AlexCk:
Tor,

Well, im no expert on relationship, but i think u should communicate with ur guy, n tell him how u feel about it.

Communication doesn't harm no one

trust me, such a man would have erection during communication. they would eventually communicate their way to more rounds....

I'm surprised about all the talk of fornication and pre marital sex being bad and a sin.
This is the 21st century not the middle ages. As long as sex is between 2 consenting adults then as far as I'm concerned there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Sex is love, for a man.