Kelvinj:

Wait a min, were did u meet d DJ in d first place?club i guez & u decided 2 marry him. Well u must finish wetin u start, take hart
@ima1
Why ar u soundn mean 2 9ja

Babasexy:

I like the way you are handling it. Seriously many other girls would have messed up things and further complicate things. Don’t worry, it will soon be over. I don’t pray much but I will send my little prayer for you. Hopefully he will change for better. Please find a way to forgive him; it’s your best option. I know he doesn’t deserve it, but who deserves forgiveness anyway?

POSAKOSA1:

Not all men are players. There are two sides to every story. The poster WILLINGLY got married to a player,[b] HOPING that he would change. Sorry mate! [/b] 

LadyT:

WOW what a mess.

He wont change because he knows you wont leave him you will only be upset for a while then you will go back to your normal ways.
Its very easy for us to tell you to leave him. But you sound comfortable and one of the things you fear is having to go into rented accomadation and raise your son on your own but arent you doing that anyway hes hardly around.

Sorry if I missed it before but do you work?
You are better off as a single parent than raising your son in a household where your husband cant even give you common respect and treats you like a housemaid. He doesnt love YOU he loves the fact that you are a doormat and no matter what he does you will be there waiting.

In the long run you will lose. You will be unhappy and become his stalker watching his every move and constantly checking up on him while he has the time of his life shagging everything with a vagina that he can find .

I doubt very much you will find it easy to leave you sound smart yet "love" makes us very daft and dumb.

I wouldnt even suggest a divorce straight away even if you just move out for some time.

A lady I know did that to her cheating husband he had the shock of his life he was useless without her constantly crying like a bitch to all her friends and family to help him beg her. She left him for a good 10months and he changed everyone told her to just leave him but she didnt and for her it worked. He regretted all his actions and ever since he has really changed to the shock of us all.

At the end of the day its your decision if you want to stay are you really going to be happy?

Or are you just too scared to leave because you fear the unknown?

WOW what a mess.

He wont change because he knows you wont leave him you will only be upset for a while then you will go back to your normal ways.
Its very easy for us to tell you to leave him. But you sound comfortable and one of the things you fear is having to go into rented accomadation and raise your son on your own but arent you doing that anyway hes hardly around.

Sorry if I missed it before but do you work?
You are better off as a single parent than raising your son in a household where your husband cant even give you common respect and treats you like a housemaid. He doesnt love YOU he loves the fact that you are a doormat and no matter what he does you will be there waiting.

In the long run you will lose. You will be unhappy and become his stalker watching his every move and constantly checking up on him while he has the time of his life shagging everything with a vagina that he can find .

I doubt very much you will find it easy to leave you sound smart yet "love" makes us very daft and dumb.

I wouldnt even suggest a divorce straight away even if you just move out for some time.

A lady I know did that to her cheating husband he had the shock of his life he was useless without her constantly crying like a bitch to all her friends and family to help him beg her. She left him for a good 10months and he changed everyone told her to just leave him but she didnt and for her it worked. He regretted all his actions and ever since he has really changed to the shock of us all.

At the end of the day its your decision if you want to stay are you really going to be happy?

Or are you just too scared to leave because you fear the unknown?

Negro_Ntns:

Lady T. . .kneel down in front of me.

In recognition of your endless wisdom and generosity to the cause of peace and justice in Nairaland you are here today to be honored, may it be witnessed by all and sundry. You have served well as a model for all women.

By the power endowed upon me as the Grand Knight of the Order of TCA, Nairaland Chapter, I, Negro_Nations do solemnly and dutifully hereby place upon your divine head the jewelled Crown of Mother Moremi and conferr upon you the honorable title of MC . . with this honor comes a key which gives you access into the innermost chambers of human knowledge and secrets. Upon the completion of this rite, you shall become a sitting member in the inner mediation council and serve as one of the King's counsellor and adviser.

Congratulations!!

whitelexi:

I believe in karma, what u give is what u get returned. . . 

Still the dude is a Arrow!

What were u thinking when u married a club guy? someone who loves the club sooo much that he works there. . .

I only worry about a 6yr old son in the middle of this mess. . . Another street yob to bug me on my way back home from a hard day's job!!!

Ebonyeyes:

You see what Im saying, some men will defend cheating scumbags but if the case were reversed these same men will be calling for the lynching of the woman. PHUCKING Hypocrites.

whitelexi:

Sorry luv. . . End of the day, its a man's world and there's nothing u can do about it. . . People i know that sound just like u end up with men who hold them down - tight!
Take even mother beyonce for instance, she can rant all the shaite she rants in her songs but she gets home at night and Jay-Z will ask her to sit her ass down, and thats where it ends

@Topic: I've seen enough of these London break-ups/cheating issues to know that i cannot make a decision based on only one side, especially when that side is the woman's!