TellingItAsItIs:

I have nothing else to say to you "child of God that dsnt insult pple online".
My word stands.
Bye.

Then shut it and get out...aren't you going to work?

[quote author=kaziblake post=46008927]Then shut it and get out...aren't you goin
You should ask yourself that question

[quote author=TellingItAsItIs post=46009511][/quote]You can't even quite someone..yiu are quoting me like a 5yr old child..oops I forgot 2day iis children day..happy children day kid

dokiOloye:
d dream of d average Igbo parents is for d son/daughter to marry from the next compound in their village if possible but then,if the son/daughter insists from marrying outside,there is nothing they can do esp if they go ahead and marry and d babies start coming.
The Igbos I know are no longer so strict on that esp when d said daughter/son in law is naturally a good person and is hardworking etc.

That is for you.....and keep it

TellingItAsItIs:

I don't care if you are from a mixed tribe but I know you are definitely not mixed with igbo.
So leave igbo cultural issues for the igbos instead of promoting disunity amongst us.
This is the problem with mixed tribe kids as you guys are neither here nor there.
Have a nice day

That is it....he even said that he is from mixed tribe as if there is a tribe in Nigeria that is called mixed


Mixed tribe kids always confused since 1764 AD

Ooni:
this is why ibos see us as inferior.

Gbam ....they jettison theirs and ogle at others

kaziblake:
O ti pari niyen..Nothing as good as having a man who would stand by you...My dear joor move on

LMAO @ Oti pari niyen!

This is sooo interesting

kaziblake:
My male friend fiancee parent also refused him to marry their daughter because he is from abia and she is from anambra state..He his even on nairaland.
Anambra sees their selves superior to all igbos

That's funny cos I'm from Anambra and he was from Imo lol. I guess different people different experiences. No need to generalize.

Chinaimporter:
[b][size=13pt]As an igboman who have nothing against other tribes in Nigeria, I will like to ask you to do the right thing by refusing to marry my brother.
We igbos care about out genetic integrity and genetic hygiene so much that we find it difficult to dilute the genes of our progeny with that of people with inferior genetic makeup.
This same thing is happening in the north where the superior Fulani blood is gradually been diluted with threat of the Chadic and Proto kwa inferior elements.
I am a product of a mixed race marriage and my mother is Yoruba. As such I have always hated myself and always quarrel with my father for diluting the blood of eri that flow through my vein with that of the Yoruba race.
It is better for all Africans to allow the igbos remain pure since just like the Germans are helping Europe today,igbos will be the savior of the black race.
I have nothing against other tribes or people but I strongly believe in the blueness of the Igbo blood and I have no problem with people believing in their own blood too.
In other to return my progeny to their initial height, I have decided to marry only a lady from the purest Igbo stock that can be found only in anambra(onitsha inclusive since the few Benin blood have been assimilated and over diluted with obosi and Ogidi material)Enugu state and asaba areas of delta state(agbor exluded due to Benin admixture)....other Igbo state have these kind of people but it is now difficult to detect since a lot of dilution have happened over the years especially in imo[/size][/b]

I have read uncouth statements here but I think this one takes the cake...very appalling write-up to say the least. If really what you typed in here is true, your mum has got to read this. Crap!

IkpuMmadu:


Boy....egbuwara gi isi.idi egwu

ROTFL,you don see madness wey pass your own abi

Tijay90:
Contrary to what many think,when you marry someone,you marry that person ALONE...Not his/her family...you've got two options: Get married(if you both wanna), or: end an otherwise wonderful relationship because of tribal (perhaps religious) bigotry...the choice is yours.

Oga are you married I don't think so

dragonking2:
In the past Igbos were not too tribalistic but now Igbos are very tribalistic. Its a big shame

I'd say its a big plus for them actually...
These days when Nigerians are contemplating to exterminate the great Igbo race,you still expect them to exhibit Zik's stupidity?

Jaygrl:
ROTFL,you don see madness wey pass your own abi

Lol

Me I no mad just stating the obvious

cheruv:

I'd say its a big plus for them actually...
These days when Nigerians are contemplating to exterminate the great Igbo race,you still expect them to exhibit Zik's stupidity?

LoL

tomzman:

Bros, 12 years! Respect!
Sorry o but how old was she then, 15 or...?

19...
I'd blame the girl to start with... Dating someone for a dozen years without any laid out plans?

SweetGuy225:
After you're married you can appease his parents with your charm and goodwill.

This works for someone who does not like you not one that refused to accept you.

legalspices:

He is from IMO...orlu to be precise

Haa i think say na my Anambra brother. You still got a chance,their people are more flexible.

Chinaimporter:
[size=13pt]As an igboman who have nothing against other tribes in Nigeria, I will like to ask you to do the right thing by refusing to marry my brother.
We igbos care about out genetic integrity and genetic hygiene so much that we find it difficult to dilute the genes of our progeny with that of people with inferior genetic makeup.
This same thing is happening in the north where the superior Fulani blood is gradually been diluted with threat of the Chadic and Proto kwa inferior elements.

I am a product of a mixed race marriage and my mother is Yoruba. As such I have always hated myself and always quarrel with my father for diluting the blood of eri that flow through my vein with that of the Yoruba race.

It is better for all Africans to allow the igbos remain pure since just like the Germans are helping Europe today,igbos will be the savior of the black race.
I have nothing against other tribes or people but I strongly believe in the blueness of the Igbo blood and I have no problem with people believing in their own blood too.
In other to return my progeny to their initial height, I have decided to marry only a lady from the purest Igbo stock that can be found only in anambra(onitsha inclusive since the few Benin blood have been assimilated and over diluted with obosi and Ogidi material)Enugu state and asaba areas of delta state(agbor exluded due to Benin admixture)....other Igbo state have these kind of people but it is now difficult to detect since a lot of dilution have happened over the years especially in imo[/size][/b]

Since your blood is 'diluted' - as you say - do not marry and procreate or else you will pass on your 'diluted blood' onto your innocent children.

And please, go see a psychiatrist along with the five folks who liked your in.sanely id.iotic post.

No apology!


My heart goes out to your parents. I hope they have other children and can treat you like you deserve to. If you were my son (God forbid), I would disown you and make you forever regret the day you were born.

No sense.
Zero sense
As in mumu

Chinaimporter:
[b][size=13pt]As an igboman who have nothing against other tribes in Nigeria, I will like to ask you to do the right thing by refusing to marry my brother.
We igbos care about out genetic integrity and genetic hygiene so much that we find it difficult to dilute the genes of our progeny with that of people with inferior genetic makeup.
This same thing is happening in the north where the superior Fulani blood is gradually been diluted with threat of the Chadic and Proto kwa inferior elements.
I am a product of a mixed race marriage and my mother is Yoruba. As such I have always hated myself and always quarrel with my father for diluting the blood of eri that flow through my vein with that of the Yoruba race.
It is better for all Africans to allow the igbos remain pure since just like the Germans are helping Europe today,igbos will be the savior of the black race.
I have nothing against other tribes or people but I strongly believe in the blueness of the Igbo blood and I have no problem with people believing in their own blood too.
In other to return my progeny to their initial height, I have decided to marry only a lady from the purest Igbo stock that can be found only in anambra(onitsha inclusive since the few Benin blood have been assimilated and over diluted with obosi and Ogidi material)Enugu state and asaba areas of delta state(agbor exluded due to Benin admixture)....other Igbo state have these kind of people but it is now difficult to detect since a lot of dilution have happened over the years especially in imo[/size][/b]

Just be very prayerful about it... I'm also presently in your shoes. I'm Yoruba by tribe who never thought of the idea of marrying an Igbo girl but fortunately or unfortunately, I fell in love with one during my service year. Now her parents her warning her against marrying any other tribe.

I'm praying fervently for God's perfect will to be done..

All the best!!!!!

skywalker001:
Yea datz true... Love only is not enough when it comes to marriage

Please tell me, what is greater than love in marriage?
Don't they say love conquers everything or are we being deceived?

Could you explain your stand some more?
It is not just enough to take a particular view of things just like that.

IkpuMmadu:
Advice is when we know the truth in our heart yet we want to be told something else


Madam,marrying him is one thing and fighting the war that will come is another


In Igbo land ....you don't just marry a man you marry the family. Can you stand the hit...what if trouble comes in the marriage ..who do you run to? We know that trouble comes in the marriage. How will you feel if your mother in-law isn't talking to your mother


Get ready for the war
Left for me stay away and don't marry that dude

Love isn't enough in marriage ....the main thing is compatibility and it seems culturally and psychologically you guys lack it


This is to avoid had i known



Will you be able to join umuada
Will you be able to identify ogiri isi for his mother
Will you be able to tuo nja
Will you be able to re ure for umunna



Think well don't let prick do the thinking for u



That's all

Mr, you are making it seem like we don't have Yoruba ladies who are happily married to Igbo men and vice versa. These are all baseless, they are just being tribalistic, that's all.

richyblink1:


Oga, you make it seem like marrying an Igbo man is world war 3. The point you listed there are all meaningless if the man have balls and stand his grounds.

I am igbo while my better half is Akwa Ibom. Yet the sky isn't cracking . The man in question should be able to talk to his parents and make them understand where his happiness lies.

Let's stop encouraging tribalism and encourage one another to resist it gently till it's corrected

Bless you brother.

IkpuMmadu:


Oga what is meaningless


Let us start encouraging people marrying their likes ...it's not a nive thing disobeying parents just to marry

We will all be parents someday so why will you advise somebody to disobey

And why should a lady throw herself on a man that his family doesn't want her...there should be dignity

Why can't the lady simply walk away and let the man sort this thing out of he really wants


This is shameful a lady comes to public forum to lament about Igbo man not marrying her...for Christ sake sue can find men in her tribe or is her tribal men not marriage material


This is shameful ..and for a lady for that matter ...we know husbands are scarce but there should be dignity NAA


A man should be the one doing the chasing .....

With all due respect sir, this your point is baseless and you seem to me like a tribalist. Please how is she chasing a guy? Oh she has lost respect because she is asking for advice? Please wake up from this tribalism it doesn't and will not help us.

IkpuMmadu:


To you am a tribalist and that is not a bad thing
But to me I am a realist and that is an awesome thing



Everyday here in Nairaland people will complain igbo this igbo that ...it's becoming shameful
They will complain that Igbo won't marry them , therw parents won't let them marry them.

This is sickening and despicable


How many times have you seen an Igbo man or woman cry that the other tribe won't let them marry them




This is such a shameful thing...people throwing their selves on igbo....igbo are just human and this whining should stop

Oh my God, really? Is this coming from a married man of over 6 years? By the way we have seen Igbo ask for this type of advice so don't make it look like it's only Yoruba who does it all the time. You are really a tribalist and not a realist like you claim to be. No insults please, I am just disappointed

legalspices:

He is being a committed,obedient first son and first born of the FAM, laying good examples

The best advice is for you to move on with your life, just live and love and everything will fall into pce for you. wish you all the best dear.

legalspices:

He is being a committed,obedient first son and first born of the FAM, laying good examples

The best advice is for you to move on with your life, just live and love and everything will fall into place for you. wish you all the best dear.

Ooni:
u can now continue with ur fake bible bible quoting my two-faced yoruba sister claiming ibo. That is why other tribes dont marry you people except we yorubas. U guys are burden to us. That is why we marry second wives. Even our ooni married from Edo.

Gerarahia you yiibo man hiding under the moniker of a Yoruba man... has your self esteem dropped to the level that you can't say it bluntly that you are yiibo?

Yoruba wannabe.

Prettiepearlz:

Bless you brother.

Bless you too sister

Prettiepearlz:

Oh my God, really? Is this coming from a married man of over 6 years? By the way we have seen Igbo ask for this type of advice so don't make it look like it's only Yoruba who does it all the time. You are really a tribalist and not a realist like you claim to be. No insults please, I am just disappointed

Am a tribalist
Am a realist
I might be an illusionist


Choose one

TellingItAsItIs:

It's IGBO
stop this Imo and anambra igbo thing you harbingers of separation and disunity. IGBO IS IGBO. An IGBOs state of origin dsnt make him more or less igbo.
Stop this segregation amongst our pple.
We don't say ekiti or OGUN Yoruba is dis or dat. Respect yourself. You are warned

Na you make sense pass for this thread.

To the op, I hope u achieve your desire.

Jaygrl:
Oga are you married I don't think so

...asks a question, proceeds to provide desired answer...simply Nigerian.