Cutehector:
na so. Another culprit who did abortion..

sexymoma:
My sister move on
E don hapin, E don hapin
you can't change the fact that it has happened


We Open Up....Gbege
We Nor Open Up.... Gbege
My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo

lonelydora:


It is not so when properly done. The problem is when you do it with a quack who charges 5k for it.

rosalieene:

hmmmm
so abortion is this expensive!!

MissMorayo:

I wish you can give this same advise if the man in question happens to be your brother or your son. I'm not condemning the lady in question but what if she has damaged her womb through youthful exutbecances and recklessness? Are you saying the man isn't right to find his way?
The op should take heart as what has happened has happened but this is a lesson to all that our actions today will always have a consequence tomorrow. I know of many ladies who have had more 10 abortions, if their Fiance dump them tomorrow we will be crying foul that men are being pretentious.

ItsQuinn:
suicidal thoughts because of a man? ....you are a disgrace to womanhood

Vikky014:
lol. AS in eh
..hw can op terminate her life bc of one yeye man
op to b frank u will see sme1 Dt will love and marry u...jst belief in GOD.



This is y i tell my fellow girls dt no one can rewrite her past...it is better a man leaves u bc u refused to hv sex wt him dan for u to accept sex and get pregnant thereby leading to abortion..

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

LadyB1195:
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That your no matter what you do in the past is not what people should listen to. We are Africans, and your past will always matter. Even God does not forgive the sin against the Holy Spirit.

LadyB1195:
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That your no matter what you do in the past is not what people should listen to. We are Africans, and your past will always matter. Even God does not forgive the sin against the Holy Spirit.

Cutiekatty:


What about what he has done on the past? Why is it when it comes to ladies the past is always dug up and use against but when it comes to men,it doesn't matter why? Because they are men. Are we not women also? All I see is lack of maturity. She didn't sin against the holy ghost neither did she sin against the guy. She only sinned against God which she has asked for forgiveness and God has forgiven her. Babe abeg, move on. LIFE GOES ON.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

LadyB1195:

Funny lady, u misunderstood my quote. For clarification, I was trying to say that even our past matters to God the Holy Spirit, it cannot be different with a common human. Life will still go on, but our past, the way we live our lives will matter one day.

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him

Lizzieo:

Talking like a saint,what about dos ladies dat did abortion for u nko?

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bloomstar:


Move on till when? Do you know what it means to be barren? She should mellow down... Pray to God. Get medications. If she confirms medical that she can conceive.
Then she can move on happily hoping that another man will come

Why should you hav secret in first place? and if you must have secret it should be a kind that if it esposes people will need more of you. you cant put your high level of education, finance...in secret when they know it they will respect you and want more of you but your secret is urgly one. Deal with it

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

fullofregrets:
well I have done everything necessary , my
womb is okay and intact

fullofregrets:
I gave up on this world already , you can't trust anyone with your problem , I am feeling so rejected and dejected right now , I find no peace in this life again , I am taking my life right now , I don't know how to lived without him in my life, I loved him so much , I thought I could move on , but I can't

fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home. Mumu you think men are fools? D guy go don dy try put belle tay tay, so for the guy to say pregnancy before mariage he must have observe some things, as for me o, girls of these days cnt be ttusted , belle must stand proper before anyyhing...

sexymoma:
My sister move on E don hapin, E don hapin you can't change the fact that it has happened

We Open Up....Gbege We Nor Open Up.... Gbege My sister u don do your own restitution be dat ooo