MizMyColi:


My dear.
I have seen a copy of her international passport. I asked for more docs. The picture on her profile and the passport checks out.

If you have people in Igando, let them help verify.

She swears she doesn't own a NIgerian bank account.

The reason anyone might be uninterested to help is because of her questionable past/present.

I don't want to judge since I haven't walked her journey.

But if we could look past that....

Onegai:


Please let her send it to me, I will take her to GH Igando myself to register for antenatal. This is not about any questionable past or me judging her morality, this is about genuine need.

Onegai:


Please let her send it to me, I will take her to GH Igando myself to register for antenatal. This is not about any questionable past or me judging her morality, this is about genuine need. Everybody needs money but don't claim what you are not.

Onegai:
Go and drop the toddler at Nigerian Red Cross Motherless Babies Home, it's close to Adekunle, Makoko, off Herbert Macauley road, Yaba. It costs N1,000 to open an account with most banks, I'm sure if you could find N200 recharge card to browse with for your phone, you can get one. Surprised you went to SA and came back without ever having a bank account.

Hmmmmm

TSOM:


Putting her full names on her would come back to hurt her.

She's already in a position that'd make even the most ardent exhibitionist retreat into their shell.

One, two or three TRUSTED persons with antecedents of being discreet should investigate her to verify her claims (if she's indeed a female and in the disputed situation ) then report to the viewing public.

You don't want her mocked with her situation, do you?

"I'm Moji XYZ. I hail from ABC . I got knocked up by two men and I'm on the verge of being a bum." Read that out loud, how does it sound? Now you get it.
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She's provided her full personal details. It's all good.

JUSTbuchi:
You want people to help you and yet you still giving out vague information

Don't think you can come here and try to pull a cry baby stunt on us and expect everyone to start sending you cash as though we are into yahoo-plus

You need help; make your story a believable one!!

Ranchhoddas:
I don't know why people find it difficult to reason this way. People just think that because the OP needs help she should throw every modicum of privacy away. Na wa for some ''helpers'' self!!

ifyalways:

Amen!

Keeping fingers crossed now. Let's just hope the OP will not disappear now as this is the hardest part. New twists and excuses to the initial story will start springing up.

Loisemm:
Onegai, pls don't meet her anywhere or take her to anywhere without company o. Times are dangerous. I would suggest u calm down and don't feel you have to exonorate yourself or prove you did nothing wrong by trying to check out her case. You did nothing wrong!

If you didn't spill out her story and all, someone else like Ifyalways or Amelian would have. In fact, I was waiting for them. It surprised me that you are also into detective work. I suggest u leave things now to others like Tehn and your colleagues here. Don't feel guilty and make mistakes trying to please others. If she is real and deserves help, people will respond. If not, it is well.

Onegai:


Person lived in and out of Nigeria, Yoruba geh for that matter, does not have bank account. Okay o. I'm sure she's pregnant (because she was checking out Pregnancy thread in health section and her friend called her there), but that she didn't realise she could have offloaded her tecno tab and her power bank and it would have been enough for paying for antenatal at a govt hospital (and that lack of knowledge is coming from someone who was asking about immunizations on Newborn thread in health section over a year ago, so she hangs out there and has access to a lot of valid info about how much it is to get a card there), well, okay o. Discard the instinctive emotional response and ask yourself "how logical is this", then see why I vexed here.

Onegai:


Okay then. I'll step back, let's see how things unfold.

LadyMercedes:
After what you encountered the first time, you still opened your legs and got pregnant again.

You're funny! You should've sat down to think of how you'll fend for yourself and the first baby. But no!

I hope you get all the assistance you need, and I wish you a safe delivery when that time comes.

After putting to bed, go and look for another man to "take care" of you again, you hear?

Onegai:
Go and drop the toddler at Nigerian Red Cross Motherless Babies Home, it's close to Adekunle, Makoko, off Herbert Macauley road, Yaba. It costs N1,000 to open an account with most banks, I'm sure if you could find N200 recharge card to browse with for your phone, you can get one. Surprised you went to SA and came back without ever having a bank account.

Hmmmmm

LOL, MADAM OP IS SIMPLY HUNGRY.. THE INCREASE IN PRICES OF FOOD ITEMS IS REALLY MESSING UP HER EXISTENCE.. SHE CAN'T TAKE IT NO MORE.

I BELIEVE WE'RE ALL GOOD PEOPLE, IF YOU CAN'T SEND HER MONEY SEND SOME OIL, I HAVE CRAYFISH AND TINS OF TOMATOES.. SOMEONE ELSE WILL DONATE CUPS OF RICE, SALT... . AND SO ON.

LET'S SAVE A LIFE TODAY PLEASE..

AND NEXT WEEK WILL BE MY TURN

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LOL, MADAM OP IS SIMPLY HUNGRY.. THE INCREASE IN PRICES OF FOOD ITEMS IS REALLY MESSING UP HER EXISTENCE.. SHE CAN'T TAKE IT NO MORE.

I BELIEVE WE'RE ALL GOOD PEOPLE, IF YOU CAN'T SEND HER MONEY SEND SOME OIL, I HAVE CRAYFISH AND TINS OF TOMATOES.. SOMEONE ELSE WILL DONATE CUPS OF RICE, SALT... . AND SO ON.

LET'S SAVE A LIFE TODAY PLEASE..

AND NEXT WEEK WILL BE MY TURN

MizMyColi:


I am too quick to have empathy for humans.
I consider it a strength, not a weakness.

I prefer that I be called mugu at the end of the day than allow myself be too wise and smart to the extent of passing up an opportunity to be the Change I desire in this world. Thank you.

ifyalways:

Why na?

@OP, if you are for real and your story is TRUE ( no garnishing) I will meet you and I will help you.

First email me your passport data page and ante natal cards before we meet. Please if you know you ain't real just ignore my offer cos if you waste my time, I will mess you up.

tiswell:
You are such a sweetheart,ezigbo nwanyi!

sisisioge:


Babes be careful o, make sure you have very good company when you do so. As far as everyone is concerned, she's still a stranger. I think sending the money sef is a lot better idea... U know you've been very vocal here abi... I know, I too dey watch zone reality

Onegai:


Please let her send it to me, I will take her to GH Igando myself to register for antenatal. This is not about any questionable past or me judging her morality, this is about genuine need. Everybody needs money but don't claim what you are not.

MizMyColi:


I sent you an email with some of the proof you asked for.

I called her earlier, more like flashing, so I can hear her voice, it went through and I heard her voice. But her number wasn't going through last I tried. In fairness she told me she had low battery.

I also took shots of my convo with her where she talked about the low battery, ante-natal, among other things.

This I have done to help with some form of needed conviction with your intuition.

I know that you have done a lot of Nairalanders good in the past, this is why I did not hesitate to send whatever information I consider necessary to you.

Thank you.

Onegai:


Please send it to

Onegai:


Seen. I didn't see anything about the antenatal and other stuff, not even an explanation. All she said was no-one believes her here and her mum isn't helping her. She says she's friendless but has been contacting NLers offline (which is why I keep mentioning humbledbygrace, that's whom she interacted here with a lot, so how come she's totally friendless).

MizMyColi:


Hopefully, she will come back online and proffer more explanation.

That tab which she claims the man bought for her might be the only means she has to communicate with the outside world.

Moreso, the tab might be having serious battery issues hence her putting up a thread to ask around for a good Powerbank.

Just thought to send out what I have got so far should it be that for some reason, I'm unable to participate actively on the thread for the rest of today due to work or rest.