This happened to a friend of mine who attended her ex-boyfriend's wedding. She was filled wit tears almost making it public, thanks to another friend Who went wit her.
So can you attend your Exes wedding? On what grounds? What will you and will you not do at the venue?,

Quite true, but do you know that most relationship in nigeria are broken on grounds of lack of understanding, hatred, family issues etc,
The question is based on your past relationship, and whether it is ideal to go. Is it proper to dance there and even eat, that is if you attend,

Yup, once an ex she doesnt matter anymore. So it'll be like a strangers wedding, to me.

SeanT21:

It all depends on the relationship U have with your ex.

You took the words right outta my mouth .

Easier for the guys, Why?

It depends on the circumstances that led to the break up with your ex's that will determine it, it also depend on the relationship with me & ex after the break up.

If we were friends after we broke up i would go but if she invited me out of the blue i would know she is just trying to rub in the fact that she is getting married or maybe she is hoping that i would disrupt the wedding when they ask if there is anyone who opposes to the wedding

funkystanl:

This happened to a friend of mine who attended her ex-boyfriend's wedding. She was filled wit tears almost making it public, thanks to another friend Who went wit her.
So can you attend your Exes wedding? On what grounds? What will you and will you not do at the venue?,

I don't get it. She's definitely a sucker for punishment. I can only attend my ex's wedding only if I'm also in a serious and happy relationship. You all need to understand that no matter how "cool" you and your ex is after break-up, if one person is still single, there are always going to be thoughts of "what-if's[i]". "What if I made a mistake? What if we could have tried to work things out? What if we had communicated more?" [/i]The only way people REALLY move on if they meet someone AND FALL IN LOVE AGAIN, because people go out with others and still think about their exes.

Going to an ex's wedding is risky. You can never trust your emotions not to give you away. Like I said earlier, if the other party is not also in a serious and happy relationship, there is a high possiblility that he/she may get sensitive. A lot of people attend their ex's weddings not because they want to, but because their ex's asked them to and because they want to save face and show everyone that there are no hard feelings. If you are really ok with it, fine. If you don't want to or are not sure, just sit your butt at home. This one no be to form bravado. Let people say what they like. Remember that there's going to be pressure on you at the wedding cos some nosy people will make it their duty to monitor your expressions/behaviour throughout the wedding. It happens. People are that grimy.

NOTE: This does not apply to relationships that were ended due to violence

Well said Kech, I despise my EX a lot if I attend the wedding, I will cause havoc for the sake of it,

posakosa:

Well said Kech, I despise my EX a lot if I attend the wedding, I will cause havoc for the sake of it,

LOL!! I feel you. It's better not to tempt the devil.

right and let sleeping dogs lie,
no need to poke the devil in the eye!

Wel i think
i wil try nt
2 atend d wedding as 4 d girl i use 2 love.

Wel i think
i wil try nt
2 atend d wedding as 4 d girl i use 2 love.

There's no big deal.

I will attend if I'm officially invited!

If I am invited why not? I really don't mind even going with my girlfriend/wife

Hmmm, Kech kech well written/said. It's like you got d experience. I cherish all the download. I warned my friend not to go(knowing d kind of girl she is) but she insisted that she was invited and would go in company of her female friends. I felt so bad when I heard wat happened there,

Posakoso, you wicked o.

no

Snazzydawn why? Your answer is So, ?

Hell No!

Yes.

No

don't you have enough friends to attend their own weddings - ex is ex for a reason.

can i ffucks

For me it depends. . . but I suppose its usually safer to stay away.

For me it depends. . . but I suppose its usually safer to stay away.

Darn Internet!

No way why would I still be in contact with my ex in the ist place? they are my past and hopefully will remain there forever.

Can I?. .Why not?!

NO WAY! why traumatize or torture myself?