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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by chudez0147(m): 10:59am On Sep 27, 2016 |
chenor:no. Is sex after marriage. 0l0d0 rabata |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by naijaboiy: 10:59am On Sep 27, 2016 |
CAPSLOCKED:[b]Hian! But it's not by force na! The guy said he doesn't want her again. People react to things differently, don't think that because you feel you would have handled it in a more "mature" way then you're better than the fiancé in question. That's his own way to react to it. The same way we are trying not to judge or condemn the lady is the same way we should try to understand the guy's position in the whole issue. His reasons for abandoning her is not known to us and we don't also know his side of the story. It would be very unfair if we take sides and lambast him. If he says he doesn't want her anymore then so be it! We shouldn't judge people but it doesn't mean they won't pay for whatever offense they commit. There's always a consequence for the sins we commit. This could be hers, or maybe not. But the man In question is not the devil. He's only reacting to the situation the way he deem fits. When you find yourself in such situation you can decide to do otherwise.[/b] |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by shindarayo(f): 11:00am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:wooow dts a very good solution to d prob ooo.wen u kill urself now at least d guy will cry at ur funeral abi wch means he regrets leaving u abi?den afta one month he picks d next available girl while ull be rotting in hell.case closed.....mschew.quit acting like marriage is a do or die affair oo.life is too sweet to commit suicide ova a dick. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Acidosis(m): 11:00am On Sep 27, 2016 |
The only mistake you made is failing to get married to the man you had abortion with. It is a crazy thought to assume another man (whether innocent or not) will marry a woman that has had abortions, in the worst scenario, can't give birth. Do not listen to any petty advice here, especially from hypocrites. Make no mistakes, the ladies here would be the first to fight you should you make any attempt to marry their brothers. Just visit a clinic and ensure all is well before delving into another relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fullofregrets: 11:01am On Sep 27, 2016 |
hmmm , this comments makes me wow , so its a crime to speak my mind , you don't know my pains , so I beg you not to judged me , before you judge ask yourself if you have the courage to open up your flaws to people , its been done , no one should crucify me , we are all humans in flesh , in one way or the other , we have succumbed to the flesh, I am telling you that the unwise decision I took was something I regretted , I am not proud of my pasts , I am sober and feel bad , and I have mend my ways ever since , we should all learn to forgive , and pls those who judge me don't forget you are still in the race , the life and flesh in you can still mislead us in one way or the other , who are you all to play God the judge , I only need advice , not to crucify someone who's dejected right now , peace out 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 11:02am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sexymoma: |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by SuperBlack: 11:02am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:Make i catch you near her first. Na belle i go gv u. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 11:05am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets: Don't even worry your heads over the guy's action. He may well be the one with the problem. Do you guys know how many wives that did abortion in the past for other men before their husbands married them and they all still had kids? The guy is immature for dumping the lady just because she had an abortion. He only knew because she loved and trusted him well enough to open up and now he threw the trust back at her face. OP, you are not the problem why pregnancy isn't happening. He may well have low sperm count or even watery worthless sperm. A good man will find and Mary you and regrets will be his own. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by jorion(m): 11:06am On Sep 27, 2016 |
chenor: chill! it is not everyone that can handle such secrets. i know i can't wake up to see a woman who once killed her child. can't blame him. she should have told him from the start. there's no need hiding such as medical examinations can also confirm abortions |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by ClinicalHope(f): 11:06am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Cutehector:How do you know the man is innocent? And how sure are you that one of his ex girlfriend(s) did not abort his child? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Cutehector(m): 11:07am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ClinicalHope:na so. Another culprit who did abortion.. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Laveda(f): 11:08am On Sep 27, 2016 |
naijaboiy: From who? Did she broadcast to the world she had an abortion Anyways see what being "sincere" has done... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by franksam2009: 11:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
chenor:. Some people sha!! What is d definition of sex be4 marriage?? Is it not through sex she will get d pregnancy?? Receive sense IJN |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by danbrowndmf(m): 11:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sinceraconcept:she praticed lesbianism for 20years but now she's a changed person.yes i can marry her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ratello: 11:09am On Sep 27, 2016 |
IyfeNamikaze:I can only pray for you to be CAREFUL what you indirectly wish for yourself. You can bookmark this post of yours except you repent. A woman was caught in adultery in the very act yet Jesus refused to judge and condemn this same woman but asked her accusers to judge her themselves if only they did not commit even worst sins, well you know the story, they left the woman alone while feeling guilty themselves.(John 8: 3 - 11) and who are you to judge another humans probably you are not better than (Matthew 7; 1 -5). Be careful when ranting online and please take your pills regularly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by sinceraconcept(m): 11:13am On Sep 27, 2016 |
danbrowndmf:but change is never permanent. We all get rich,and broke at times. Look old and young at times,fleshy,muscular,slimmer and back to our normal self at times. She'll still feel interested in dating girls after her initial gra gra,give am 5 years and she go dey bring girls come your house pretending its only a female friend or smooch girls for work |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ratello: 11:14am On Sep 27, 2016 |
fullofregrets:My dear read my posts on this thread and you will find succour to your soul. Leave your "judges" here yo wallow in their ignorances that should not be your problem. They are bloody hypocrites but you are being sincere and also indirectly helping other ladies who might fall victim, well done lady. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by danbrowndmf(m): 11:14am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Laveda:my questions are why do u think hiding it from him is best?, and what makes you feel or think he can't find out after the marriage? Don't you think telling him earlier will be better?. I want you to know that 'NOTHING' is a secret unless the truth is not set to come out yet. Anybody who cannot accept your past, let him/her gerra-out. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by stepaz: 11:16am On Sep 27, 2016 |
MrPresident1:do u know what it means for a man to get married and hope to have children and when the child is not coming ur wife wakes up one day to tell u that she did an abortion for some one else which might be the cause of her barrelness so pray not to experience it |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by danbrowndmf(m): 11:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
sinceraconcept:Now u ard nt getting my point sir. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Laveda(f): 11:18am On Sep 27, 2016 |
danbrowndmf: Its not like she won't be able to give birth, so what's the ish here? For me, anything I know would push my man away I wouldn't tell him.. There are things my fiancee would tell me and I can't handle it, I'll rather walk away. You're just one person. We aren't all the same while some can live with the truth, some can't. That's the case here.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by stepaz: 11:20am On Sep 27, 2016 |
stepaz:the man is not childish he's just showing his anger |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by labbyboi(m): 11:21am On Sep 27, 2016 |
There's nothing wrong with being truthful in ones relationship but some things is better to be left unsaid. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Fumiex(f): 11:25am On Sep 27, 2016 |
My dear sis don't ever feel bad abt telling him d truth. D next guy u are going to meet, also tell him d truth from d onset n ask if e is ready to accept u. U r worth more Dan u think. U might hv ask God for forgiveness n he has forgiven u but a virgin may b commiting other sins n may not Mk heaven. It's not abt wat pole think here abt u it's abt wat God thinks abt u. Don't feel bad abt anything its in d past. Look toward to d future.it might not b easy but u wil surely scale through. If am to advice u I wil say don't accept yr fiancée if e cums bk to u. Someone who truly loves u wil come. Just b prayerful n draw closer to God 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by niyi123: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2016 |
That is why i cant even marry all these thoroughly used girls. If you are not a virgin, then i cant have any business with you, i am not interested in knowing foolish past about you neither do i have any. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by danbrowndmf(m): 11:26am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Laveda:and when your fiance finds out later? |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by JoshWealthy: 11:26am On Sep 27, 2016 |
you have not started yet(still morning) after all ur rubbish act (u kill ur unborn child) so u want dat guy to be childless, ur plan no go work, (evil woman) so marriage dey sweet u. |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Nobody: 11:27am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Ratello: 1 Like
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Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Laveda(f): 11:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
danbrowndmf: Who'll tell him? You?! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by fostermd(m): 11:31am On Sep 27, 2016 |
I can offer you medical support if you wish,I am a medical doctor though practicing abroad.At least if you can sort that out,it's a first step.Best wishes |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Decryptor(m): 11:33am On Sep 27, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Tell us that you have never lost something or someone dear to you and never felt so embittered. I am 100% sure that if the OP was a man and said same, it would sound sweet to your ears. Take your "kpomo-like kevlar" stomach and park one side make I see road! Mtchewwww!! |
Re: My Fiance Is Leaving Me , Cause I Let Out My Painful And Biggest Secrets To Him by Ratello: 11:35am On Sep 27, 2016 |
Fumiex:Perfect! This is how daughters of God reason and help one another. God bless you, your family and household together. |
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