting off that easy. 'Vulnerability of the female mind' is insulting

cococandy:

@bold, Talk about euphemism.

Don't you mean smack in the peak of sexist and condescending?

lezz:


Love hurts, chai!!! My heart dey beat like the bomb dropping on sambisa forest

See as your friend dey ventilate because of one yeye statement. Ice thawed in the most subtle ofmanners

bukatyne:

What do you think of arranged marriages?

joseph1832:
You meant places? I'm sure most ladies wouldn't mind the feel of an Ice Cube on their _nipples

lolz, I meant "ice" for her cold and aloof deportment.

"Thawed" for the sudden, animated and heated surge and outflow of her emotions which has always been "cold".

Who could ever believe such a carefree statement will become the causative agent to unlock her passionate side? Bwahahaha

Your active mind sha.

Ishilove:

Nah, he meant females generally

lezz:


lolz, I meant "ice" for her cold and aloof deportment.

"Thawed" for the sudden, animated and heated surge and outflow of her emotions which has always been "cold".

Who could ever believe such a carefree statement will become the causative agent to unlock her passionate side? Bwahahaha

Your active mind sha.

lezz:


lolz, I meant "ice" for her cold and aloof deportment.

"Thawed" for the sudden, animated and heated surge and outflow of her emotions which has always been "cold".

Who could ever believe such a carefree statement will become the causative agent to unlock her passionate side? Bwahahaha

Your active mind sha.

postmann:



Hey bro, back off!!!

What are you talking about? Drawing up inference randomly? Hehehehe he.

Love, love love. Oya I don go.

cococandy:

@bold, Talk about euphemism.

Don't you mean smack in the peak of sexist and condescending?

lezz:


And the female mind is biologically programmed to be vulnerable. It is her source of strength and , of course , weakness too. All religious and statistical data , and real life occurrence have shed light to this.

Why stamp your feet over a trite truism that is known to both men of letters and nonreaders?

joseph1832:
LOL. In any event, you should know he wasn't referring to you, right?. Lol.

lezz:


lolz, I meant "ice" for her cold and aloof deportment.

"Thawed" for the sudden, animated and heated surge and outflow of her emotions which has always been "cold".

Who could ever believe such a carefree statement will become the causative agent to unlock her passionate side? Bwahahaha

Your active mind sha.

joseph1832:
You meant places? I'm sure most ladies wouldn't mind the feel of an Ice Cube on their _nipples

postmann:


Hey darling, I wish I could trade truth for acceptability. I simply don't know how to be economical with vital facts.

Until I see a woman who hasn't been taken by empty sweet words, until I see a woman who has reigned over her hormones and emotions and is lead by pure logic, then I'm afraid, I can't withdraw my statement.

Women have vulnerable minds. Does that make me a sexist? Then by all means call me one.

postmann:


You're were the first to call me sexist. So I'm not surprised.

My words, as unsavoury as they may come, holds more truth than most female mind could carry comfortably. I won't compromise.

Now sing me that stale song once again, only this time make it louder:
#PostmannIsSexist

bukatyne:


Good points.

Let the OP answer us.

raumdeuter:
Ishilove

Don't women themselves claim they are emotional creatures and swayed by what they hear?

raumdeuter:


If you see the misogyny in the youth I'm sure it's also prevalent in the elderly. Which is why my first post is that both set avoid one another. Naija men avoid naija women

If you claim Naija men are evil and still end up with one of them then you're either lying or an hypocrite.

If the guys who bash nigerian women aren't married to nigerian then their case would make sense but for the women I see here who claim naija men are evil yet most of them still marry from these evil set. Maybe they desire to experience some of the evil in the men

Ishilove:

True, but how does that make us vulnerable?

Mind you, some, not all women are swayed by what they hear.

darkenedrebel:


There's nothing he can possibly proffer in rebuttal. When parallels are drawn, the circumstances prevalent in each of them - in this case in the two different eras - have to be brought to the front and centre, and have to, in spades, be largely identical before it can be bucketed as a reasonable line of argument.

I thought this was entitled: 'What is the African marriage about and what is its values?'.

Discussions as usual have gone off at a tangent with little to nothing to take home .

cococandy:
I don't even know what to tell you.
My point is that I and some discerning people are not blind to the fact that people like you only wake up to start claiming gender neutrality when someone says something bad (even if true) about Nigerian guys' behavior. But somehow you manage to be silent when (as is the custom on this sexist forum) Nigerian women are being demonized.
I'm not fooled. No one is.

raumdeuter:


What is gender neutrality or what does it mean? If what you say is true then I would expect you to avoid them and marry one of the other 2billion men in the world.

Anyone that demonizes Nigerian women should marry foreign women, you cant be saying Nigerian women are evil and while you are in a foreign country still seek the few Nigerian women as partners, Thats hypocritical

Same for the womenfolks.

There are many guys here who would say Nigerian women are evil and end it with "Thats why I only date whites/Asians/Ghanaians" etc. Those ones would be logical

But to say Nigerian women are evil and be switching from one Naija woman to another especially when you are in an environment where other races exist

Majority of ladies complaining about Naija men are currently married to those Naija men and all at least here claim to have good if not perfect relationships.

Its either you are enjoying your Naija men and are trying to scare others away from the same thing you are enjoying, Or You are suffering with your Naija man and pretending to be enjoying it

cococandy:
I'll call on you to type that when the demonizing begins.

raumdeuter:


You are in US, Would you leave that Naija man and go for the non Naija man who are in the majority?

cococandy:


That's because no one has anything to offer except the usual women be submissive unto death. "Accept cheating because your mothers did." Stop 'making' him beat you. Bla bla bla

cococandy:

According to NL standards, That's what African marriage is all about.
The man, his whims and nothing else.
It's that simple
If they knew something else to say, someone would have said it

cococandy:

I'll love to wake up one day and see a change in popular opinion to tune of "African marriage is all about mutual respect (not only husband respect), understanding, Love and mutual sacrifice (not one-sided sacrifice).

I'll love to see the day when of something bad happens, people will condemn it for what it is and not say "this is Africa not the west" thereby implying that it is okay for us to accept rubbish in the name of culture.

pcguru1:


Emotions makes everyone vulnerable , no human is a robot, we are all emotional and vulnerable, it depends on what certain factor triggers our emotions. and that's the truth. anyone not emotional is a monster, anyone not vulnerable is not human.

Ishilove:

True, but postmann makes it seem like men don't have emotions, hence men are not vulnerable

Ishilove:

So women giving vent to their emotions makes them vulnerable? I do hope you realise that the term 'vulnerable' is highly subjective? You really are a sexist, like the typical African man with a gargantuan ego

cococandy:
But that's what you are.

darkenedrebel:


There's nothing he can possibly proffer in rebuttal.
When parallels are drawn, the circumstances prevalent in the two things in comparison - in this case in the two different eras - have to be brought to the front and centre, and have to, in spades, bear similitude before it can be bucketed as a reasonable line of argument.

I thought this was entitled: 'What is the African marriage about and what is its values?'.

Discussions as usual have gone off at a tangent with little to nothing to take home.