chic2pimp:

Why do so called 'Pastor's Kids' always come out worse if as you said it takes a child being brought up in the way of the lord to shine away from negative things?

Pastors fall in the strict category. They are extreme even.
Was talking abt the regular/norm parents

''in a compromising situation'', lol talk abt being politically correct.

Chairlover I dont agree vexed wife needs to give up anything in order for her husband to give up DJing.  I hope her husband is reading this so he can see he is not a good husband let alone father.  Selfish and immature Im sure there are plenty of men who DJ and dont cheat this one just has an itchy d i c k.

He's a liar. He will not change. better to be alone than unhappy.Are you going to wait until he gives you aids?

@OP
you are in pains now there was no need for you to go snooping knowing very well he is a player as that will not tame him

Well said TREKKIE

You are a strong woman and very self controlled. I salute you
WHEN SOMEBODY BREAKS YOUR HEART,CRY A RIVER,BUILD A BRIDGE THEN GET OVER IT.
is all i can say. I'ts gonna be a process bt Time heals

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Ebonyeyes: Gosh my dear I wish I could give you a hug .

Have you guys sat down to discuss things? have you told him how you feel?

My God...discuss things you say...DAT MARRIAGE ONLY EXISTS IN NAME NOW...cest fini

S wht happened later? Is being long nw, dis thread was opened.
Pls can we still hear from vexedwife who opened dis thread? What happened ever since dat 2009? Hope dey hv both reconciled?