mccoy47:
Was just stating the obvious. Anyways, u'r wlcm

Alright

This happened yterday. We've been 2geda for 2 straight years now and we're cool with each other. She has broken up with me on two different occassions for silly reasons and eventually asked to get back together - of course I agreed(really love her). She asked to meet me at my workplace for d 1st time, unfortunately I was laid off that same day so I couldn't say yes to d date(didn't tell her tho). Actually thought we shld meet nonetheless, so I called bk to agree to meet ysterday. Waited for hours, called her, line was down, kept calling til she picked. I asked where she was and d reply I got was 'I'm not coming again' I got pissed and ended d call. Waited till I calmed dwn and was stable; den called her back and tis time, demanded an explanation why she ruined d date. Surprisingly, she told me she's nver gonna tell me y she bliped up bcus I ended d call earlier. Tryd explaining wat her explnation mean to me, as I ws alrdy hving a bd day due to d job loss. But she nvr gve any. 'll caling agn mke me luk weak?

Frankmiles:
This happened yterday. We've been 2geda for 2 straight years now and we're cool with each other. She has broken up with me on two different occassions for silly reasons and eventually asked to get back together - of course I agreed(really love her). She asked to meet me at my workplace for d 1st time, unfortunately I was laid off that same day so I couldn't say yes to d date(didn't tell her tho). Actually thought we shld meet nonetheless, so I called bk to agree to meet ysterday. Waited for hours, called her, line was down, kept calling til she picked. I asked where she was and d reply I got was 'I'm not coming again' I got pissed and ended d call. Waited till I calmed dwn and was stable; den called her back and tis time, demanded an explanation why she ruined d date. Surprisingly, she told me she's nver gonna tell me y she bliped up bcus I ended d call earlier. Tryd explaining wat her explnation mean to me, as I ws alrdy hving a bd day due to d job loss. But she nvr gve any. 'll caling agn mke me luk weak?

It's not about looking weak bro, it's about preserving your dignity. Give her sometime before you call. Something hugely impacting is going on in your life: you lost you job.

Now is not the time to focus on romance, try and calm yourself down and then plan out ways to go about getting another job. That's where your energy should be and not trying to explain to someone who has shown you so much scorn and disrespect. Perhaps you can call her in another week if she doesn't call you. But please, remember that you come first!

WriteBoy:



It's not about looking weak bro, it's about preserving your dignity. Give her sometime before you call. Something hugely impacting is going on in your life: you lost you job.

Now is not the time to focus on romance, try and calm yourself down and then plan out ways to go about getting another job. That's where your energy should be and not trying to explain to someone who has shown you so much scorn and disrespect. Perhaps you can call her in another week if she doesn't call you. But please, remember that you come first!

Thanks Bro. Did exactly as you advised; ignored her for days until she called and we mutually straightened things out. Not gotten lucky with a new job though. I'll keep searching nonetheless.

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Ishilove:

This kind of comment is expected from you because I watched your brain climb over 3rd Mainland bridge railings and dive into the Lagoon. It even made Nairaland frontpage.

Lol. Na wa for me sef