PokeTotoBoy:

U like it I see... allow me impress u more. Who know the impression can lead us to boundaries we never knew existed. Have u been to mars before?

Quinn22:
The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

Halfpenny:


Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.

a
man who really wants you will move mountains to
be with you, and will not be deterred by the fact
that he’s got some competition.
“In fact, this slight competition might actually fire
his desire to step up and claim you even more
aggressively.”

henryhemon:


And you haven't seen where they end up getting married after a year or months? You choose to take the side that favors you.

Ladies its up to you to take or throw away the advise. No one needs to advise anyone cuz the result always shows.

Quinn22:
Nope, I heard that place has no oxygen and life. I prefer planet earth. Btw today is earth day. Happy earth day!

Bumbae1:

Ok o i wont listen my eye don blind seff
Kedu

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

kimbra:
Lol, I am sorry if my tone was harsh. You NL guys are fond of bashing women over trivial things. You needn't mention collecting money 'cause some ladies don't go into relationships with the sole purpose of milking their boyfriends.

sonofLuci:



Good girl, oya text me your number via mail, I don tire for all this mail chat them.

Antoeni:
End time Expert, if he knew his wife was dating four men d same time with him ,am so sure he wouldn't have married her

PokeTotoBoy:

Dude how is your father. Send my regards

majekdom2:
what happens after the marriage? Will you rather remain in a marriage as hell or stay single. I will share my experience. So, I had this chic we bee dating for 3 years. Issues started coming up and yea things started going apart. One day, I checked into her Facebook page and saw she was discussing marriage with different men even in other countries. It left me depressed a I wa not ready then. We later went our different ways. Long story short, she is still single, we talked and she was ready to continue with me bu the truth is I have been loved differently and still in love with a girl that has stuck with me regardless the odds. Even if I find out this babe is doing something fishy, I ll know I have messed up. My point is, this principle is based on selfish interest. It doesn't hold. Marry your bestfriend, your lover not just a "proposer" for the sake of your marriage and kids.

sonofLuci:



LOL you be fool o

PokeTotoBoy:


But my foolishness no reach your own na... I blame the agents of luci that are abound. Who u co blame?

majekdom2:
you may not comprehend fully. You defended the " not sleeping with all of them" but you will be sleeping with some. So, I mentioned virgin as that's why you may have a no sex relationship. What will you be termed when your suitor finds out you had multiple partners and you may have had more??

majekdom2:
Yes, and what difference does it make infact 90 percent of guys will.

Quinn22:
I call it luck

babyfaceafrica:
you must not sleep with all of them,but you can collect money from them all..nice narrative

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

kimbra:
Ditto!, God bless you. At times people read articles but fail to grasp the message. It's the order of the day on this section.

Halfpenny:
This makes perfect sense. No body said that you should sleep with them at all but you should go out on dates until one proposes commitment. This is nothing to do with sex to those shouting slut! It's about meeting other men and having a pool of men to choose from instead of waiting for 1 man to decide if he really wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Biggest pro of this kinda set up is that you won't be too attached to one man. I will definitely be considering it.

Rebuke:
It doesn't matter how rational this sounds, no sensible guy will b serious with a lady he knows is seeing other guys.

I mean, wat sort of rubbish idea is dat? I don't double date n can't date a lady to whom I'm one of her lab rats....

Ladies, obey d yeye xpert at yhur own peril.

MrBrownJay1:
Useless ignorant bloggers who turn into experts/counselors overnight. NONSENSE!!

Babamide:
A lady with more than one partner would be called a slut. A guy with more than one partner is called a player. It is just our culture. It can only work out if the female population is extremely lower than the male population

henryhemon:


I wish you well in your thoughts pattern.

kennydotkom:


Am a man. I think I support this concept only for a very sound self control woman that wont easly fall for sugar qouted mouth man. because. Whatever that doesnot jv competition wont hv value. But a woman that do not sleep with any of them in this process so as to keep theirself exteem