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Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
mrphysics:I see you feel the man race is being emasculated by tonto's act, but I don't know why men feel threatened that a woman wants to be both to her child?isnt that part of the being indepent? point of correction ,behind every baby mama is a baby daddy,that she even has the sense of responsiblity to keep the pregnancy and take care of her child while the baby daddy continues his life and galivants around deserves commendation not condemnation When a man already has that mentality that all a woman has to offer is sex, that is all he will see,even if she is 100% wife material By the way,you keep using "I" ,how many "you" do you think is out there?,aleast you concluded by saying "we" cos both gender share in the blame ,I for one am worried for the next generation. Lest I forget,what has the government got to do with it? |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by jnrbayano(m): 7:12pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
cococandy: Nice |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:05pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
emusmithy:if they mistakenly do eh, the owner of the skirtbshoukd use razor blade to design the person's whatever. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: See as your pics fine die...girls and razor blade sha. I'm about releasing another thread tonight sef |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:25pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
emusmithy:I hope it's not about ladies sha. Cos u guys can talk about ladies such that I begin to wonder if most male nairalanders were ladies in their first life. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by mrphysics(m): 8:31pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
2dugged:You have not come up with facts. You keep recycling what I have already said. In an organized society, issues like we have in Nigeria is not seen. In a place where unemployment rate is low, people become responsible and reason well. But here, the male child has a lot to do, so bringing women cunniness into the game is out of it. Do you ever imagine the things that occupy the mind of the girl child? You know the answer already. Women want to be both mother and father? Maybe I want to back off at this point 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:56pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
[quote author=emusmithy post=57731415] See as your pics fine die...girls and razor blade sha. I'm about releasing another thread tonight sef [/quotei hope it's not about ladies?] |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Here's the secret: Ladies wears and accessories are the most expensive in the market. Threads on ladies are undoubtedly the fanciest |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
mrphysics:I wonder where you own facts are , don't tell me it all those your regurgitated perceptions based on gender sentiments you call facts, hehehehehehe you mentioned how a woman dresses up as a man to her child's school like it was some sacrilege. since the father deliberately removed himself from the picture, she is supposed to be commended for multi tasking . I guess the male child has too much on his hands to be cunny, well done,it haff do. By the way,I never invited you on my mention, you invited yourself,so you are free to back out |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
Nnemuka:oh but i thought some of u ladies got jungle fever love for sugar daddies na abi d paddy no get money? |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by 61Penguins: 10:38pm On Jun 21, 2017 |
ibkayee:jst want 2 c ur pix |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Wryhder: 12:38am On Jun 22, 2017 |
Tearless:I couldn't have said it better. It is just so narrow-minded, the perception some folks have of marriage. The Sense is strong with you. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by luciouscookie: 2:12am On Jun 22, 2017 |
cococandy:You are not far from the truth. Wish you good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by cococandy(f): 5:41am On Jun 22, 2017 |
luciouscookie:Same to you 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 6:04am On Jun 22, 2017 |
MedusaClad: and then give the remaining crumbs to an unsuspecting hard working man , the idiot has not idea he has a 65% chance of fathering a bastard. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by bencarson007(m): 8:48am On Jun 22, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Easy o You might just chase ur potential husband away... Marriage is the icing on the cake for every woman Don't play smarter than yourself o Anyways what do I know? Ur life, ur rules... #respects |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by ibkayee(f): 9:39am On Jun 22, 2017 |
61Penguins:Scanned your posts quickly and you're a Yoruba basher so, no lol 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by poik(m): 11:27am On Jun 22, 2017 |
Tearless: A story was once told of a child who suddenly developed insatiable appetite for anything rubber. He would nibble at his flip-flops, rubber band, handle of his watch, chew and swallow it with no side effect. When the worried parents consulted a doctor, the child was found to be deficient in sulphur. It is not just a bold statement to say that a human being needs food to stay alive; it is a matter of fact. Anyone who survives without eating, what would you think of that person? Will you just congratulate anyone who comes up to say he has lived twenty years without food? My brother, i said I have heard these ladies whine to my ears o. And I am convinced it is a natural response to a divine need. Anyone with contrary view of marriage is 1. not married and is either influenced or indoctrinated against it by the infinitesimal negativity surrounding it, 2. married and has had some bad experience in it. This is still not enough to convince me that marriage is altogether bad bro, or not worth it. You talked about how many good marriages there are. May i ask what your statistical basis is, or are, and if it is media, i am sorry to say you have joined the bandwagon of people who have played directly into the schemes of deliberate opinion shapers. My brother, if you know how easy it is to mould public opinion by means of mass media, you will be careful about what you believe in the news. Can you comfortably say that everything you hear that happens in Aso Rock is the truth? We both know the answer to that. There is a force directly and deliberately trying to change things and suit its programme by churning out sponsored material determined against natural course of things. These same thing gives rationality to homosexuality, gender equality, and many such vices contrary to ordained processes of life. Think about it. Why is there currently an upsurge in 'domestic violence', all of a sudden, everywhere you turn today? I have never said that marriage is perfect, and you cannot tell me you will resign from your workplace. because your colleague offended you, or you won't work anymore. You won't rusticate yourself from the university because your course mate fought with you. Think about it. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 11:52am On Jun 22, 2017 |
poik:There's no correlation. Many people survive more than 20 years without men in their lives, while some even survive it for a life-time. You can't live without food for that long, can you? You can't tell me that all celibate people - nuns, Reverend Fathers, Bishops, The Pope, et all, are all unhappy and not doing well. Again, you made a VOID point.. My brother, i said I have heard these ladies whine to my ears o. And I am convinced it is a natural response to a divine need. Anyone with contrary view of marriage is 1. not married and is either influenced or indoctrinated against it by the infinitesimal negativity surrounding it, 2. married and has had some bad experience in it. This is still not enough to convince me that marriage is altogether bad bro, or not worth it.The three reasons you gave are nothing but mere assumptions. They're baseless. And no where have I claimed that marriage is bad or not worth it. Did you forget the crux of our argument? It is that NO WOMAN can live a happy, fulfilled life without being married to a man. And, this myth being peddled by ignorant people is what I'm aggressively opposed to. It's bullsh!te. Yes, balls of pernicous faeces shooting out of the cosmic anus. You talked about how many good marriages there are. May i ask what your statistical basis is, or are, and if it is media, i am sorry to say you have joined the bandwagon of people who have played directly into the schemes of deliberate opinion shapers. My brother, if you know how easy it is to mould public opinion by means of mass media, you will be careful about what you believe in the news. Can you comfortably say that everything you hear that happens in Aso Rock is the truth? We both know the answer to that.Neither you nor I know the number of good marriages out there. But it's still an incontrovertible fact that you cannever know how your marriage will turn out - whether good or bad, so it doesn't GUARANTEE happiness. If certain people decide that they do not want to get married and love their single life the way it is, who are you to tell them that they can never find true happiness in that way? Getting married is a matter of choice and it is not the most important thing in the world There is a force directly and deliberately trying to change things and suit its programme by churning out sponsored material determined against natural course of things. These same thing gives rationality to homosexuality, gender equality, and many such vices contrary to ordained processes of life. Think about it. Why is there currently an upsurge in 'domestic violence', all of a sudden, everywhere you turn today?Errr..... Sorry, I'm not a fan of conspiracy theories. I have never said that marriage is perfect, and you cannot tell me you will resign from your workplace. because your colleague offended you, or you won't work anymore. You won't rusticate yourself from the university because your course mate fought with you. Think about it.We're not discussing perfection here - afterall, NOTHING is perfect - we're discussing happiness and fulfillment. Again, you went off-topic. 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by poik(m): 12:13pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Tearless: There are three reasons why I will pull the plug on this discourse at this point: 1. That someone as rational as you believes that Reverend Fathers and bishops who are NOT eunuchs for the kingdom of God are truly celibate. 2. That you don't seem to see a correlation between how important psychology is to man as food is. That you call it an assumption for a widely testified inference to be drawn from a time-tested instance. 3. That you call the Creator of man ignorant. Nice day. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
poik:It's your religious inclination that has made your brain not to be as conducive for clear thought on this matter as it ought to be. I can see where the persistence is coming from. This is why it's always problematic having an argument with Abrahamists. I do not know about any creator of man, but I know the Abrahamic God to be one hell of a capricious, megalomaniacal, misogynistic being. Try as much as possible not to let religious beliefs becloud your thought process. It was nice chatting with you. Have a wonderful day ahead. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by djon78(m): 12:35pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Personally modern day educated women are more of this number not married. Also there a lot of men late 30s not married mostly because of poor economic condition. For the women it has more to do with attitude and modern mindset. All through history women are meant to be subservient, sub missive and obedient to men. Even this trend was also prevalent in our parents days. But fast forward to today, education, job, modernisation has seen a lot of Women challenging that status quo of Men being in charge. Their attitude to men's leadership feeling they are equal to Men. But fight it as it may be Men are still leaders that is the way nature made it. But you find that women that understand their role still end up getting married, and building great homes. Like I always advice my younger ones, once you are 21, begin to be ready for marriage, pray about it, that God will enable them to find a good man and get married and use that their young feminine features to produce offspring for their husband. Also other factors like upbringing matters a lot. I will give example from my immediate family. My mum had 5 girls. My Mum was a career woman in health she retired as a Director in Govt parastatal. But with her career she was loyal to her husband my Dad. She also raised her daughters that way: build your career but also be loyal, respectful and obedient to your husband. All my sisters are graduates( 2 are Doctors, 1 is a manager in a leading telecom Company in VI Lagos) our last born a girl is in 3rd year in uni. Those my 3 sisters are married with kids, there age is BTW the ages of 36 to 28 presently. They have good homes, there husbands don't play with them. Though they still encounter challenges because no marriage is a bed of roses but it all about working on it. My sister the one that is 36 has a lot of her mates ladies that are still not married while she is already done with childbirth, a fledging career and a good home. women are not like men, women blossom from their teens to 25/26 that is the best window to pray and find a man to use all those your blossom and bear children for him as a wife. The scary thing now is that the age window is even dropping down. Most guys now because of these modern attitudes are now even going for younger women of early 20 21 22 23 24 that will listen and be loyal to them. Young women must be very wise and understand the trends today: therefore should get education, be career wise but still know you must be loyal, submit and be obedient to a husbad, therefore praying for define guidance to end up with a good man 2 Likes |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by troy20(m): 1:00pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
selflessmaya: 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by poik(m): 1:11pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Tearless: I can also see where the determined rationality is coming from, an avowed inclination of believing that everything begins and ends with the five senses. Its not your fault, really, but I am not as cheated as you are, maybe that's what makes us different. The one proponent of the captivity of ration I know, knows far better than this. Even within the borders of what they eyes can see and what the brain can transmit, you haven't been able to knock off my assertions concretely. But no wahala. Whether Abrahamic or Pauline, that misogynistic, capricious and megalomaniac God is the reason you have the fingers and energy for this. You should understand that ration and reason takes credit for less and less these days. 1 Like |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
poik:Your tendency to jump into conclusions without thinking deep and the hastiness with which you judge others on no concrete basis portray you as extremely irrational. No where in any of my posts on this thread, directed at you or any other person, have I stated my beliefs and philosophy. You have a pathological penchant for making assumptions out of the blue, without the slightest bit of justification. I'll implore you to take a deep breath and calm down the turbulence in your brain. It will do you a great lot of good. Its not your fault, really, but I am not as cheated as you are, maybe that's what makes us different. The one proponent of the captivity of ration I know, knows far better than this.Bullsh!t predicated on the false judgement you hastily arrived at on my person. You wrote nonsense. Even within the borders of what they eyes can see and what the brain can transmit, you haven't been able to knock off my assertions concretely. But no wahala.I've knocked them off too many times with subtance harder than concrete that blaming your inability to see that on me can only mean that you have a thing for pathological dishonesty. Whether Abrahamic or Pauline, that misogynistic, capricious and megalomaniac God is the reason you have the fingers and energy for this. You should understand that ration and reason takes credit for less and less these days.This kind of nonsense deserves only a one-line response like this. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:18pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
emusmithy: |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:hehehe, for your ears only. Ladies may complain about how expensive weavons are but they still buy. They may rant and spew hate about threads of this sort but they still take time to read it and somewhat comment, mostly admire the Op...ooops! |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 4:00pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
emusmithy:haha hahaha U are not serious. So it is their attention that you have been indirectly seeking for all this while. Anyway, u didn't get my attention cause I'm still busy counting my teeth. |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by vicben27(m): 4:36pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:make you dy use that shiit take console urself |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Lols, not really. I'm warming this place up |
Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:59pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
emusmithy:are u the minister for warming affairs? Make sure u don't missuse the money that was allocated to that ministry o. Cos I don't think warmness has reached my side. . Abi u don't answer to 5percenters? Lol |
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