Toks2008:


My sister its not about money all the time.

Some ladies have told me that Ithey cherish a caring guy over a rich guy and some said they will do anything for a man that can please them sexually but none of them have used that scam word "love" so I keep saying that what matters is what you have to offer and what the other person wants...like a buy and sell trade or trade by batter .

I love your curves you like my money

I do you well in bed and that is good enough

You love a fine guy and I'm a TDH then we strike a deal called marriage if I like you too...simple..forget love.

Toks2008:


And can you love without a reason?

This thread is getting interesting and taking its course even without the write up proper..let me see how far this will go.

firstking01:
Yes na, if not i won't be against the thread.

Toks2008:


lol!

That is one mystery to creative writing...its like saying every script written by a film producer is a reflection of his life..lol!

I'm very creative and I have never really been heartbroken cos the two ladies that tried it came back and I ended up doing the breaking

Toks2008:


Gbam! so we can conveniently say there is always a reason attached to that facade called love and as long as that reason is still there they remain together.

Nevertheless if the reason vanishes and you still see some together, its either they are no longer at a vantage position to leave each other for one reason or the other.

falconey:


Tok love is provisional and conditional in nature even God's love. practically God want us to worship and follow him and who doesn't do these won't enjoy his eternal blessings. now that's a condition but not in all cases some enjoy grace.however it doesn't mean it is not love because there are conditions to it.

frankly, love is overly used to make someone believe or do something for you. example men use love to get sex while girls use it to get money and favour, same as son and daughters to their parents.


in a nutshell, it is what we use to get something irrespective of what we really feel. it is a powerful word. in terms of feelings we define it according to what we see and fancy at the time of expression.

CrazyQuinn:
I've found love but I'm still not against this thread... I pray yours don't fade too quick because unconditional love..... Odikwa risky

firstking01:
Egbon, i don't love twice...i love you only once, and i'm committed to the brim...she actually taught me how to love.

firstking01:
Titanic actually happend real.

Hannysmilez:

Ps:I was talking on general love and No,I think its quite impossible to love without reason. Some reasons can be silly tho

Recherche:


Of course, don't we all know that?. Yet it will interest you to know that those two characters you mentioned in the movie never really existed.

Mind you, jack Dawson and rose Dewitt bukater were merely fictional characters.

Recherche:


Of course, don't we all know that?. Yet it will interest you to know that those two characters you mentioned in the movie never really existed.

Mind you, jack Dawson and rose Dewitt bukater were merely fictional characters.

CrazyQuinn:
interesting wish you all the best in your love life

firstking01:
And btw, who told you it has ended??... we are still very much into it...

LMAO

If I start to analyze this your unconditional love with a nairalander for you,you will just cry
i won't do that tho,u b my person
1)Love don't lie
2)love don't hurt
3)love will not embarrass you.
That a girl do not ask you for money instead sends you money/airtime,(more like you are a gigolo )or that she is willing to take your bullsh!t even if you destroy her self esteeem,does not mean the love is"unconditional" that word "unconditional" is too heavy to qualify what you think you have even if all I read about it was on the pages of nairaland.

btw,stop been delusional it helps,everything is not black and white

Berbierklaus:

LMAO

If I start to analyze this your unconditional love with a nairalander for you,you will just cry
i won't do that tho,u b my person
1)Love don't lie
2)love don't hurt
3)love will not embarrass you.
That a girl do not ask you for money instead sends you money/airtime,(more like you are a gigolo )or that she is willing to take your bullsh!t even if you destroy her self esteeem,does not mean the love is"unconditional" that word "unconditional" is too heavy to qualify what you think you have even if all I read about it was on the pages of nairaland.

btw,stop been delusional it helps,everything is not black and white

Berbierklaus:

LMAO

If I start to analyze this your unconditional love with a nairalander for you,you will just cry
i won't do that tho,u b my person
1)Love don't lie
2)love don't hurt
3)love will not embarrass you.
That a girl do not ask you for money instead sends you money/airtime,(more like you are a gigolo )or that she is willing to take your bullsh!t even if you destroy her self esteeem,does not mean the love is"unconditional" that word "unconditional" is too heavy to qualify what you think you have even if all I read about it was on the pages of nairaland.

btw,stop been delusional it helps,everything is not black and white

firstking01:
And btw, you dnt expect me to start telling stuffs bout my relationship here, do ya??

Toks2008:


First kings please do me a favour and remove the idea of real love from humans from your mind.

If there is real love then I can as well go out and marry a mad lady or a lady can marry Lucifer.

The bottom line is that even this babe you are gushing about if asked will tell you why she desires you so stop misconstruing my point.

Real love is when you love another even when there is no reason to.


Happy sunday

firstking01:
Bro, our courts, roots and success in life are differend, so, if it didn't work for you in that area of your life doesn't mean it's not working for others...And btw i love that your last poin, now you are thinking, exactly what i was ranting altru last night...real love is when you love with no reason...thank you, i'm vindicated from your own mouth.

It's sunday morning, go to church, i'm on my way already.....

ogorwyne:
I just did an evaluation using myself and I concur. What we call love is an attraction. Something that might fade if that feature we got attracted to ceases to exist. I tried to imagine my partner without some of the features that got me attracted to him. Hmmm

An elderly man once told me that Love fades in almost every marriage at a particular point in time and that when couples get to that stage what keeps them together is the Friendship they built over the years, God, and the vows they exchanged.

This topic is a bit complicated though.

Toks2008:


You are really sounding funny now cos you did not communicate at all

Tell me you love her for no reason and she does same and I will tell you both of you are living in made believe Eldorado.

yemmit90:

I guess you got too much free time?

ogorwyne:
I just did an evaluation using myself and I concur. What we call love is an attraction. Something that might fade if that feature we got attracted to ceases to exist. There is always a reason why we love our partners, that 'reason' is why we still say those 'I love U's. That's Love with conditions. I tried to imagine my partner without some of the features that got me attracted to him. Hmmm

An elderly man once told me that 'Love' fades in almost every marriage at a particular point in time and that when couples get to that stage what keeps them together is the Friendship they built over the years, God, and the vows they exchanged.

This topic is a bit complicated though.

Toks2008:


You are really sounding funny now cos you did not communicate at all

Tell me you love her for no reason and she does same and I will tell you both of you are living in made believe Eldorado.

I888:
Actually, it DEPENDS on what attracted them. If it is personality and character, it could last

firstking01:
My brother,if you love with no reasons, then that love will last .

Toks2008:
I strongly believe that real and unconditional love only exist from God to man but anyone who believes in human love is a big dummy.

Human love is a charade, a facade and a chase after the wind which is based on a selfish condition and if the condition is no longer there, love fades and tolerance sets in with an eventual crash.

[b]But when this selfish condition is still present in that other person, we usually use the so called dumb words "I LOVE YOU", "PROMISE YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE ME", "I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU", "WILL YOU MARRY ME", "YES I DO TILL DEATH..."

Let's cut the chase and face facts, human relationship is basically an exchange of obligation,a pure trade by barter. We will likely hear those vague words "I love you" from someone who actually desires you because of your sexual features,money,cuteness,fear of God, future prospect,moral standards, fame and so on and God help you that those reasons remain else you are a past tense or a mere partner that will be tolerated maybe because the other party is no longer at a vantage point to dump you and both of you will now become a good sample couple of real love...Taarh!

So when next you hear a man ask you "will you marry me or can we start dating?" or a lady agrees to be your date or wife,rather than getting overly excited, just take a deep breath and ponder over why he or she agreed to be yours so that you can always keep that condition running to avoid heart ache.[/b]

So my humble advice to people out there looking for true love or someone who will love them for real is to stop chasing shadows and be with someone who catches their fancy and keep the condition of the "attraction" alive or continue to wait for real love until Mongo park discovers them.

I have deep things to write concerning this but on a second thought i have decided to hold back and throw this open for discussion as the title is self explicit.

So let's hear from you if you believe in this 4 letter scam called L O V E,

Over to you all.

Goyim:


This is the saddest most pseudo-intellectual bullshit i have ever read. I bet you think you've got it all figured out. But you are far from the "truth" (notice how i wrote that" ) you're not a realist because even a realist know that reality is very subjective, its never the same for ever one.

xharles15:
God bless you for that statement.. #word