fullofregrets:
I am feeling so devastated right now , my fiance is leaving me , cause I open up to him , that I once had an abortion .
my fiance and I already meet with our parents , he asked of my hands in marriage, and I accepts , we have been to our parents house , but there's an issue in my side , my father don't was not really good with it , cause of cultural differences, but later agreed we can go ahead with it , so my fiance tells me I need to get pregnant , so that we will do the marriage , I agree to that , but it isn't forthcoming , so I started remembering my past , when I had an abortion , so I opened up to him cause of the love we and trust I shared with him , I have carried out possible best, I am okay but some hormonal challenges , after a month he text me , that he's no more interested in the relationship , i am full of regrets right now , I don't know what to do

chudez0147:
no. Is sex after marriage. 0l0d0 rabata

franksam2009:
. Some people sha!! What is d definition of sex be4 marriage?? Is it not through sex she will get d pregnancy?? Receive sense IJN

lastpage:


Just saw this:

Did it also occur to you that there might have been things the man saw (warning signs, as you put it), to make him insist he wants to be sure the marriage can bear fruits (even as God commanded), before putting his head into it?

Or is it not in this world where women (and men too) do all sort of things in their spinsterhood, only to come back to look for one mugun husband to settle with?
Go to churches and go and see them.... dem dey do worker" because dem dey find one mugun brother.

"Shine your eye" nor be Dog name, abeg.



Lastpage!

tosyne2much:
It is not the matter if being a saint... Mind you, I have never done an abortion for a lady and I don't think I will ever do

HardMirror:

So abortion is so easy for you, you assume everyone has a girl that has aborted for him
Is that how you go about getting pregnant?

chudez0147:
will you allow your brother to marry a murderer? And how do you know if anybody aborted for him? Mtchwww

HardMirror:

Lol
Look at them consoling each other. I hope she won't finally commit suicide when the guy marries with children and she is still single. Lol

dollyjoy:
What makes you think he is innocent?


Do you know what a lady,somewhere is going through right now because of that same man? Pluseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Laveda:


From who? Did she broadcast to the world she had an abortion

Anyways see what being "sincere" has done...

Lizzieo:
Keep it up jare

jorion:
i don do sign of cross like 7 times reading comments here. God, abeg o

olac21:
What you did was the best thing..but then why is life so unfair with respect to the abortion you had(just once) and there are many people with hundreds of abortion and they still had conception!

misspicy:

I intentionally refused to make a comment on this thread,I don't want to judge anybody,but I'm strongly against abortion,maybe because I have a family member TTC,any news about abortion enrages me.

Op should dust up and move on,life goes on,she should seek God's face,God is a merciful and forgiving father

danbrowndmf:
Nobody in his/her right senses would would love abortion or luv to hear such from his soon to become wife. I'm just suprise when somebody said we always like to put church stuff into realities like church is not reality? Ibo ni aye yi gan lo na?

naijaboiy:

Youll be surprised the things people know about you that you don't think they know.

See how you are comfortably supporting lies and insincerity in a relationship. People like that are those who will definitely have something to hide in a relationship. Instead of them to watch their ways now, they'll comfortably be doing what they want with the assurance that they'll just hide it as their pasts when the time comes for a serious relationship.

So the truth will definitely come out from somewhere.

danbrowndmf:
Nobody in his/her right senses would would love abortion or luv to hear such from his soon to become wife. I'm just suprise when somebody said we always like to put church stuff into realities like church is not reality? Ibo ni aye yi gan lo na?

rebella:
@fullofregrets , you had an abortion the deed has been done. Personally I think instead of crying, you should thank God for making you avoid a fair weather husband, that is someone that will only be good to you when the going is good. That man didn't love you. When a man starts saying you should get pregnant first before the marriage can hold, that's a warning sign.

I know you probably miss him a lot, but remember a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

Senorprinz:
yes babies are fruits of marriage but they aren't the only reason for marriage, what about companionship? discontinuing a relationship on the basis of inability to give birth early in marriage tells a lot about the emotional capacity of the man, he made it look like it was the only reason he needed her as a wife, moreover, i've seen countless girls who take in after performing more than one abortion, he should have taken her to run tests on her womb to confirm her status first before making any decision, except he had other reasons (moral or cultural) of which i have no idea. it's not everyone that has the luxury of giving birth when they feel like, i still think he should have stood by her a bit, at least for the time and emotions she's invested in him.

Antina:


Sign and cross ke? Why naa?

jorion:


because i didn't know that committing abortion have become so widely accepted by the ladies in our society. i find it difficult to look at blood, not to talk about the thought of killing a potential human being like me. haaaaaa

Ratello:

I can only pray for you to be CAREFUL what you indirectly wish for yourself. You can bookmark this post of yours except you repent. A woman was caught in adultery in the very act yet Jesus refused to judge and condemn this same woman but asked her accusers to judge her themselves if only they did not commit even worst sins, well you know the story, they left the woman alone while feeling guilty themselves.(John 8: 3 - 11) and who are you to judge another humans probably you are not better than (Matthew 7; 1 -5). Be careful when ranting online and please take your pills regularly.

fullofregrets:
hmmm , this comments makes me wow , so its a crime to speak my mind , you don't know my pains , so I beg you not to judged me , before you judge ask yourself if you have the courage to open up your flaws to people , its been done , no one should crucify me , we are all humans in flesh , in one way or the other , we have succumbed to the flesh, I am telling you that the unwise decision I took was something I regretted , I am not proud of my pasts , I am sober and feel bad , and I have mend my ways ever since , we should all learn to forgive , and pls those who judge me don't forget you are still in the race , the life and flesh in you can still mislead us in one way or the other , who are you all to play God the judge , I only need advice , not to crucify someone who's dejected right now , peace out